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Father threatens daughter, family for marrying Christian, converting to Christianity
Father threatens daughter, family for marrying Christian, converting to Christianity.
It is surprising that some people are still tenaciously holding on to their extremist religious belief despite the changing time.Not even the popular Yoruba adage that says, “Father’s choice of religious practice may not influence their children’s way to salvation”,could change their minds.
The above narration best explained the case of popular Muslim cleric in ibadan who allegedly has decided to make life difficult for his daughter and family for exercising her right to change her religion.
Mrs Atewogbola Adeola Ganiyat, a 39 year-old woman who hails from a Muslim family in Ibadan, Oyo State in Southwest,Nigeria, is one of the few among those who suffering religious slavery in the country that are bold enough to speak out and dare their parents regarding their religious presence.
Mrs Atewogbola is, however, currently paying dearly for her courage in marrying a Christian and converting from Islam to Christianity against her father’s wish.
The Mother of one (David Akorede, 2)is married to Mr Michael Adeyemi Atewogbola, a 43 years old devoted Christian she met at a crusade in Ibadan.
It was, however, reported that her father,who is a well known Muslim leader, vehemently opposed her relationship with a Christian husband.
Mrs Atewogbola spoke with Sahara newspaper during her sojourn in Ota, a practice which she and her family have adopted not only as a devoted Christian family but also as a way of moving around to avoid her father and his agent that are allegedly tracking them.
She spoke with our reporter from her hideout with husband and two children after their home was allegedly attacked by people suspected to be members of an Islamic group which she said is working for our father.
The trouble woman, who said that she had been a practicing Muslim from childhood, added that her father who is the Baba Adinni and chieftain of Idi-Ape central mosque in ibadan, has declared war on her and her family for effrontery in marry a Christian and converting from her family religion (Islam) to Christianity.
“I grew up knowing only Islam as my way of life because my family is a Muslim family. It was our way of life and the only thing that we know, so, there is no way I could have known what was happening in other religion, especially Christianity which my father detests.
“It is always a constant warning to me and other children that we cannot under any circumstances be married to anyone except someone that is a Muslim”.
Mrs Atewogbola, who said that she was a member of the women’s wing of the Alasalatu Islamiyah of Nigeria, Ibadan chapter, and secretary of the group, said that things took another turn in 2012 when she add a strange encounter.
“But everything changed through devine intervention in 2012. It was around June of that year while I was in a trance in my room, I saw the image of a man in white robe who told me in plain Arabic language that I should follow him”, I was told to abandon my old faith and embrace Christianity. The situation was very confusing and I simply dismissed as nothing after I regaining my consciousness.But the same thing occurred in the night and this time, the communication was in my Yoruba language. In a clear voice, I was told Jesus is the way,the truth and the life”, she recalled.
According to her, it was unthinkable for her to even contemplate going to church at that time as a result, she had to live with the feeling for a long time until she had a problem getting husband.
She said that all her attempt to marry a Muslim man proved abortive as all her relationship with Muslim men ended abruptly and afterwards had an encounter with a pastor who told her to seek for a husband in a church.
I later had an encounter with a pastor I have never met in my life who told me I can only get the husband of my desire in a Church.
After the encounter, I started having a change of of heart because I needed a husband desperately at that time. I started attending church secretly for Bible study, it was this that changed my perception which was based on the indoctrination that we were given from childhood about Christianity. ” The religion is all about love, sharing, compassion, forgiveness and devotion”, Mrs Atewogbola said.
She stated that she met her husband, Mr Michael Adeyemi Atewogbola at a crusade and later married him after she secretly embrace Christianity.
” I actually met my husband at a crusade. We just met and got talking and eventually married but not without serious disagreement. As expected, my father vehemently opposed the unio.It was while we were preparing for the wedding that I was mustered the strength to reveal to my father and other family members that my husband is not just a Christian, but I have also converted to his religion as well.”
She explained further that, “They were devastated and asked me to call off the wedding but I stood my ground.
However, the eldest man in our family which everybody looked up to because of his age and influence, that intervain and prevailed on my father to allow the wedding to go on.
Although, he reluctantly approved of the union, none of my family members attended the wedding” she added.
The Mother of David Atewogbola started that her problems were compounded in 2016, when her father wrote to her that he had presented her for the position of a woman leader in a Mosque in Ibadan.
” Despite knowing that I was no longer a Muslim, my father called me in 2016 that to take up an Islamic title of Iya Adinni of Ansar-ul-Deen mosque in ibadan, on the ground that it was zoned to our family and he has nominated me for the position.
My refusal brought so much threat to my family and since then, we have been running from one place to another for crusades as a way of getting away from my father because we are constantly under monitoring”.she lamented.
” My husband was attacked twice in our area in Ibadan by some members of Muslim Society of Nigeria, an organization that my father belongs to. He was also attacked in Sango Ota in Ogun state where we were living after running away from Ibadan due to attacks and incessant threats from my father and his group. He’s actually one of their patrons “.
A distraught Mr. Atewogbola, also speaking on his family’s recent ordeal, said that his wife has been able to capture all that they have been facing in the hands of her father and added that their lives are no longer safe anywhere.
“When we thought we are in Lagos and far away from these people, members of this organization tracked us down to Ikorodu, where we were having a crusade as they hid in bid to attack us. We were actually in a crusade growhe they attacked the house we were staying in Ota,.
The place was vandalized and our Rio car was set ablaze before our neighbor call us us on getting there they attacked my husband again. We only managed to escape again with the help of some Christian and members of the local vigilante group.
He said his plan was to take his family to a safer place far away from where his wife’s father, family or any of their loyalists will be able to reach them.
Ajadi Rejects Pay Rise For President, Others, Says Proposal Insensitive To Nigerians Suffer
A South West Chieftain of the New Nigeria Peoples Party, (NNPP) has said that he rejects the reported plan by the Federal Government to raise the salaries of political office holders, including the President, Vice-President, Ministers and others, saying such move is insensitive to the current plights of Nigerians due to the present economic challenges.
Ajadi said many Nigerians are groaning under unprecedented hardship due to the harsh economy, saying what is expected of the political office holders is to make sacrifices.
It could be recalled that the Revenue Mobilisation Allocation and Fiscal Commission, (RMAFC) has hinted at plans to review the salaries of political office holders in Nigeria, describing current earnings as inadequate, unrealistic, and outdated in the face of rising responsibilities and economic challenges.
At a press briefing in Abuja on Monday, RMAFC Chairman, Mohammed Shehu, disclosed that President Bola Tinubu presently earns N1.5m monthly, while ministers receive less than N1m, figures that have remained unchanged since 2008.
According to Shehu, “You are paying the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria N1.5m a month, with a population of over 200 million people. Everybody believes that it is a joke.
“You cannot pay a minister less than N1m per month since 2008 and expect him to put in his best without necessarily being involved in some other things. You pay either a CBN governor or the DG ten times more than you pay the President. That is just not right. Or you pay him [the head of an agency] twenty times higher than the Attorney-General of the Federation. That is absolutely not right”.
However, Ajadi in a statement made available to journalists on Wednesday, said at a time when reforms demand sacrifice, this proposal smacks of greed, tone-deafness and moral bankruptcy.
Ajadi said a progressive government in moments of economic crisis like Nigeria is currently going through will reduce the cost of governance rather than inflate it.
According to him, it is insensitive to increase political office holders’ salaries while workers have been struggling for a living wage without appropriate response from the governments.
“The proposed increase in salaries of the President, Vice and other political office holders at this time of economic hardship will amount to insensitivity to the plights of ordinary Nigerians
“The current Workers’ minimum wages is not enough to provide the means of livelihood for any worker. The inflation is biting harder on Nigerians. Contrary to the poor conditions of Nigerians, political office holders are flashing their riches, and displaying their wealth openly with utter disregard to the conditions of ordinary citizens. To now increase the salaries of these political office holders will not augur well for our country.
“In countries where the economy is bad, what obtained is for the political office holders to reduce their earnings as a sacrifice. It is with this that they will have the moral right to preach to ordinary citizens to make.sacrifice.
“In New Zealand, Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern and her cabinet reduced their pay by 20% during the COVID-19 pandemic.
“During the 2008 financial crisis, Ireland slashed ministerial and parliamentary salaries by as much as 30%.
“In the midst of Greece’s sovereign debt crisis, ministers and the Members of Parliament took salaries cuts in solidarity with citizens.
“True leaders tight their belts first before asking citizens to bear the burden of reform. For Nigeria’s political class to even consider “jumbo salaries” at a time of rising inflation, subsidy removal, unemployment and worsening poverty is unconscionable.
“RMAFC must immediately drop this self-serving scheme.What the nation requires today is fiscal discipline, leadership by sacrifice, not political overlords fattening themselves while citizens starve”.
Fubara Behind Campaign of Calumny Against Tinubu Over Rivers Emergency Rule – CJD
The Coalition for Justice and Democracy (CJD) has accused the suspended Governor of Rivers State, Siminalayi Fubara, of orchestrating a campaign of calumny against President Bola Tinubu as revenge for the declaration of emergency rule in the state.
In a strongly worded statement on Wednesday and signed by its president, Comrade Raymond Aighona, the coalition alleged that Fubara was also behind the circulation of a document on social media which falsely accused the Sole Administrator of Rivers, Ibok-Eket Ibas, of mismanaging half a trillion naira and inflating contracts under the guise of funding President Tinubu’s 2027 re-election bid.
The group dismissed the allegations as “baseless blackmail”, insisting that the sole administrator had acted strictly within the limits of the emergency powers granted him and under the constant oversight of committees set up by both chambers of the National Assembly to monitor Rivers during the emergency rule.
“Siminalayi Fubara has chosen the path of bitterness and deceit. He has not forgiven President Tinubu for saving Rivers State from total political anarchy through the declaration of emergency rule. Now, in an act of reckless vengeance, he is sponsoring falsehoods, pushing forged documents, and trying to smear the reputation of the President and the sole administrator. These antics will not succeed,” Aighona declared.
The CJD said it had carried out its own checks and found no evidence to support the claims of financial recklessness being circulated online against Ibas.
“Every action of the Sole Administrator is monitored by oversight committees from both the Senate and the House of Representatives. His expenditures are scrutinised and subjected to due process. For anyone to claim that he single-handedly pulled out half a trillion naira from the coffers of Rivers State is not only laughable but deliberately mischievous,” the group added.
According to the CJD, the social media document, which alleged that inflated contracts were being used to bankroll the President’s 2027 campaign, bore “all the fingerprints of Fubara’s political desperation”.
“This is nothing but a forged narrative manufactured by those who lost relevance under the emergency rule. Fubara is the unseen hand behind these malicious reports. He hopes to poison the minds of Rivers people against President Tinubu and to discredit Ibas, whose steady leadership has restored calm and order to the state,” Aighona said.
The group further warned that such “propaganda politics” could inflame tensions and destabilise Rivers if not exposed for what it truly is.
“What Fubara is doing is reckless and dangerous. Rather than take responsibility for the failures of his short-lived administration, he is weaponising lies, sowing distrust, and dragging the President’s name into his personal vendetta. This is not only unfair to President Tinubu but also a betrayal of Rivers people who are finally enjoying stability after months of turmoil,” the statement continued.
The CJD praised Ibas for what it described as “disciplined and transparent stewardship” since his appointment as Sole Administrator.
“Ibas has not gone beyond his authority. He has been meticulous in carrying out his duties and has kept faith with the mandate to stabilise Rivers State. He deserves commendation, not blackmail. Anyone suggesting otherwise is only doing the bidding of embittered politicians like Fubara,” Aighona said.
The group called on security agencies to investigate the origin of the circulating document and to expose those behind the “malicious forgery”.
It also urged the Nigerian public to treat such reports with contempt, stressing that the claims were designed to smear the President and destabilise Rivers.
“There is no half-trillion naira missing from Rivers’ coffers. There are no inflated contracts funding the President’s re-election. These are lies from the pit of desperation. The real story is that Fubara, who has been constitutionally sidelined under emergency rule, is fighting back with propaganda. He must be called out,” the CJD stated.
The coalition reaffirmed its support for the emergency measures in Rivers, insisting that the intervention had prevented total collapse and restored a measure of peace and governance to the state.
“President Tinubu acted to save Rivers, not to exploit it. Ibas has executed that mandate with dignity. The blackmail campaign being funded by Fubara cannot erase these truths. Nigerians should see through his desperation and reject his propaganda,” Aighona advised.
Beyond Optics: Setting the Record Straight on Nigeria’s TICAD Booth
I feel compelled to clarify misconceptions around Nigeria’s so-called “unmanned booth” at TICAD, which has unfortunately become the subject of misleading commentary.
First, the space in question is not a national pavilion. It is a designated spillover area—typically used by delegates without access to the main auditorium to follow proceedings, hold side meetings, or work quietly. Countries may choose to convert such spaces into national showcases, but it is not compulsory. Any Nigerian delegate can use the space at any time. Several other countries also had similar spaces today that were quiet or lightly used. It is neither unusual nor a sign of disengagement.
Now, to the real issue: Nigeria is not in Japan for optics. Visibility is not the only metric. Value is.
While some chase appearances, Nigerian officials are working deliberately and with focus:
HM Pate is finalising a landmark health sector agreement with Japanese partners.
HM Power is advancing a major energy partnership.
BOI and BOA are deep in investment negotiations.
HM Foreign Affairs is leading ministerial-level engagements and aligning national plans.
Mr. President is meeting Japanese investors, Nigerian diaspora business leaders, development partners, and fellow heads of government.
The work is being done—quietly, strategically, and with impact.
So what purpose is served by amplifying an incomplete visual to imply national failure? Even if unintended, this kind of knee-jerk commentary can undermine progress and reinforce misrepresentation. Visibility should not be confused with value; applause is not the same as achievement.
Koko of the Matter: Nigeria’s space was not “unmanned” in the sense implied. We are under no obligation to adopt the performative routines of others. In diplomacy, presence is not always performance—and substance will always outweigh spectacle.
In line with TICAD’s structure, Nigeria’s space will see more active use on Day 2 and Day 3, which focus on Economy and Society, functioning as an open national stand accessible to all delegates.
Let us focus on outcomes, not optics—in the best interest of our country.
~ Otega #TheTiger Ogra
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