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Former Miss Universe, Olubummi Akinyosoye Down With Partial Stroke, Cries Out For Help

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Former Miss Universe and astute businesswoman, Olubummi Akinyosoye has cried out to well meaning Nigerians for help as she is down with partial stroke.

In an interview with this publications, She spoke extensively  about everything that occurred with her, how she thrived as one of the top secretaries in the country, how she suddenly fell ill three years ago and how she has been battling with it

Excerpts below:

Can we meet you?

My name is Olubummi Akinyosoye I will be 60 years next month, the first born in the family of 5, my parents are late. I became ill three months before my mum died three years ago. I started my career in NTA in 1979 July, after that I went to a secretariat school where I qualified as a confidential secretary, from there I got a job with Phillip Moris Nigeria and after a year, I went back with NTA to work at the corporate affairs department. I was with NTA till I travelled in 1984. Before then in 1979, I did a modelling job for a magazine, I was on a cover, in 1980/1981, we had the first miss universe competition in Nigeria, I took part, I came first in it.

When I left NTA I worked with chase merchant bank, also as a secretary,.I worked in John Holt, worked in a company called Nandina industries , I was PA to the executive director, I was also into dress making, there was a magazine called Times magazine international, I had interviews with them every month, I was into art making as well and I have been all over. There was a bank called UCB, I was the first person there, it was even on CNN, I did a job for Zain too, in between I went to Northampton  for a 6-months course later, I moved into food business, I have been so versatile, before my ailment, I was doing health business with a company with a Philippine company, alliance in motion global , because I was doing well, I had to open a branch office on ipaja road, it was working out well for me, suddenly I broke down with partial stroke, it’s going to be three years next month. I give God the glory that I am looking better now, I thank God my old school mate has been there for me. My kid sister died, I have been taking care of my mum and in between, I developed this problem, I just need help, I need to get back on my feet (Sobs)

What exactly is the diagnosis?

Initially, they said its partial stroke, that’s what I was told. I sold my business, sold lots of things for treatment, I have been living on a drug that is so expensive, God is doing his own but the drugs has helped a lot, I had therapy, a class mate came and sponsored it for three months in LUTH, I was going twice a week from Ipaja to Mushin, I was paying 12,000, there is a trado therapy which is what people are suggesting, my legs were almost apart. It has taken so much of me but to God be the glory, he is working, I have been trying all necessary things, I need to try more to get back on my feet.

To what extent will you say this ailment has affected your career?

Three years I have been like a pauper. I have become a total beggar, I was up there, do you know what it is to be PA to number 2 in the whole of John holt? I have not even been able to reach out to those I have worked with, I have not been able to go out, in the first place I was staying in town, but when my baby sister died, my mother fell down, she broke her hips, she had to be in Igbobi for 9 weeks for surgery, I was the one taking care of her so I didn’t have a choice, I had to move down to Ipaja, I have been out of where people can reach me. The only luck I had was that someone came for a program at a church someone took me to, a woman saw me, I didn’t see her, she is a wife to one of my class mates because I have always been active in my old school, she told her husband, and that was how my national president, my set governor, and some executives came to see me, they put it on the school platform so that’s how I have been sustaining myself, most people don’t know.

Was there a time you lost hope?

No, sometimes I sit down and I start thinking, I used to wear 6-inches foot wears, I wasn’t a happening babe in the real sense, I knew my onions and very good at my job, when my boss in John holt was leaving, he gave me a letter of recommendation incase I have to get a job somewhere. I would just sit down and say God, I can’t remain like this.

I didn’t give up because I discovered that I wasn’t in Christ and a life that isn’t in Christ will be full of crisis, when God came into my life and I sent everything to his court, I had peace  but even with the peace, how long will I remain like this? I have to go to the clinic every Tuesday , each time I go, the cab alone takes N10,000. I can’t walk to the road so I am just home.

Through it all, what will you say is the greatest lesson you learnt?

My greatest lesson and regret is that I didn’t have any commitment with my creator, if I had, something like this wouldn’t have happened, I don’t want to say I am a spiritualist, In the course of this, I discovered so many gifts I had always known. I don’t know the English word but I call it Deja Vu, its not even Deja Vu, it’s God speaking to you , directing you but if you don’t have him, you wont be able to recognize his voice, now I know when I hear, when I see, all these things I can identify and I know that God lives in me. I was a church goer but I wasn’t committed. It’s not about going to church, commitment to God happens in the heart, it’s about having relationship with God, this is God in me, it’s not man.

How would you want Nigerians to help?

I’m just thinking about retirement now, I’m into networking now, there is a company I am involved in already but I need to be a big distributor because I need to help people with the drug I used when I was really down, I have been through it so when I tell you it will work for you, it will definitely because I have been there, although it’s God that heals .

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Why Men Without Morning Erection Need Help 

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November 25, 2024

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Why Men Without Morning Erection Need Help 

Why Men Without Morning Erection Need Help 

 

Male reproductive health experts have urged men to take their sexual health seriously by seeking medical evaluation if they are not experiencing morning erections, a common and natural occurrence in healthy men.

The urologists stated that men experiencing persistent erectile issues or concerns should consult a healthcare professional for personalised evaluation and guidance.

Speaking exclusively with PUNCH Healthwise, the physicians advised men not having morning erections to carry out a comprehensive health assessment, including hormone testing, semen analysis, and lifestyle evaluations, to determine the underlying causes which may be erectile dysfunction or infertility.

According to Healthline, morning erections, a natural occurrence in most men, are often seen as a sign of healthy sexual function. They are typically caused by increased blood flow and hormonal fluctuations during the rapid eye movement (REM) phase of sleep.

The health website, however, noted that a notable number of men have reported experiencing a lack of morning erections, raising concerns about potential fertility or sexual health problems.

While some experts suggested that the absence of morning erection could be linked to underlying health issues, including infertility, others argued that it is not a reliable indicator of reproductive health.

A consultant urologist, Dr Emmanuel Eze stated that the body’s ability to have regular morning erections may be a reflection of broader reproductive health.

The physician stressed that the absence of morning erections could signal problems with hormone levels, such as low testosterone, or vascular health, which could affect overall erectile function and, in some cases, fertility.

Eze emphasised that morning erection is a natural occurrence during the REM sleep stage, typically happening 3-5 times per night.

The physician explained that the absence of morning erections could suggest issues such as erectile dysfunction, low testosterone levels, or underlying cardiovascular conditions.

According to him, it is normal for men to experience morning erections three to five times each night. These erections are typically spontaneous and occur without sexual arousal. The process is part of the body’s natural hormonal fluctuations and is linked to the functioning of the nervous system and blood flow.

Eze explained that these spontaneous erections during sleep are crucial in maintaining healthy erectile function and, by extension, overall reproductive health.

He emphasised that they are a natural and healthy sign of the body’s ability to achieve and maintain erections, which are important for male fertility.

“While occasional changes in morning erections are normal as men age, a persistent lack of them could point to potential health problems such as erectile dysfunction, low testosterone, or even more serious conditions like heart disease. Men mustn’t ignore these early warning signs.

“A comprehensive evaluation can help pinpoint the cause and allow for timely treatment options, whether it’s lifestyle changes, therapy, or medications,” Eze added.

Speaking further, the urologist elaborated that the absence of morning erections could be an indication of various medical conditions that might impact sexual and reproductive health.

“Erectile dysfunction is often the result of an imbalance in the body’s ability to deliver blood to the penis. If morning erections are absent, it could be a reflection of poor blood flow or nerve function, which are key contributors to erectile dysfunction,” Eze explained.

In addition to erectile dysfunction, the male reproductive expert noted that the absence of morning erections may also be linked to low testosterone levels.

He added, “Testosterone is the primary male sex hormone, essential for sexual function, mood regulation, and the production of sperm. A decline in testosterone can lead to a reduced frequency of morning erections. It can also cause a range of other symptoms, such as fatigue, decreased libido, and loss of muscle mass. While a decrease in testosterone levels is a natural part of aging, significant drops in testosterone could signal more serious health concerns.”

Eze also underscored the connection between erectile function and male fertility, stressing that problems with achieving or maintaining an erection could affect a man’s ability to conceive.

He explained that erectile function plays a critical role in sperm delivery, and when erectile issues arise, they could make it more difficult to engage in regular sexual activity, which could impact fertility.

“There is a direct connection between erectile function and male fertility. If a man is consistently not experiencing morning erections, it could indicate that there’s an issue with his reproductive system, whether it’s a problem with his hormones, blood vessels, or nerve function,” he said.

He pointed out that while the absence of morning erections does not automatically equate to infertility, it could signal underlying problems that should be addressed.

Eze advised that men who notice a persistent absence of morning erections should consult a urologist for an evaluation of their reproductive and sexual health.

He explained that poor blood circulation, which is often associated with heart disease or high blood pressure, can directly affect the ability to achieve erections.

“The vessels that supply blood to the penis are small and delicate, and when these vessels are compromised due to poor cardiovascular health, it can result in a decreased ability to have spontaneous erections.

“Erectile dysfunction is frequently one of the early signs of cardiovascular problems. If a man is not having morning erections, it could be a sign that his vascular health is not in optimal condition. It’s essential to recognise this as a potential red flag and seek medical advice before the issue becomes more severe,” the urologist warned.

However, a Senior Registrar in Urology at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, Dr. Akpo Edewor, argued that the lack of a morning erection is not necessarily an indication of serious health concerns, as many people assume.

Edewor emphasised that the absence of morning erections is not an automatic sign of erectile dysfunction or serious sexual health problems.

He explained, “Morning erections should not be viewed as the definitive measure of sexual health. It is important to understand that men can still maintain erectile function despite not having morning erections. This does not immediately indicate erectile dysfunction.”

The urologist stressed that various factors, such as sleep patterns, stress, or even the time a man wakes up, can influence whether or not he experiences a morning erection.

He further clarified that a key component in assessing erectile health is the ability to achieve an erection in response to sexual stimuli.

“If a man can still attain an erection when engaging with a partner, even without morning erections, this indicates that his erectile function is likely intact,” he stated.

Erectile dysfunction, according to Edewor, is more complex than just the absence of morning erections. It is a condition where a man consistently struggles to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for sexual intercourse.

He said various health conditions, including heart disease, diabetes, hypertension, and even the medications used to treat these conditions, could contribute to erectile dysfunction.

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Doctor Warns On The Danger Of Excessive Masturbation

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Doctor Warns On The Danger Of Excessive Masturbation

 

 

A British doctor has warned that excessive masturbation is behind the rise of male health problems.

In moderation, self-pleasure helps to reduce stress, and improve sleep quality and mood, but it can become ‘an unhealthy habit’ and trigger a form of erectile dysfunction, says Dr Donald Grant, GP and senior clinical advisor at The Independent Pharmacy.

Doctor Warns On The Danger Of Excessive Masturbation

‘Overall, there’s no strict rule or guideline on how much people should masturbate.’

‘But when masturbation gets out of hand, there’s a variety of ways it can impact sexual and physical health.’

A key concern is the rise of porn use: half of adults in the UK now access graphic material online, according to a recent survey by media watchdog Ofcom, and Dr Grant links this to the rise in porn-induced erectile dysfunction, or PIED.

 

Up to 50 percent of adult men suffer from some degree of erectile dysfunction, according to the British Association of Urological Surgeons. It is often associated with obesity, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and diabetes but can also have no obvious cause. One lesser-known culprit could be PIED, claims Dr Grant.

‘PIED is a type of erectile dysfunction that stems from an unhealthy consumption of pornography.

‘This unhealthy porn usage can lead to desensitisation, making it more difficult for men to achieve and maintain an erection — as they’re used to more intense sexual activity seen on screen.

‘It can lead to reduced interest in sex with actual partners as men prioritise porn and masturbation instead.’

More worryingly, Dr Grant warns that compulsive masturbation could trigger physical changes that affect intimacy.

‘Compulsive masturbation can lead to reduced sensitivity in the genital area, making it more difficult to achieve sexual pleasure or stimulation.

‘It can occur when nerve endings become damaged from too much activity, creating a loss of sensitivity.

‘This can also impact individuals who masturbate too roughly, causing potential friction damage.

 

‘Thankfully, this is a short-term issue and factors such as taking breaks or utilising lubricants can help restore sensitivity.

‘And thankfully, there are a range of treatments available to men who are struggling with ED, helping them manage a healthy sex life and achieve erections with ease.’

Dr Grant added that ‘over-masturbating’ can be damaging in other ways.

It can cause men and women to become ‘hyper-focused on their own pleasure, meaning when the time comes for sexual intercourse with a partner, individuals could experience performance anxiety, which directly impacts sex drive.’

The question of how much is too much is subjective, he admitted.
‘Masturbation habits can differ largely from person to person with some people doing it daily, weekly or not at all.

‘It’s important to monitor the sexual activity to ensure it doesn’t interfere with social lives, work or relationships.

‘Additionally, discomfort or injury is usually a telltale sign that the masturbation sessions are becoming too much and harming health.

‘It’s important to maintain a healthy but sensible sex life through masturbation, ensuring it’s not at the expense of daily activities.

‘Some people can even experience mental distress due to guilt or shame relating to their masturbation — this can stem from porn usage or other factors, but can have a big effect on people’s mental well-being.

‘Overall, common sense is required to ensure it remains a recreational activity without interfering with other aspects of daily life.’

 

 

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