Connect with us

Fashion/Lifestyle

HOW I LOST MY MOM TO CANCER “MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN OYO STATE

Published

on

The crown is heavy, yet she wears it grace and effortless ease – as if it were a feather. There’s strength in her heart, passion in her eyes and the will to survive resides within her soul. She is a phoenix, a fighter, and a Champion. Akintunde Phoebe is our QUEEN.
THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN OYO STATE RELEASES PICTURES FROM HER 2019 ROYALTY SHOOT TO TELL HER Ascension STORY
I am AKINTUNDE, Phoebe Omorinre. I was born on the 20th of June, 1996, in the city of Ibadan, Lalupon to be precise. I am from a family of nine – My father, Mr Akintayo Akintunde; my late mother, Mrs Iyabo Akintunde; my two brothers; my four sisters and myself. I attended Community Grammar School, Olodo Ibadan.
At age 9, my mom was diagnosed of breast cancer. The situation exposed me to some realities of life, even at such a tender age. For instance, I realised early that tribulations often trims down one’s network of friends. The news of my mom’s illness caused a lot of people to cut her off. No one wanted to have her around because the wound won’t stop smelling. It was really challenging that It affected my Grade in school while taking care of her.
This challenge rocked my faith and it pushed me near the point of questioning God. I could see my mom was in severe pain. I had to travel from state to state – I was barely 12 at that time – hoping to find a cure to my mom’s ailment. She was bedridden four years before she finally gave up the ghost.
For me, I started living alone at the age of thirteen. Just after my Senior Secondary School Education at Oyo State School of Science, Okeho, I got admitted into Federal College of Education (Special) Oyo, where I studied Biology Education/Education for the physical and health impaired. This was in the year 2013, all through to 2016. I gained admission into the University of Ibadan, which is affiliated to Federal College of Education Oyo, to study Special Education and Mathematics.
I contested for the most beautiful girl in oyo state because I needed a platform where I can reach out to the society about the importance of girls and to curb the discrimination of girl child in the society.
In 2018,  I was crowned the first Most Beautiful Girl in Oyo state. Sometimes I think about how God has helped me ascend to royal status. I remember that after the demise of my mom, depression crept in. I stopped making friends and built a wall, shutting the world. I reached a point where I knew I was losing myself. Then I decided never to allow it ruin me, which is why “no matter what we are going through, depression isn’t our HOPE and OPTION” mark twain” To the young girls out there, do not be discouraged by what people say to you, you can be more than the greatness they told you is a no go area.
Queen Phoebe has started her 500 GIRL POWER EMPOWERMENT/GIRL CHILD CAMPAIGN in Oyo state since winning the MBGOS title. This campaign has seen her go to schools and motherless homes,  distributing “sanitary pads, stationeries, school bags, food items, engagement in vocational aptitudes and paying of some students school fees. She is also planning to take the awareness into markets for a march against the DISCRIMINATION OF GIRL CHILD IN OYO STATE.
Photocredit: ladayobodunrinphotography
Dress by: purplestitches
Hair by :hairbydayjee
Mua: melody.dasilva

SAVETHEGIRLCHILD

Fashion/Lifestyle

Bold. Beautiful. Unapologetically Hanna NG

Published

on

Bold. Beautiful. Unapologetically Hanna NG. 👑 — Where grace meets greatness. #HannaNG #BeautyWithPurpose #ModelVibes #PageantQueen #FearlesslyFeminine #EleganceInMotion

Bold. Beautiful. Unapologetically Hanna NG. 👑
— Where grace meets greatness.

 

Bold. Beautiful. Unapologetically Hanna NG. 👑 — Where grace meets greatness. #HannaNG #BeautyWithPurpose #ModelVibes #PageantQueen #FearlesslyFeminine #EleganceInMotion

#HannaNG #BeautyWithPurpose #ModelVibes #PageantQueen #FearlesslyFeminine #EleganceInMotion

Continue Reading

Fashion/Lifestyle

Nigerian Travel Creator Alma Asinobi Falls Short of Guinness World Record Due to Visa Delays

Published

on

Nigerian Travel Creator Alma Asinobi Falls Short of Guinness World Record Due to Visa Delays

Nigerian Travel Creator Alma Asinobi Falls Short of Guinness World Record Due to Visa Delays

Nigerian travel content creator Alma Asinobi may not be setting a new Guinness World Record for the fastest journey across all seven continents after visa-related delays prevented her from reaching Sydney, Australia, within the required time.

In an Instagram update on Sunday, Asinobi, who is still en route to Sydney, confirmed that her total journey time would be 71 hours and 35 minutes, falling short of the current record of 64 hours, set in February 2025 by American veteran Johnny Cruz Buckingham.

Reflecting on her attempt, she noted that had she been competing against the previous record of 73 hours, set by Indian travelers in 2022, she would have surpassed it. However, multiple setbacks meant that by the time she made her announcement, she had already spent 63 hours, 54 minutes, and 33 seconds traveling, making it impossible to surpass Buckingham’s 64-hour record.

Asinobi faced numerous obstacles throughout her attempt, particularly due to visa restrictions associated with her Nigerian passport. One of the major setbacks occurred when she was denied boarding on her flight to Perth, Australia, forcing her to rebook on a later flight to Sydney.

In her Instagram post, she reflected on the challenges she encountered, including unexpected disruptions such as the Heathrow Airport fire that further complicated her travel plans.

“So close, but so far away. I may not have won this one, but we can sure win the next one together,” she wrote. “My eyes may be swollen from all the tears I’ve cried, but I promise to find moments of laughter in between.”

Despite the setback, Asinobi emphasized that her journey was about more than just breaking a record. She expressed hope that her attempt would inspire others to take on challenges, regardless of the limitations they face.

“When I land, we will catch up on lives and pour our hearts out to each other. For now, let’s finish this! I really hope this attempt was worth something for a Nigerian out there,” she added.

Now shifting her focus to her homecoming event on March 30, Asinobi aims to set another record by gathering Nigerians to sign a national flag in solidarity.

“We still have one more record to break at the homecoming event on March 30, where we will make history by signing our Nigerian flag,” she wrote. “I can’t wait to see you all there. I totally and physically cannot do that one without you, so please show up for me.”

Throughout her journey, Asinobi has been vocal about the difficulties Nigerian passport holders face, including complex visa requirements, expensive travel arrangements, and last-minute flight cancellations. Her experience has sparked widespread discussions on passport inequality and the barriers restricting global mobility for citizens of certain countries.

While she may not be taking home the Guinness World Record, Asinobi’s attempt has garnered widespread support, with many rallying behind her efforts.

“You did win! A personal win, a win for Nigerians, a win for me as a fellow Black girl navigating the world without passport privilege,” one supporter commented on her post.

Despite the challenges, Asinobi remains determined to continue making history and inspiring others to push beyond their limitations.

 

Continue Reading

Fashion/Lifestyle

Those who wronged you may never say “I’m sorry” – Prudent Ludidi

Published

on

Those who wronged you may never say "I'm sorry" - Prudent Ludidi

Those who wronged you may never say “I’m sorry” – Prudent Ludidi

 

 

Ladies and gentlemen,

Today, I want to talk about something that can be difficult to accept, those who wronged you may never say “I’m sorry.”

 

Those who wronged you may never say "I'm sorry" - Prudent Ludidi

We’ve all been hurt by someone at some point in our lives. And often, we hold onto that hurt, and hope in waiting for the person who wronged us to acknowledge their mistake and apologize.

But the truth is, that apology may never come.

It’s hard to accept because we feel like we deserve closure. We deserve to hear that the person who hurt us regrets their actions.

But closure is not something someone else gives you. Closure is something you give yourself.

You have the power to choose:

Choose to heal, even if they never acknowledge their wrongdoing
Choose to move forward, even if they never make amends

Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting what happened. Forgiveness means releasing the hold that person has on you.

Forgiveness means taking back control of your life.

You don’t need someone else’s apology to move on. You don’t need someone else’s validation to heal.

You are strong enough to do it on your own.

And when you do, you’ll find peace. You’ll find freedom.

Remember, holding onto anger and resentment only hurts you. It doesn’t change the past.

But forgiveness can change your future.

So, don’t wait for someone else to say “I’m sorry.” Say it to yourself: “I’m sorry that happened to me, but I’m moving forward.”

Say it loud and clear: “I deserve to heal. I deserve to be happy.”

Take back your power. Take back your life.

Move forward with courage and faith.

You got this.

Continue Reading

Cover Of The Week

Trending