​Why Proposing to Him! By Olumide Akindiya, Esq.

Waiting for your fiances to propose to you shows that you fall under these following categories:

Fiancees that are not ready;

Fiancees that believe their fiances are not ripe for marriage;

Fiancees that are not confident to take charge;

Fiancees that want to be parasites to their future wives;

Fiancees that are unstable as water as regards making final decision to settle with one out of many women;

Fiancees that are studying their fiances for one reason or the other, particularly relationship between young ones;

Fiancees who are either jobless or houseless. That is still living in their parents’ houses;

Fiancees that are not really interested but enjoying the company and sexual relationship;

Fiancees likely to have ladies being nurtured to get married to in future;

Fiancees that are already married but their wives that far away from their abodes;

Fiancees that lack focus and respect for women and

Fiancees that do not know the purpose of marriage and what it takes to endure, understand, forgive and maintain good communication with their fiances.
In all, it is not advisable to propose to man especially that you don’t know his intention. Proposing to a man is like license to wife battery, inhuman treatment and lack of value by a Captain who is supposed to be the head but silent like deaf and dump. Why him and not any other man?