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Look Ahead: The Power of Forward Thinking in a Distracted World
Look Ahead: The Power of Forward Thinking in a Distracted World.
Written by George Omagbemi Sylvester
Published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com
In a world dominated by noise, pressure and comparison, one timeless truth stands tall: “Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead, that is where your future lies.” This powerful quote by American author Ann Landers resonates more today than ever before. The overwhelming fixation on the past and obsession with others success stories have shackled many from pursuing their unique paths. The truth is harsh but simple, you can never drive forward while staring at the rearview mirror. The only direction that leads to growth, change and fulfillment is forward.
Yet, many individuals are trapped in the cycle of comparison and regret. They scroll endlessly through social media, comparing filtered lives, curated bodies and doctored achievements with their raw realities. They dwell in the past, nursing wounds or glorifying moments that have faded into irrelevance, but here’s the undeniable truth: “NO AMOUNT OF REGRET CAN CHANGE THE PAST AND NO AMOUNT OF COMPARISON CAN ACCELERATE YOUR DESTINY.”
The Toxicity of Comparison, A Silent Killer of Dreams. Psychological studies have confirmed that comparison is the thief of joy. A study by the University of California found that individuals who frequently compare themselves to others are more likely to suffer from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and chronic dissatisfaction. Social psychologist Dr. Leon Festinger coined the term “SOCIAL COMPARISON THEORY” in 1954, noting that people determine their self-worth based on how they stack up against others. While natural, this comparison has grown cancerous in the age of Instagram, TikTok and LinkedIn.
Dr. Brene Brown, a renowned researcher on vulnerability and shame, notes that: “Stay in your own lane. Comparison kills creativity and joy.” Every individual is on a different journey, yet society teaches us to measure our success by milestones dictated by others: the AGE to MARRY, the AGE to BUILD WEALTH, the AGE to RETIRE. Although LIFE is not a RACE, it is a JOURNEY. You are not BEHIND. You are not LATE. You are RIGHT on TIME for your own UNIQUE DESTINY.
Why the Past Cannot Define the Future. There is no wisdom in mourning missed opportunities or broken paths indefinitely. According to neuroscientist Dr. Joe Dispenza, the brain becomes addicted to emotions from past experiences. This leads to a cycle of emotional replays that trap people in the same story. He argues that true transformation occurs when we “BREAK THE HABIT OF BEING OURSELVES” and create a future rooted in new habits, not old emotions. Dwelling on what could have been or what you should have done is a trap. SUCCESS is not in PERFECTION but in PROGRESSION. The future belongs to those who wake up and say: “Today, I start again.”
Take it from Nelson Mandela, who spent 27 years in prison and still chose to lead his country to freedom with a forward-looking heart: “The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” The Power of Self-Focus and GOAL-SETTING. Instead of peering into others lives or crying over spilled milk, the wisest action is to look INWARD and FORWARD. This is not a call for selfishness but a strategy for alignment. You cannot water your garden if you are busy watching another’s bloom.
Set goals. Write them down. Break them into bits. Execute daily. Harvard Business Review reports that people who write down their goals are 42% more likely to achieve them than those who don’t. Focused individuals are not immune to failure, they simply do not allow distractions to steal their energy. As Stephen R. Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, rightly said: “The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”
The Future is for the Bold. To move forward, you must accept one brutal truth;” You are not entitled to success. You must earn it.” Complaining, comparing and regretting will never put food on your table or peace in your heart. Only discipline, consistency and vision will. Life rewards the DOERS, not the WATCHERS. The observers may trend for a moment, but the builders are the ones who last. Keep your eyes on the prize. Shut out the noise. Build in silence. Renowned business strategist Gary Vaynerchuk warns: “Your success is your responsibility. Stop blaming your parents, your circumstances, your government or your competition. Focus on what you can control.”
Mindset: Your Greatest Weapon. Your mindset shapes your future more than any external factor. Those who keep looking backward become prisoners of memory. Those who look forward become architects of destiny. Your thoughts, beliefs and attitude are your compass. Research from Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck reveals that people with a growth mindset (who believe their abilities can improve) achieve far more than those with a fixed mindset. In her book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, she emphasizes: “Becoming is better than being.” This means you are a work in progress. You are allowed to FAIL, FALL, LEARN, REBUILD, RESTART and REIMAGINE. What you are becoming matters more than what you have been.
From Regret to Responsibility. It is easy to get stuck in the past when you refuse to take responsibility for your future. Blame keeps people stagnant, but personal responsibility is the bridge between failure and redemption. As former U.S. President Barack Obama once said: “The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep, but we as a people will get there… There is nothing false about HOPE.” This hope is not blind optimism; it is faith in effort, resilience and growth. You must believe that your best days are not behind you, they are ahead of you.
What You Must Do Now. Accept your past, but do not live in it. Learn the lessons. Let go of the weight. Set meaningful goals. Don’t just work hard, work with vision. Celebrate your wins, however small. Success is built brick by brick.
Disconnect from toxic comparisons. Mute the noise.
Speak to yourself kindly. Your inner dialogue determines your destiny.
Surround yourself with growth-minded people. If your circle does not push you forward, it is holding you back.
Believe in the process. Rome was not built in a day, but it was built daily.
Parting Shot: The Future Is Yours. If You Look Ahead. You are not what you were. You are not what they said. You are what you decide to become today. The future is not found in your past mistakes or in someone else’s highlight reel. The future is found when you choose to look ahead, rise from the ashes, focus on yourself and chase your goals relentlessly. As the African proverb says, “Don’t look where you fell, look where you slipped.” LEARN. ADJUST. MOVE. You owe no one an explanation for dreaming big, starting late or starting over. Just remember this: “Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead, that is where your future lies.”

Written by George Omagbemi Sylvester
Published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com
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FRSC@ 38: SHEHU MOHAMMED STEERING NIGERIA’S ROAD SAFETY REVOLUTION TO GREATER HEIGHTS
FRSC@ 38: SHEHU MOHAMMED STEERING NIGERIA’S ROAD SAFETY REVOLUTION TO GREATER HEIGHTS
By Deputy Corps Marshal Bisi Kazeem (Rtd) fsi, MNIM, anipr
When Mallam Shehu Mohammed assumed leadership as Corps Marshal of the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC), he inherited not just an institution with history, but a national mandate that touches every family, every highway, and every community in Nigeria. At 38 years, the Corps stands tall as Africa’s model road safety agency, and under his stewardship, that legacy is not merely preserved, it is being boldly redefined.
Nigeria’s highways were once synonymous with fear. Before 1988, the World Health Organisation ranked Nigeria among the most dangerous countries in the world to drive. It was a troubling indictment that demanded courage and clarity of purpose. The establishment of the FRSC under Decree No. 45 of 1988 laid the foundation for reform. But sustaining and advancing that reform across decades requires visionary leadership, the kind now exemplified by Mallam Shehu Mohammed.
Today, under his command, the Corps is consolidating its position as one of the most technologically advanced and operationally efficient law enforcement institutions in Nigeria. With renewed strategic focus, the present leadership has deepened the Safe Systems Approach built on people, processes, and technology, ensuring that safety interventions are not reactive, but preventive and intelligence-driven.
One of the defining hallmarks of his administration is accelerated digital transformation. Within six months, over 3,000 personnel were trained to strengthen operational competence and technological adaptability. More than 95 per cent of the Corps’ administrative and operational processes are automated, supported by over 30 web-based applications that enhance traffic governance nationwide. From the National Crash Reporting Information System (NACRIS) to the upgraded e-ticketing platform, innovation is no longer optional; it is institutional culture.
Emergency response under the current Corps Marshal has become faster and more coordinated, with nationwide response time reduced dramatically from 50 minutes to 15 minutes. The 122 toll-free emergency line and 24-hour National Call Centre continue to serve as lifelines for distressed road users, reflecting a leadership that understands that every second counts.
Strategic stakeholder engagement has equally flourished. Safe corridor initiatives have been strengthened, collaboration with transport unions intensified, and enforcement around articulated vehicles tightened. The result is a significant reduction in tanker-related crashes, a development that speaks to deliberate policy direction and disciplined implementation.
Under Mallam Shehu Mohammed’s leadership, data has become a central pillar of enforcement and planning. Through strengthened collaboration with the National Identity Management Commission, the National Bureau of Statistics, and the Nigeria Customs Service, the Corps has advanced harmonized data systems that support evidence-based interventions. Transparent weekly crash trend reporting now guides targeted deployment and corrective strategies.
Nigeria’s standing on the global stage has also been reinforced. The country remains an active participant in the renewed UN Decade of Action for Road Safety (2021–2030) and continues alignment with international road safety conventions. These achievements build on the solid foundation laid by past leaders from Olu Agunloye and General Haladu Hannaniya to Chief Osita Chidoka, Dr. Boboye Oyeyemi, and Dauda Ali Biu, but under the present Corps Marshal, the momentum has unmistakably intensified.
Operationally, the Corps’ footprint now spans 12 Zonal Commands, 37 Sector Commands, over 300 Unit Commands, over 700 Station Offices, 59 Zebra Emergency Ambulance Points, and presence in all 774 Local Government Areas of Nigeria. Yet beyond physical structures lies a stronger institutional spirit, one driven by discipline, professionalism, and accountability.
From a nation once ranked among the most unsafe for motorists to a continental pacesetter in road safety management, Nigeria’s transformation story is inseparable from the strength of its leadership. At 38 years, FRSC is not simply celebrating longevity; it is celebrating purposeful stewardship.
Mallam Shehu Mohammed represents a generation of reform-minded leadership committed to smarter mobility systems, data-driven enforcement, and people-centered safety administration.
His tenure reflects continuity with courage sustaining the Corps’ proud legacy while boldly steering it toward greater innovation and measurable impact.
The road ahead is demanding. But under his steady command, Nigeria’s highways are safer, its systems smarter, and its future brighter.
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Introducing “Atupaglowco” : Where Fragrance Meets Feeling; The Story of Our Beginning
Introducing “Atupaglowco”: Where Fragrance Meets Feeling; The Story of Our Beginning
Every great journey begins with a sense of anticipation. For us, it began with a simple belief that a space should do more than exist, it should speak comfort and glow.
In a world filled with noise, stress, and endless motion, we realized something powerful. Fragrance can transform not just rooms, but moods. A familiar scent can calm anxiety. A warm aroma can turn a house into a home. A gentle glow can bring peace after a long day. This realization gave birth to “Atupaglowco.”
Atupaglowco was not created to sell diffusers, room sprays, or candles. It was created to create experiences. To create moments. To create atmospheres where people can breathe, reflect, and feel whole again.
The name itself represents more than a brand. It represents warmth. It represents light. It represents presence. We remember the early days, the planning, the testing of scents, the moments of doubt, and the moments of excitement. Each candle poured was a step of faith. Each fragrance blended was a piece of our vision coming to life. We weren’t just building products; we were building something meaningful.
Our diffusers were designed to quietly fill spaces with elegance.
Our room sprays were crafted to instantly refresh and revive environments. Our candles were made to bring calm, beauty, and a soft glow into everyday life.
Atupaglowco was born from passion, patience, and purpose. This launch is not just the start of a business. It is the start of a movement to help people create spaces they love. Spaces that inspire rest. Spaces that inspire joy. Spaces that glow.
We believe fragrance is personal. We believe glow is emotional. We believe every space deserves both.
Today, we proudly introduce Atupaglowco to the world.
This is only the beginning.
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Ajadi Hails Oyo Speaker Ogundoyin at 39, Describes Him as Beacon of Purposeful Leadership
Ajadi Hails Oyo Speaker Ogundoyin at 39, Describes Him as Beacon of Purposeful Leadership
A leading governorship aspirant of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) in Oyo State, Ambassador Olufemi Ajadi Oguntoyinbo, has congratulated the Speaker of the Oyo State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Adebo Edward Ogundoyin, on the occasion of his 39th birthday, describing him as “a symbol of resilience, maturity and purposeful leadership in Nigeria’s democratic journey.”
In a congratulatory message made available to journalists on Tuesday, Ajadi praised Ogundoyin’s steady rise in public service, noting that his emergence as Speaker at a relatively young age reflects the possibilities of responsible youth leadership when combined with discipline, vision and service.
“Rt. Hon. Ogundoyin’s leadership has shown that age is not a barrier to excellence,” Ajadi said. “At 39, he stands tall as one of the most impactful Speakers in Oyo State’s history—calm, inclusive and deeply committed to democratic ideals.”
Ogundoyin, who represents Ibarapa East State Constituency under the Peoples Democratic Party, has served as Speaker since 2019 and was re-elected to lead the 10th Assembly in June 2023. His tenure has been marked by legislative stability, improved executive–legislative relations and youth-inclusive governance.
Ajadi commended the Speaker for fostering unity within the Assembly and prioritising laws that strengthen grassroots development across Oyo State. “His humility, accessibility and focus on people-oriented legislation have earned him respect beyond party lines,” he said. “He exemplifies the kind of leadership Oyo State needs—one anchored on service, accountability and progress.”
The governorship aspirant further described Ogundoyin as a rallying point for young Nigerians aspiring to public office. “In a country searching for credible leaders, Ogundoyin’s story offers hope,” Ajadi added. “He has shown that when young leaders are trusted with responsibility, they can deliver stability and results.”
Ajadi wished the Speaker many more years of good health, wisdom and greater service to Oyo State and Nigeria at large, praying that his leadership journey continues to inspire a new generation of public servants.
Ogundoyin, one of the youngest Speakers in Nigeria, has continued to attract goodwill messages from political leaders, civil society actors and constituents, as Oyo State marks another year in the life of a lawmaker widely regarded as a steady hand in the state’s legislative affairs.
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