In a world where ‘Baby Mamas’ are on the rise, according to renowned Lawyer, Olumide Akindiya, there are somethings you can still do to keep them forever.
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My 10 germane things to attract and keep real men forever (understand some men don’t want to marry, but have children for you to nurture):
1) Care about their careers; feelings and efforts at work or their visions with readiness to motivate him continuously.
2) Work on your appearance to look appealing and address unpredictably, but decently. Please, ensure you are fashionable to determine what they wear to events, dinners, etc.
3)Be a good cook and be hardworking. Please, if you don’t know how to cook different common varieties of food, it only shows weakness of half-baked trainning from your parents’ house. Buy cookery book and not engage househelp to do good cook. Men love good food and drinks of their choice.
4)Be knowledgeable and show intelligence. If you are empty upstairs, your men will prefer sharing ideas, projects, careers, etc with friends and reach decision even when it is home affairs.
5)Be submissive and not like a slave. There is no equality in marriage, when you are submissive, you will become the neck in future while your man will be the head. In home decision, he will embrace your views most times if you are intelligent.
5)Good character and never show impression that you can hurt people (Fear of God). Importantly, be quiet when your men are extremely angry. Later, if they are real men, they will see themselves as fools shouting to mirrors. If your ‘mouth’ is too abusive, it can lead to wife battery as it is of old from our fore-fathers.
6)Never keep malice and tell anyone any dispute between both of you because if you forgive him, you have already built hatred among third parties. These third parties are families, friends, associates, etc.
7)Don’t allow your men to bath alone and sleep alone always. Night is the magical time with inviting night gown and perfume.
8)Buy your men gifts once in a while even if they are richer. It is not the value of the gifts, it is your willingness and impliedly telling them you are their helpers too.
9)Let your men have impression that you can do anything for them to make them achieve their purpose in life and meet social, and economical worries.
10)Show skills of raising great children who will be better than both of you in life. So be more prayerful and train your children that when both of you are alive, they are achieving their visions independently. –
Olumide Akindiya, Lawyer, Writer & Public Speaker.