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Bishop Peace Okonkwo Opens up on 35 Years of Marital Bliss with TREM’s BIshop ” Life with him is quite Interesting but not without challenges”

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Life with my Mike Okonkwo, is an interesting one but not without challenges. “Since I married him about 35 years ago, God has really been our helper all the way. I told you there were challenges we had our own share. But the bible says we should look onto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith. And because we agree together, we overcome. The bible says if two will agree together many things shall be done. We always stand in faith trusting God to help us. Throughout these challenges God has really been our helper and he has seen us through. It is not been all rosy. Anyone who tells you that everything has been beautiful is not true. There have been ups and downs but we just hang in there. There is not else you can do because you can’t run from God. When it comes to God, you run to Him. When there are challenges He is the only one who will see you through all the challenges. I will say it has been 35 years of God’s faithfulness, helping us; helping us in the ministry and home. He has helped us thus far to be able to bring up our daughter.  By the next few months, she is going to get married so God has been good. In this wonderful encounter with her, she opened up on her family and other sundry issues…

How did you meet Bishop?

It is a long story. It used to be in one of the churches. You know when the civil war ended, people were seeking God. Everybody wanted to get close to God because we lost everything. In one of the churches, we the young ones, came into that church because we felt we needed God now, that was where I met him and it was in a church. I didn’t meet him first, I met the senior sister. The woman sort of took likeness of me. She likes me so much. Because Bishop at that time was very shy, he couldn’t talk to a woman. He is a very shy person, his sister was the one who said my brother likes you. I said which brother? Because they are all brothers; she said the one that is a banker. I said we will talk about it. So, one thing led to one another.

What was it that you saw in him that you liked?

The first time, I didn’t like anything because he felt he was arrogant because of his family background. The first time I said what is wrong with this young man why is he cocky?

How did he convince you to leave your secular job to join the ministry?

He didn’t convince me. I knew it was time because we all started the ministry together.  He is someone who is hungry for God’s word. And whenever he wants to do anything, he pursues it.  He wanted to travel abroad. And then, he went. But he said God spoke to him. I was also very much involved in the work of the ministry. I have been an usher, I sand in the choir. So I got involved in all the various departments. And I was work at the defunct Fincom, at Adeniyi Jones in those days. He said God told him that its time I give up the job. But he didn’t tell me. He told God if it is true that you are saying it talk to her. When he came back, the then board met with us and said with your input why don’t you come full time into the ministry? I said to them I will pray about it. I am the first out of many children. I have a lot of sister and brothers. They all depend on me including my mum because my father is late. When I was praying I told God, I said God it is you that will tell me what to do when I talk to my mum and she agrees that means it’s you. The money I usually send to her for upkeep that means I won’t be able to meet up. I spoke to her. When I had my first child, my mum came down so I told her. She just said: ‘the Lord will provide.’ I threw in the towel because of that and decided to join the ministry.

What was the first two years with Bishop like?

35 years what can I remember? Bishop is somebody that can defend you anytime. He loves you, he stands for you. He is not somebody that will deny you when the chips are down. He will stand for you one he knows you are doing the right thing. One or two things I know he likes to cook. He will also teach you how to do it. It is so funny that he came from a background where they are about six boys they always had people who lived them who did all the cooking. I don’t know how he learnt how to cook this vegetable soup. There was a day he said let me teach you and he is a funny person. To play game with Bishop, you will fall on the floor while playing with him especially Ludo game. If he is the one winning, just resign to your fate. He will make you laugh in such a way that you wont feel bad loosing.

Looking at your experience with bishop, what is your take on women, men handling household chores in a marriage?

I believe that a man should help the wife. Thank God for this part of the world where we have people who can help us. Abroad, the man does his part, the woman does her part. I believe in Nigeria it should be the same. I have walked up to one of my pastors’ house one day and I met the man cutting Okro. They just came back from abroad. The people who know about it said ‘eh, come and see pastor so and so.’ And I said what is wrong with that? If the man can help in anyway; why not? Don’t force it on him let it be out of his own freewill.

 

How much interest do you take in how Bishop appears outside?

Bishop is very stylish and he can put things together. My daughter tells me that if I want to buy anything for her that her father must see it first. I don’t really care about fashion, all I know is just wear good cloths and be clean but my husband is really into it.

 

How do you feel about him turning 70?

I will say it is God’s doing because everywhere I go people ask me what I am giving to him because he looks younger. I have begged him to reduce his schedule but he won’t. He just tells me all I need do for him is pray for him. As I was coming back from Aba on Monday, he was coming back from Warri and he is not around today.

 

How do you cope with your husband’s absence most of the time?

Me too my schedule has increased but I know that he has to go and be used by God. That is what gives him joy and I want him to be happy.

 

Are there times in your life that in your life that you have looked back and ask God questions such as why He called your husband into the ministry?

 

When we were facing trails, I told God that it was rather too much. I got married and the next week, he went to Sambigo for 6 months. We went to Ghana and came back for few days and the women said they have never seen something like that. I knew he has to go because God needs his attention. I knew God will need his time and that is why I use this to talk to my pastor’s wives. When they want to work with me, I prepare them, this work demands urgency, so they must be able to hold on to it and pray for their husbands.

 

Do you remember some memorable moments together with Bishop?

We went to his friend’s place in US, he loves motor bike. And we were on motor bikes together but we didn’t move. Bishop is quiet interesting. I am a football lover and Tennis and am a Chelsea fan. Bishop is Manchester United. When we watch football we sit on the carpet of our sitting room to watch it. Because I love Tennis, he became interested in Tennis. Those moments we watch tennis together, we laugh. Sunday evening especially, we love to relax.

 

Which is your favourite city in the world and why?

I like Isreal because of the God aspect. The other places I have been to, I am always in or out of the hotel to do something. Except few places that i move around to see the town. For Nigeria, I like Uyo. I had my first experience two years ago.

 

What are some of the achievements you have made from your women’s meeting over the years?

God has been gracious. We started like a mustard seed. If you come here last Thursday of the month, you will see that about 3 to 4000 women here. The women know my passion. When I went for a conference, I discovered that women were dying of  cancer that can be treated. So when I turned 60, they planned a concert which we went for and now we are going from state to state, testing the women. We get doctors and pay the doctors to treat them. we also do widows empowerment, maybe because my mother is a widow. She is still alive, she is 85. At a time, God spoke to me about how my mother had toiled and I needed to start doing something for them. I sent some people to one of the villages during Christmas and these women prayed for me from 9 0’clock  to 4 0’clock and they have never met me. They said how God can talk to somebody in Lagos. When the school in Nigeria was facing depression, I said is this how our children were going to go? That gave birth to Word of Power Group of Schools. We just opened a Secondary school in Asaba and everything that God has used me to pioneer comes out of a burden. You can go to our acquisition centre and see for yourself. Today girls are pregnant and they have come to this place. Their parents must have chased them out of the house or the person that impregnated them is nowhere to be found. I take them to this home, make them go to the hospital, pay the hospital bills and educate them that when they have their babies, they decide what to do with the babies; I don’t get involved in that. Nobody will do anything. My interest is that you must either go to school or learn a vocation. We were able to train 3 graduates because they live in the home, come to church and go to their vocations. The ones that wants to go to the universities, we sponsor them.

 

How do you surprise daddy?

It is very difficult to surprise daddy because he will know where you are coming from but I am going to surprise him this 70th birthday. He is so sensitive.

 

What are the things you share in common?

So many things. Like this morning, when we finished prayer, we started talking, Uche joined us. He doesn’t like Toothpaste pressed from the middle and am used to it. We eat together and we do exercise together in our compound. We play table tennis together.

 

How do you advise women in your church on seeking God’s face while looking for life partners?

I advise them to like the person and when you start praying, certain things will happen and God will lead you. We were quarrelling all the time in that church and he found out that he is so fond of me. Don’t allow anyone to tell you this is your husband.

 

As a female bishop how has it been working with other female ministers and bishops?

I have not really come to work with other female bishops. It is only mama when we did the work of the Chibok girls. I work with a lot of pastors. Here we have about 25 male pastors and they know that when I want something done, they do it. I have both wonderful male and female pastors here. We have a lot of good pastors that can preach and teach the word and handle different areas of the ministry because we have to pass the baton. We can’t be in it forever. That is why we are so much involved in the young ones. We have ordained so many pastors because we have to ensure there won’t be any vacuum when we leave.

 

What are you family values?

In the family I believe that a husband and wife should see things the same way and there should be an alter in the family. The way things are going everywhere, it is hard for people to have a family alter because a family that pray together stay together. Training of the children is very vital. You must pray about their schools and other things.

 

What advice do you have for women and men who get into corruption?

We are praying and I believe that in our life time, God will give us the Nigeria of our dreams. We will see the dividends of democracy. We need to tie our belts because corruption has eaten deep and there must be drastic measures taken. We just have to pray for those in authority. We have started the campaign in 2012. We have done screening for 8,000 women in different states. 12,000 men and women have enjoyed free medical screening because they check that BP. We have de-warmed about 5,000 children at each centre and the drugs are given free.

 

Can you talk about people you admire in the ministry?

The ministry started when there was no woman as a pastor. We started the women ministry. There was no mentor then and now there are so many ministers now. We have mama Idahosa, Mummy Mercy, Rev Roseline and so many others but we pioneered the female pastors.

 

What is the next step for you now?

As the door opens, we go into it. I don’t just do something because I want to do. I do something because I am led to. All these things were borne out of passion. When I noticed that the skill acquisition centre here was doing well. I had to build one in the village, which was dedicated in December. We have over 30 students there now, both male and female. Male do barbing and other things. We got the teachers from Lagos and sent them there. The ladies do dress making and other things. In May we visited and I wept because I saw transformation. One woman said to me that she had been in the village doing nothing and her children hardly eat but now she makes cake. People come to do cake for their wedding. My family menu has changed. A young man said he has wanted to do computer but he couldn’t afford it. He said but we brought it to them. When I saw the development, I said if this is all God wants me to do in life, them am fulfilled. All I need is put a value in somebody’s life. This way, the world will be a better place.

 

Have circumstances of life taught you anything?

Yes. It has made me know that we have to sit where people have sat. That is a big teacher. A man called me yesterday from the village and thanked me that he had finished university. The man has five children but couldn’t train them. When I heard it, I gave one of the girls a scholarship. Her parents called me and told me she had finished and thanked me. There is this girl that her father said she will kill because she got pregnant. I put her in my home and have her baby and she has gone back to school today. When you have an opportunity to help somebody, please do. It is God that shows mercy.

 

What is your take on single parenting?

It is not biblical and it is not right. If you find yourself in such situation, we can’t condemn you. One of my ladies here wedded last year and she is 47 years. For every woman, there is a man. Your time will come. If something happens along the line, how will you train that child?

 

What are some of the values you got from your mother?

She is a prayer warrior; I told her the other day to stop fasting. I made her not to more than 12. She said that is what she did to bring her children up. When her husband died, she went on her knees and that is one of the things I learnt from her. My daughter is now a pastor. When I had her, I told God that I will have her for some time and give her back to God. I didn’t tell her but I watched her grow that way. When she went to do her A levels abroad, I put all the Jesus I can inside her before she left. I didn’t just tell her, she saw it in my character. When she was eight, Saturday she will do her homework. She will stay in the morning till evening inside doing her homework. When she was going out to study, she was 17. I visited her in one of the period she was in school; her corner was very arranged unlike others. It was a foundation she had from the beginning. I later told her what I told God and she and her husband have to work it out. You don’t let children do what they feel like.

 

What is your final word on family relationships in the home?

I will tell them to pray together and stick together no matter what you are passing through. Share your family issues and be open to yourselves, believe God for the best and serve God.

 

What is your message for bishop on his birthday?

Man of God, you know I love you so much and apart from God, you are the best thing that happened to me. My prayer for you is keep on keeping on. The lord is with you and I will love you till I die.

 

 

 

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THE ENEMY WITHIN

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AHMAD GUMI: CLERIC OF BLOOD, FACE OF HATE 

THE ENEMY WITHIN

By Chief Femi Fani-Kayode

The enemy within smirks, mocks and laughs when our President slips and falls to the floor in far away Turkiya.

Oblivious of the fact that a democratically-elected President, whether you like or support him or not, is the living manifestation of our nation and the essence and symbol of our national sovereignty and pride they pray for the worse and celebrate it in the inner recesses of their dark, sinister, twisted and malevolent minds.

They forget that when our President falls it essentially means that our nation falls.

 

They forget that a true patriot is meant to pray for, cheer on and encourage the leader of his country, whether or not he is in opposition, when he is fighting for the future of our people in a foreign land.

 

They whisper to themselves in their closets and bedrooms that “finally, this is his end”.

With glee they say to themselves and to their grubby little minions that “at last we have him!”

They assume the worse and they desire for the worse.

They forget that anyone can slip and fall at anytime and that the Holy Bible says “rejoice not over me, O my enemy; when I fall for I shall rise and when I sit in darkness, the LORD will be a light to me”- Micah 7:8.

They forget that it also says “for a righteous man may fall seven times
and rise again but the wicked shall fall by calamity”- Proverbs 24:16.

It is to the glory of God and to the shame of our detractors and the enemy within that though our President slipped and fell in Turkey before the entire world, he rose again with strength and pride like the phoenix and he went on to negotiate and sign numerous bilateral agreements which will bring security, succour and prosperity to our nation with President Erdoğan of Turkiya.

 

That is the lot of a righteous man and a humble, forgiving and kind-hearted leader and it signifies the fact that the Lord is with him and that the enemy within has failed once again.

Yet they never stop and neither will they ever do so because they are seized of a dark, depraved, diseased and sadistic mind that craves failure and chaos and longs for calamity, tragedy, sorrow, tears and malevolence.

The enemy within just loves it when terrible things happen. Like the accursed masochists that they are, that is their pleasure and delight.

They love to hear the cries of infants and babies and they delight in hearing the wailing of widows and the screaming of orphans.

Consider their reaction to the sad and unfortunate events that took place in Kajuru, Kaduna state earlier this month.

I am as saddened and concerned as anyone else about the abductions of the worshippers that took place there and like everyone else I hope and pray for their rescue and safe return back home at the soonest.

I am however constrained to make the following observations and I do so with pain and sorrow.

The reality is that the enemy within, namely a handful of political leaders in the opposition who seek to undermine and discredit our Government and to destabilise our country and who are working in collaboration with foreign powers are part of those that are secretly encouraging and, I suspect, facilitating the abduction of Christians in Nigeria because they make political capital out of it.

They secretly crave it yet openly condemn it because it suits their purpose and it confirms the narrative that they want to establish.

For some it proves that Christians are being targetted in Nigeria and it plays into the Christian genocide and persecution narrative which the Americans have gladly cottoned on to and for others it feeds the erroneous suggestion that having a Christian candidate for the opposition or a Christian running mate for our President in 2027 are the answers to the problem and the only way of proving that Christians are safe and treated with humanity in our country.

Both views do not fully recognise the depth and complexity of the problem and can therefore be fairly described as simplistic, myopic and misplaced because the situation is much more complex than that.

 

Worse still the specious lies and dubious political motives that fuel this thinking are irresponsible and disingenious.

You cannot play politics with peoples lives and liberty, take advantage of their misery and suffering and use them as pawns in a deadly game of political chess.

Worse still you cannot attempt to distort the narrative, misinform the world and perpetuate and peddle the nonsensical falsehood that only Christians are being abducted and killed by the terrorists in our country and that only Churches are being burnt down whilst Mosques are left standing. This is simply not true.

 

The reality is that Muslims are also being abducted in massive numbers and a more accurate and honest categerisation of the situation we are faced with would have been that both Christian and Muslim Nigerians are “not safe” in parts of Northern Nigeria because of mass abductions and not just Christians.

Even this categorisation may not be accurate and is possibly unfair because it negates the efforts and successes that the the Nigerian military, the Minister of Defence, the Minister of State for Defence, the National Security Advisor and the Nigerian security forces and Intelligence agencies together with numerous notable Governors from the Northern states like the Governor of Kaduna, the Governor of Kwara, the Governor of Yobe, the Governor of Borno, the Governor of Sokoto and a number of other key Northern leaders such as Vice President Kashim Shettima, Senator Abdul Aziz Yari, Senator Aliyu Wamakko, Senator Shehu Umar Buba and a number of others have made in curbing this menace.

 

The truth is that for every person that has been abducted hundreds have been protected and delivered from attempts at abduction and virtually every single one of those that were actually abducted before Kajuru have been rescued and returned home safely.

That in itself is encouraging though it does not negate or underplay the problem we have and the challenge we collectively face.

It simply means that despite the problems and challenges and the politically-motivated expressions of angst and concern of the usual suspects at least some progress is being made.

It is deeply saddening and troubling that ANYONE is abducted or killed in the first place and this represents a failure in our efforts to achieve 100% security for Nigerians in the midst of what is essentially an open and horrendous guerrila war where civilian populations are purposely targetted and a massive and unprecedented armed rebellion and relentless insurgency is in full play.

However we must acknowledge that our successes in this respect both in the prevention of even more killings and abductions and in terms of recovery and rescue of those taken is very good.

 

Sadly people people tend to focus on the failures and remain silent in the face of the successes which is most unfair.

What is even more unfair and extreemly dangerous is to continuously frame the entire matter in religious terms.

I am amongst those that did so in the past but six years ago, after much research and extensive travelling all over the more distant parts of the core North for an investigation into the matter and an extensive 5 week tour my eyes opened and I came to appreciate the fact the Muslims were being targetted with equal ferocity and in equal measure.

 

This is a fact that the media and most Southern Nigerians, for reasons I cannot fathom or comprehend, appear to ignore and choose to play down and it begs the question whether Muslim lives are considered as being as sacred and precious as Christian ones in their eyes?

The criminals and terrorists that carry out these atrocities do not care whether it is Christians or Muslims that they terrorise, traumatise, kill or abduct. They only care that their victims are Nigerians.

Their war is not against Christians alone but against the Nigerian state and the Nigerian people, both Christian and Muslim.

It is in this light that we must view this harrowing challenge and once we do so we will be in a better position to confront it, defeat the enemy, eliminate the threat and put both our local and foreign detractors to shame.

 

Permit me to continue this contribution with a sincere and heartfelt word for Mr. Peter Obi, a notable member of the Nigerian opposition.

I refer to your post on the terrible events that took place in Kajuru on Sunday 18th January 2026.

I share your concerns for the safety of those abducted but unlike you mine are from the heart and I am not expressing those concerns for political gain.

At a time like this we should be praying for the rescue of the worshippers and assisting and encouraging our Government to ensure their safe return.

Instead of doing so you are sheepishly asking “what is happening in our country” as if you, your supporters and your insincere and divisive rhetoric are not part of the problem.

You feign concern and focus on the negative never offering support or giving credit to whom it is due when things go well and are done properly.

 

For example have you ever had the decency or prescence of mind to commend the efforts of the gallant men of our Armed Forces and security agencies or acknowledged the number of people and lives they have successfully defended and saved?

Have you ever considered the fact that many of them are paying the supreme price every day on the frontlines in their attempt to protect and guard the realm and prevent the barbarians from climbing over our walls?

Have you ever thanked them for this or publicly expressed solidarity with or support for them? I doubt it.

Our greatest problem are people like you that openly crave for and secretly celebrate chaos, lawlessness, division and carnage and that see the propagation and execution of such evil as a justification for your futile and pitiful attempt to discredit the Government and gain sympathy and support for yourself.

 

Simply put you seek to harvest the misery of our people in the same way that some harvest human organs and you celebrate their pain, suffering and tears.

 

Relevant here are the words of Mr. Dennis Amachree, a former Assistant Director of the DSS, who said the following:

“most of these mass abductions are carried out to spite the Government in power: there are fifth columnists and complicit actors within the system and by the time the Government reacts the damage has already been done”.

I am constrained to ask whether you are part of those that are actually behind these abductions and insurgency simply for political gain?

 

Let me be clear: this is a question and not an allegation but whatever the answer is (and I do not claim to know it) kindly save your crocodile tears and insincere concern for the welfare and safety of our people whether it be in Kaduna or elsewhere. We know you don’t mean it.

The only thing that is important to you is that all our institutions fail and our nation is burnt to ashes in a religious and ethnic conflagration so that you and your cohorts can divide our country, break it into pieces and share what is left of it amongst yourselves.

Be rest assured that that will NEVER happen and you will NEVER achieve your objectives.

Whatever our challenges may be as a nation and whatever obstacles may be placed in our path, I am persuaded that in peace, love, unity, mutual respect and faith we shall SURELY overcome.

Permit me to add the following.

It has come to my attention that when ESN and IPOB terrorists murder Christians and Muslims in the South East you encourage it by saying nothing and endorse it with your resounding silence.

 

When Muslims are killed in the North, except on the odd occassion, you say nothing because you do not see them as human beings and you could not care less.

When Christians are killed in the North you feign outrage and you celebrate and magnify it, citing it as evidence of “Christian persecution” and “Christian genocide” and encouraging the right-wing lunatic fringe in American politics to latch on to it.

When Christians are not killed in the North you pretend that they are, inflate numbers and fabricate it in an attempt to plant the seeds of religious division and provoke a sectarian war.

What manner of man are you?

 

Why are you so hell bent on destroying our country and shattering the unity that we are trying to establish and preserve?

Is it your desire to be President over a broken, bleeding and dying Nigeria and to preside over the corpse of a great nation like ours that you are evidently so desperate to murder?

What pleasure can you possibly derive from your dangerous doublespeak and grave antics and what has Nigeria done to you and yours that you so desperately seek her destruction and demise?

 

We have seen this desperate thirst and quest for power before and we saw how many bodies littered the streets in an attempt to gain it.

It happened on January 15th 1966 with shocking and devastating consequences for those that were behind it and indeed for the entire nation.

 

May we never see such again.

 

You do not have to tear Nigeria apart to achieve your ambition of becoming President: God alone gives power to whom He pleases and when he deems it fit.

 

I have little doubt that when that time comes, years down the line, and He deems it fit to give it to the South East it will certainly NOT be to you.

 

I say this because there are men and women from your part of the country that are far better and far more deserving and qualified than you and that are neither divisive or obsessed with the division of our country.

 

Unlike you such men and women proudly consider themselves as being Nigerians and not Biafrans and they do not make a distinction between Muslims and Christians.

 

They see all Nigerians, whether Christian or Muslim or whether Northerner or Southerner, as being one and the same and that is what we expect and deserve.

They appreciate the fact that the road to power in a democracy is one of peace, inclusiveness and understanding and not one of discord, strife, violence, lies, insults, disinformation, propaganda, division, historical revisionism, inordinate ambition, greed, entitlement and deceit.

Neither do they believe in the stereotyping or demonising of any of our great ethnic nationalities or religious faiths.

These are the basic and fundamental prerequisites that are required for anyone to lead our great nation and in my humble opinion you do not have them and you are incapable of ever cultivating them.

Yet it doesn’t stop there.

 

 

You not only turned on your own Obidient supporters and called them “criminals” (an appelation I will not contest with you) after they complained about the fact that you joined the ADC, a political party that you had earlier described as a “structure of criminality” but you also disavowed and disowned them when they resorted to their usual infantile tantrums after it was brought to their attention that you were considering the possibility of being the running mate to the undisputed leader of that party given the fact that you have no hope in hell of winning the presidential primaries.

Yet all that doublespeak, lack of consistency, opportunism and deceit pales into comparison when compared to what you did to your former presidential campaign manager.

You repaid his good with evil by turning your back on him in his time of need and refused to stand by him and support him when he fell ill. For this alone God will never forgive you.

I will not go into what else you did to him because that is for another day but to say the least you were unfeeling, insensitive and callous towards this profoundly good man who many loved and held in high esteem.

The only mistake he made was that he associated himself with you and joined your bandwagon of misguided and irreverent Obidient cheerleaders.

Thankfully towards the end he saw you for what you were, retraced his steps and returned back to us.

Surely you are not the stuff of which real leaders and Presidents are made. Your loyalty is to your vaulting ambition and to no-one and nothing else.

Your new friends in the ADC will attest to that at a later date after you break ranks with them.

 

These are my words for you Peter. I sincerely hope that you will consider them.

Permit me to end this contribution with the following.

If truth be told Obi sincerely believes that he has the right to the Presidency just as satan believed he had the right to Moses’ body.

When the latter passed on and satan came for his corpse the Holy Bible tells us that Archangel Michael rose up, confronted him, resisted him and boldly pronounced “the Lord rebuke you satan” after which the devil fled.

Today I say, “the Lord rebuke you Peter” and, like satan, you MUST flee.

Just as he had no right to Moses’ body, you have no right to the Nigerian Presidency!

God alone has the exclusive right to give it to whom He deems fit!

 

Yet one thing is clear: if it is ever Peter Obi we shall rue the day!

This is a man whose supporters celebrated and lept with joy when President Donald Trump threatened us and described our nation as “a disgraced country” and when he said, “we may very well go into that now disgraced country, guns-a-blazing and if we attack, it will be fast, vicious and sweet”.

This was like music to the ears of Obi and his Obidients but when the narrative changed, sanity prevailed and tempers cooled they could not bring themselves to express a word of support, relief or commendation for the Federal Government after it responded to the Americans in a restrained, mature and profound manner, rebuilt the bridges of friendship and understanding, entered into a joint security agreement with them and started working closely with them to combat the menace of terrorism in an atmosphere of camaraderie and mutual respect.

 

This is not what Obi and his supporters wanted. What they had in mind was for the Americans to attack Nigeria, kill our people, bomb our cities and implement a Maduro-style regime change before carving us up into at least four separate pieces.

 

As Otunba Bayo Onanuga, the spokesman to President Tinubu said, “we will NEVER forgive or forget Peter Obi for wanting our nation to be attacked and bombed”.

These words reflect the thinking of not just those in Government but of every right-thinking Nigerian patriot.

 

 

To add to that as my friend and brother His Excellency Ambassador-Designate Reno Omokri asked in a recent write up,

“How can an individual like Peter Obi who has divided four different parties in Nigeria want to be President?”

This is a pertinent question which needs to be answered and I add the following: how can an individual who refuses to condemn the wanting acts of mass murder, butchery, abduction, torture and intimidation of the ESN and IPOB and a man who, as far as I am aware, has never condemned the Monday ‘sit at home order’ issued by the terrorists throughout his own South-Eastern region aspire or expect to lead our nation?

 

Surely the very thought of such a prospect is as frightful as it is perverse.

 

A fundamental requirement and pre-condtion to being the President of a great nation like ours is surely a deep respect and love for and understanding of ALL the people regardless of where they come from or what their religious faith is and a total and complete rejection of terrorism not just in the North but also in the South.

 

To be selective in this respect is to be divisive and to be divisive is to be destructive. We do not want or need a destructive President.

 

We want a Commander-in-Chief, like the one we have today, that will at least endeavour to hold us all together as one and not a Divider-in-Chief that will favour his own and seek to turn the rest of us into serfs and slaves.

We have been down that road before and, by God’s grace, we shall NEVER walk it again.

Whatever the case and whoever the enemy within choose to field in 2027 as their presidential candidate one thing remains clear: in a 36 state Federation our ruling party the APC now controls all but 7 states and of the seven one is in alliance with us.

 

Given this it is clear that only God can stop President Bola Ahmed Tinubu from being re-elected in 2027.

All the subversion, destabilisation, betrayal, hostility, lies, conspiracies and shenanigans that the enemy within, the opposition and their hordes of foreign friends, attack dogs and bellicose trolls have collectively contrived cannot stop or deter him.

I advise them to focus their presidential aspirations on 2031 and forget 2027 because until then there is no vacancy in Aso Rock.

 

I also urge them to purge themselves of their divisive and subversive ways and their hate and contempt or, failing that, to leave our shores and embark on a journey of no return.

May God bless and defend the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

 

(Chief Femi Fani-Kayode is the Sadaukin Shinkafi, the Wakilin Doka Potiskum, the Otunba of Joga Orile, the Aare Ajagunla of Otun Ekiti, a former Minister of Culture and Tourism, a former Minister of Aviation, a former Senior Special Assistant to President Olusegun Obasanjo, a Legal Practioner and an Ambassador-Designate of the Federal Republic of Nigeria)

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DETERRENCE OR CATASTROPHE? ON THE BRINK OF A REDEFINING MIDDLE EAST WAR: A CALL FOR THE DIPLOMATIC PATH FORWARD

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THE BURATAI CONUNDRUM: A STRATEGIC DISSERVICE TO NATIONAL INTEREST By Femi Oyewale

DETERRENCE OR CATASTROPHE? ON THE BRINK OF A REDEFINING MIDDLE EAST WAR: A CALL FOR THE DIPLOMATIC PATH FORWARD

By Lt Gen Tukur Yusufu Buratai Rtd CFR

We stand at a precipice where a single decision could redefine the future of the Middle East and send shockwaves through a fragile global order. The choice appears deceptively simple: to strike militarily in pursuit of deterrence or to withstand perceived aggression. Yet, this framing is a dangerous illusion. A direct, full-scale conflict between the United States, its allies, and Iran would not be a controlled exercise in power projection. It would be the ignition of a regional inferno with no clear exit, where the initial objective of “deterrence” would be consumed within hours by the unforgiving law of unintended consequences. The path of war promises not a decisive victory, but a cascade of devastation—human, economic, and strategic—that would leave all parties and the world profoundly poorer and more unstable. In this stark reality, diplomacy is not a sign of weakness; it is the singular, rational imperative for survival.

The Illusion of a Clear Victory

The allure of a military solution rests on a straightforward calculus: degrade critical nuclear and military infrastructure, cripple the command structures of the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps (IRGC), and deliver a blow so decisive that Iran’s regional influence collapses. Proponents envision a rapid, surgical campaign that reestablishes undisputed deterrence. However, this vision fundamentally misjudges the nature of the adversary and the dynamics of the region. As former U.S. Deputy Assistant Secretary of State Andrew P. Miller cautions, even a successful strike “would likely prove a Pyrrhic victory” for broader strategic goals, failing to achieve durable political outcomes. Iran would not absorb a strike passively and capitulate. Retaliation would be swift, multidimensional, and devastating.

Indeed, as noted by Seyed Hossein Mousavian, a former Iranian nuclear negotiator and scholar at Princeton University, Tehran perceives such a confrontation as an “existential war,” a stance that would “eliminate any incentive for restraint, unleashing a conflict that would be impossible to control.” We would witness not a single battle but the violent opening of multiple, simultaneous fronts. Hezbollah’s vast arsenal of precision-guided rockets would rain down on Israeli cities. Iranian proxies in Iraq and Syria would target the U.S. personnel and bases with relentless aggression. The Houthis could unleash further chaos on global shipping. Most critically, Iran itself would likely launch direct missile and drone attacks against Gulf state oil infrastructure and, potentially, attempt to blockade the Strait of Hormuz—a chokepoint for nearly 25% of global seaborne oil trade. The initial “surgical strike” would, within days, metastasize into a sprawling regional war with no defined battlefield and no clear rules of engagement.

The Unbearable Costs: A World Remade by War

The consequences would swiftly spiral beyond the military domain, etching a deep scar across global stability. The human cost would be immediate and horrifying, with casualties mounting not just among combatants but in urban centres targeted by long-range artillery and missiles. As analyzed by the BBC, a primary risk is the collapse of the Iranian regime into chaos or civil war,” which would spark “a severe humanitarian and refugee crisis” of immense proportions, a scenario where “nobody wants to see the largest Middle East nation by population… descend into chaos.”

The economic shock would be felt in every corner of the world. A successful disruption of the Strait of Hormuz, even temporarily, would trigger an instantaneous spike in oil prices, catapulting the global economy into a profound inflationary recession. Supply chains would seize, markets would panic, and the cost of basic necessities would skyrocket worldwide. This is not a speculative risk; it is a guaranteed outcome of Iran’s stated asymmetric doctrine.

Strategically, the war would unmoor the region for a generation. The delicate, if tense, balance among regional powers would shatter. Even if the Iranian regime were severely weakened, the result would not be a peaceful vacuum but a vortex of chaos. As Afshon Ostovar, an associate professor at the Naval Postgraduate School, warns of potential internal collapse, “the ruling apparatus, in other words, would collapse gradually, and then suddenly.” A fractured state could descend into civil conflict, its hardline elements unleashing terror networks, and rival powers scrambling to carve spheres of influence. The painstakingly built, if flawed, security architecture of the past half-century would lie in ruins. The ultimate outcomes of a strike are profoundly unpredictable, but none point toward a more stable or secure order for the United States, Israel, or their allies. Victory, in any meaningful sense, would be unrecognizable.

The Diplomatic Path: Not an Ideal, But a Necessity

Faced with this landscape of ruin, the diplomatic path emerges not as a naive ideal but as the only pragmatic tool for managing an existential threat. It is the circuit breaker for the escalatory spiral that guarantees mutual destruction. This is not an argument for appeasement or for trusting the untrustworthy. It is a cold-eyed recognition that only through calibrated statecraft can we navigate away from the brink. This view is echoed by regional voices, such as an editorial in The National, which asserts that “various regional actors are urging non-military ways to change relationships with Tehran” and that “now is a time for focused and determined diplomacy to chart a path away from war.”

The goal of diplomacy in this context is not to achieve a grand reconciliation overnight but to relentlessly pursue de-escalation and create mechanisms for crisis management. It involves empowering regional dialogue, establishing clear and direct communication channels to prevent miscalculation, and seeking hard-nosed, verifiable agreements that incrementally roll back the most dangerous threats, such as further advances in Iran’s nuclear program and its regional ballistic missile deployments. The international community, including powers with leverage in Tehran, must be rallied not to take sides but to unequivocally advocate for restraint. The collective message must be that while aggression and proliferation are unacceptable, the alternative of total war is a common enemy that will destroy all in its path.

The choice before the international community is now laid bare. One road leads into the fog of war—a fog filled with the echoes of missile fire, the screams of the displaced, and the collapse of economies. It is a path where the very concept of “victory” loses all meaning. The other road, the diplomatic path, is undeniably difficult, fraught with setbacks, and requires immense political courage. It demands negotiating through distrust and managing imperfect outcomes. But it is the only road that leads away from the abyss and toward a future where stability, however fragile, can be rebuilt. The hour is late, but the path forward remains. We must choose diplomacy, not because we believe in the goodness of our adversaries, but because we have stared into the alternative and seen an unbearable catastrophe for all.

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Lt Gen Tukur Yusufu Buratai Rtd CFR
Former Chief of Army Staff, Nigerian Army, and former Nigerian Ambassador to the Republic of Benin.

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Senator Adeola Yayi Bags Royal Blessings at Foundation Laying of Yewa Traditional Council Secretariat in Ilaro

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Senator Adeola Yayi Bags Royal Blessings at Foundation Laying of Yewa Traditional Council Secretariat in Ilaro

…Clerics, Monarchs and Political Leaders Offer Prayers for His Future Aspirations

 

 

ILARO-YEWA, OGUN STATE — The ancient town of Ilaro, headquarters of Ogun West Senatorial District, came alive on Tuesday, January 27, 2026, as royal fathers, political leaders, clerics and community stakeholders gathered for the historic foundation-laying ceremony of the proposed ultra-modern Yewa Traditional Council (Obas’) Secretariat Complex.

 

The culturally symbolic project, facilitated by the Senator representing Ogun West at the National Assembly, Distinguished Senator Solomon Olamilekan Adeola (Yayi), attracted widespread commendation, fervent prayers and royal blessings from traditional rulers across Yewaland, alongside leaders and stalwarts of the All Progressives Congress (APC).

 

The ceremony officially marked the commencement of construction of what is envisioned as a state-of-the-art secretariat that will serve as the institutional headquarters of the Yewa Traditional Council.

 

Stakeholders described the initiative as a landmark achievement in institutional development and a clear demonstration of Senator Adeola’s sustained commitment to grassroots development, cultural preservation and inclusive governance in Yewaland.

 

Royal fathers present unanimously agreed that the project represents a significant step toward strengthening traditional governance and preserving Yewa cultural heritage. According to them, the proposed secretariat will function as a unifying administrative hub, enhance collaboration among monarchs and safeguard the cultural identity of the Yewa people for generations to come.

 

 

Speaking at the event, the Olu of Ilaro and Paramount Ruler of Yewaland, His Royal Majesty Oba (Dr.) Kehinde Gbadewole Olugbenle, Asade Agunloye IV, poured encomiums on Senator Adeola for his extensive infrastructural interventions and developmental footprints across Yewaland and Ogun State.

 

The monarch noted that the senator’s contributions have repositioned Yewaland on the path of meaningful progress, urging political leaders and stakeholders to embrace unity, cooperation and harmony.

He emphasized that such collective resolve remains crucial to the long-standing aspiration of producing a Yewa indigene as Governor of Ogun State in 2027.

Oba Olugbenle also used the occasion to encourage residents to actively participate in the democratic process by obtaining their Permanent Voter’s Cards (PVCs), stressing that civic engagement is the surest route to credible leadership.

 

“Yayi Is a Unique Son of Yewaland” — Deputy Speaker

 

The Deputy Speaker of the Ogun State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. (Chief) Mrs. Lateefat Bolanle Ajayi, described Senator Adeola as a “unique and incomparable son of Yewaland,” whose influence transcends Ogun West to Ogun Central and East.

 

“We have had good sons in Yewaland, but Yayi stands out. His impact is felt in Abeokuta, Ijebu-Ode and beyond. Charity truly begins at home. Even the blind can see and the deaf can hear. We must support him. Come 2027, we have a candidate,” she declared.

 

 

Clerics Offer Prayers for Success

Offering prayers at the ceremony, Imam Mohammed Tijani Jamiu, Chief Imam of Surulere Central Mosque, Ilaro-Yewa, prayed for Senator Adeola, the royal fathers of Yewaland and the successful completion of the project.

 

 

 

 

Similarly, Imam Jamiu Adeniyi Kewulere, Chief Imam of Bibire Central Mosque, Oke-Ola, Ilaro-Yewa, also offered special prayers for peace, progress and divine guidance for all stakeholders.

 

 

 

“A Rare Project of Global Significance” — Yewa South LG Chairman

The Chairman of Yewa South Local Government, Hon. Tunde Ogunshola, described the occasion as one of the happiest moments of his life, noting that the project is unprecedented in scope and cultural significance

 

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“This traditional council building is rare, even globally. It is being realized through the support of Governor Prince Dapo Abiodun and facilitated by Senator Adeola. When completed, it will stand as a lasting symbol of our heritage,” he said.

 

 

 

The Ogun State Chairman of Cultural Development, Hon. Olayiwola Taiwo, also hailed the project as a major turnaround for Ogun West, a zone he said had endured years of infrastructural neglect.

 

“This is a remarkable development. Senator Adeola is truly God-sent to Yewaland,” he stated.

 

 

 

 

Royal fathers including the Olofin Adimula of Ado-Odo, Oba Idris Olusola Lamidi Osolo, the Abepa of Joga-Orile, Oba Adeyemi Adekeye, and the Onimeko of Imeko, Oba Benjamin Olanite, all expressed confidence that greater projects linked to Senator Adeola would continue to materialize.

 

 

 

 

A retired Director-General in the Ogun State Civil Service, Mr. Michael Babatunde Ajayi, likened the proposed complex to the Obas’ Secretariat in Abeokuta, noting that it would reduce the need for monarchs in Yewaland to travel to the state capital for meetings.

“This will be the first of its kind in Yewaland. Kudos to Senator Adeola, whose impact is felt across Ogun State,” he said.

 

 

 

 

APC Leaders Call for Political Mobilisation

The Ogun West APC Chairman, Alhaji Azeez Adisa (Ekwume), alongside party leaders and community stakeholders, described Senator Adeola’s interventions as purposeful and impactful.

 

 

 

 

They urged party members to consolidate these gains by strengthening party structures and participating actively in voter registration and mop-up exercises, noting that broad-based participation is essential for electoral success.

 

 

 

 

Anglican Bishop Describes Project as Timely

Speaking with journalists, the Diocesan Bishop of the Anglican Communion, Rt. Revd. M.A. Oluwarohunbi, PhD, described the project as timely and symbolic, adding that it would enhance the role of traditional rulers in governance.

 

 

 

 

“This is a very important day in the history of Ilaro and Yewaland. The proposed complex will be an ultra-modern edifice befitting our royal fathers,” he said.

 

 

 

He also prayed for Senator Adeola’s continued strength and the realization of his future aspirations.

 

 

 

 

At the climax of the event, Oba Olugbenle, alongside other eminent kabiyesis, offered royal prayers and blessings for President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Governor Prince Dapo Abiodun, Senator Solomon Adeola Yayi, and other political office holders across Ogun West and Nigeria, seeking divine wisdom, protection and success in governance.

The well-attended ceremony drew a diverse audience, including revered monarchs from across Yewaland, political leaders, community stakeholders and religious representatives from Christianity, Islam and traditional institutions.

 

 

 

Members of the League of Yewa-Awori Media Practitioners (LOYAMP) were also prominently represented, led by their National Coordinator, Otunba AbuSatar Idowu Hamed.

 

 

 

 

The colourful event concluded with the formal laying of the foundation stone by royal fathers and distinguished guests, symbolically ushering in a new chapter in the institutional development and cultural renaissance of Yewaland—an occasion many described as another defining milestone in Senator Adeola Yayi’s growing legacy of service and development.

 

 

Courtesy: League of Yewa-Awori Media Practitioners (LOYAMP)

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