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IWD: Women should occupy space in leadership – NGO

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IWD: women should occupy space in leadership – NGO

 

By Ifeoma Ikem

A Human rights activists, Honor Onyebuchukwu, a lawyer and coordinator of Children With Cancer Intervention Initiative, has called on women globally to occupy their space in leadership.

 

Onyebuchukwu made the call during the 2021 International Women’s Day celebration with the theme: `Women In Leadership: Achieving An Equal Future In A Covid-19 World’.

She noted that women in leadership positions will serve as a panacea for peace and development.

“Globally, International Women’s Day (IWD) is celebrated every march but the number of countries that have had a female leader continues to expand, the list is still relatively short, and even when women make it to power, they rarely lead for a long time.

“We do not need any imperial proof to show that women in leadership especially in Nigeria is 0.5 percent and this cuts across all strata, at work, in corporate board rooms, businesses, decision making and politics.

 

“Women are constantly placed on an unequal platform with their male counterparts’’, she added.

 

She noted that women are discriminated upon, harassed, violated and sometimes killed by the men.

“From the homes to schools, to offices, the girl child/women faces gender stereotype.

 

“The challenges that women face are humongous, some are cultural, others are religious as well as wickedness and show of power.

 

“Be that as it may, none of these challenges are insurmountable, so we must kill the conspiracy theory that a woman’s position is in the kitchen’’.

Onyebuchukwu stressed that the theory is one way to continuously keep the women under subjugation.

“How did the men come about this? Who invented this? Don’t the male folks cook as well as eat? She queried.

“Women themselves are no doubt barrier breakers if given the opportunity’’.

She pointed out that one of the greatest ways to tackle gender inequality is to give both male and female equal opportunity at all times to exhibit and achieve their God given talents and creativity.

“Women are to be allowed the opportunity to excel and not to be pitied. If a woman merits a position above her male counterpart, let her have it.

 

“We therefore advocate that in curbing the numerous challenges facing the women folk, there must be deliberate and intentional collaboration by all stakeholders including in education and legislations.

 

“Educationally, it will not be out of place if humanism is taught in our schools, from kindergarten to tertiary, as one thing that stands out in the quest for gender equality is that both females and males are first and foremost human beings.

 

“Moreover, educating the girl child as a matter of policy making will go a very long way to bridge the so distant gab created by gender inequality’’.

 

She added that focusing on legislation is key to ending gender inequality.

“A good number of our laws discriminate against women and such laws should immediately be repealed.

 

“Laws should be promulgated, granting 60% of scholarships to female students at all levels of education as well as amendment of our Constitution to include the doctrine of ‘Twinism’ in all Political Elective/Appointed positions.

 

“In this manner positions are alternated between males and females’’.

 

According to her, `this doctrine is working very well in Rwanda in Central Africa and that nation is already making giant developmental strides.

 

“Women are oftentimes, schemed out of their desire to run for elective positions by their male counterparts. The doctrine of ‘Twinism’ will obviously check mate this.

 

“Give women their merited top leadership positions and in no short period, obvious peace and development will be made manifest.

 

“Women are created to incubate and produce, we are ready. I wish Nigerian women happy 2021 International Women’s Day’’, she added.

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Those who wronged you may never say “I’m sorry” – Prudent Ludidi

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Those who wronged you may never say “I’m sorry” – Prudent Ludidi

 

 

Ladies and gentlemen,

Today, I want to talk about something that can be difficult to accept, those who wronged you may never say “I’m sorry.”

 

Those who wronged you may never say "I'm sorry" - Prudent Ludidi

We’ve all been hurt by someone at some point in our lives. And often, we hold onto that hurt, and hope in waiting for the person who wronged us to acknowledge their mistake and apologize.

But the truth is, that apology may never come.

It’s hard to accept because we feel like we deserve closure. We deserve to hear that the person who hurt us regrets their actions.

But closure is not something someone else gives you. Closure is something you give yourself.

You have the power to choose:

Choose to heal, even if they never acknowledge their wrongdoing
Choose to move forward, even if they never make amends

Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting what happened. Forgiveness means releasing the hold that person has on you.

Forgiveness means taking back control of your life.

You don’t need someone else’s apology to move on. You don’t need someone else’s validation to heal.

You are strong enough to do it on your own.

And when you do, you’ll find peace. You’ll find freedom.

Remember, holding onto anger and resentment only hurts you. It doesn’t change the past.

But forgiveness can change your future.

So, don’t wait for someone else to say “I’m sorry.” Say it to yourself: “I’m sorry that happened to me, but I’m moving forward.”

Say it loud and clear: “I deserve to heal. I deserve to be happy.”

Take back your power. Take back your life.

Move forward with courage and faith.

You got this.

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LSACA, HEFAMAA,NAFDAC ,AVILA NATURALLE,OTHERS SET TO RECEIVE AWARDS AT THE WEST AFRICA SPA AND COSMETOLOGISTS RECOGNITION AWARD 2024

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LSACA, HEFAMAA,NAFDAC ,AVILA NATURALLE,OTHERS SET TO RECEIVE AWARDS AT THE WEST AFRICA SPA AND COSMETOLOGISTS RECOGNITION AWARD 2024

 

The west Africa Spa and cosmetologists recognition Award ,the first of its kind in Africa an event collaboration with Ghana Cosmetics Association holds at the prestigious Oriental Hotel lagos

An industry based award to honor legends ,stakeholders and cosmetologists in the beauty Industry ,Regulators and health Agencies

The organisers of the programme is poised with the development of this sector within the west Africa region using quality , safety and Professionalism as a watchword in the quest for products promotion and distribution.

The award will be used to promote individuals and brands in the Beauty Sector who have given their best in the development of beauty in west Africa.

As the drive for continental free trade Area hots up ,the founder of the programme Mr Chukwumah Emmanuel a Public Health Practitioner and the National President of Professional Association of Spa and Cosmetologists in Nigeria says that the perspective of this event is centered on encouragement and Networking within the sub region.

Other awardees for this event include Lagos Safety Commission, Beauty West Africa,and America Nigeria chambers of Commerce

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Why You Should Patronize JOK Beauty Hub

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Why You Should Patronize JOK Beauty Hub

Why You Should Patronize JOK Beauty Hub

One of the most reputable online store in Nigeria to shop for beauty products is JOK beauty hub. Known for prompt service delivery and quality products, it is the haven for dignitaries.
Why You Should Patronize JOK Beauty Hub
Some of their services include nighty pants, bra, boxers, singlets, strippers costumes, masks, pink lips, bikini, dildo, beach wears, card games, vibrators, body piercing, pedicure and manicure and lots more.
Owned by delectable CEO, Joy Omolara Kaosara, Patronize them and enjoy the worth of your money.

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