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ACTIVISTS, BE TRUE TO YOURSELVES By Comrade Tunde Oladunjo

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ACTIVISTS, BE TRUE TO YOURSELVES By Comrade Tunde Oladunjoye

Remarks delivered at the 2024 Human Rights Celebrations organized by the Coalition of Civil Societies and Pro-Democracy Activists, Abeokuta, December 9, 2024.

 

 

 

I extend my heartfelt congratulations to the Chairman, executives, and members of the Ogun State Civil Society Coalition on this year’s commemoration of International Human Rights Day. I am deeply honored by your invitation to attend this important event as a “guest of honor.”

Civil society organizations (CSOs) play a crucial role in shaping society. Their active engagement in areas such as governance, environmental protection, climate change, labor rights, law enforcement, and women’s empowerment is essential for societal progress. A vibrant and functional civil society sector benefits everyone.

However, this occasion provides an opportunity for introspection. I urge CSO activists to remain true to their calling by embodying within their organizations the very ideals they seek for society at large. The change we demand from government and society must begin within our own ranks.

The Integrity of Activism

Human rights activism is neither a profession nor a license for blackmail or spreading unsubstantiated allegations cloaked in self-righteousness. Activists must be models of accountability, transparency, and democracy in their own organizations.

Do we, as CSOs, practice the democracy we demand of others? Are we accountable to our members? Do we produce annual and audited financial reports? These are fundamental questions we must ask ourselves. The probity we demand from public officials must equally apply within our organizations.

Our relationship with government representatives also warrants examination. Are they deemed “good” when accessible for material benefits and “bad” when access is denied? Why do some activists organize protests in defense of politically exposed individuals, even those who flout court orders?

Moreover, how do we relate to comrades in government? Are they partners to be engaged constructively, or objects of envy because they have moved on financially? Have we been honest in managing the occasional support we receive from unexpected sources?

Activism as a Calling, Not a Vocation

While unemployment is a pressing issue in Nigeria, activism should not become a substitute for vocation. Activism did not prevent Bekololari Ransome-Kuti, Gani Fawehinmi, Baba Omojola, Femi Falana, Ayo Obe, and others from pursuing their respective professions. Their activism was driven by principle, not survival.

Back in the days of the Committee for the Defence of Human Rights (CDHR), we published annual and audited reports, held free and fair elections, and maintained transparency. Can the same be said of CSOs today?

This is not a blanket condemnation but a call to action. Genuine and committed activists still exist and should serve as role models to those who approach activism as a career rather than a cause.

A Call to Self-Reflection

A strong and effective civil society sector benefits all. We must distinguish between genuine activists and those motivated by self-interest. As activists, we must first address the logs in our own eyes before pointing out the specks in the eyes of others, including politicians.

By remaining true to our mission, we can reduce inequality and advance human rights in our society.

Thank you once again for the opportunity to share these thoughts.

Comrade Tunde Oladunjoye

  • Former Chairman, Committee for the Defence of Human Rights (CDHR), Lagos State Branch
  • Founding Coordinator, CDHR, Nigerian Institute of Journalism (NIJ) Unit
  • Former National Publicity Secretary, CDHR

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Pastor Peter Oyediran Achieves Remarkably: A Master of Science in Nursing from Walden University ~Oluwaseun Fabiyi

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Pastor Peter Oyediran Achieves Remarkably: A Master of Science in Nursing from Walden University
~Oluwaseun Fabiyi

 

Pastor Peter Oyediran is an American-based Nigerian-born pastor who serves as resident pastor at RCCG Jesus House Huntsville Alabama and graduated with honors as a Master of Science from Walden University on Friday, January 24th, 2025; he is a resilient and easygoing man of God

Having practiced as a psychiatric nurse practitioner for years and acquired a new degree, he has further solidified his professional standing

As an illustrious figure in Nigeria and America, Pastor Peter Oyediran is celebrated for his remarkable contributions to Nigeria’s development, peace, and the diaspora. His visionary leadership, established many decades ago, has made him a reference point amongst his contemporaries

His tireless endeavors within Christendom represented a crucial turning point in the evolution of his community and the parish, which he guided into an era of advancement

Pastor Peter’s developmental achievements transcended religion, as he also explored physical health and medical practice. He acknowledged the importance of education and economic empowerment and thus established a scholarship scheme and initiated a soft loan program to support women in petty trading.These initiatives established a foundation for sustained growth and improved livelihoods

Pastor Peter’s contributions are equally profound globally, and his pivotal role in Christendom is unmatched

The accomplishments of Pastor Peter continue to stand as a lasting testament to his dedication to progress and peace, leaving a lasting impact on his community, state, the African continent, and the world.

Warmest congratulations are in order for this exceptional and esteemed man of God.

Oluwaseun Fabiyi a seasoned journalist writes from Lagos

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Jailed for Snooping: Wife Faces Prison for Reading Husband’s WhatsApp Messages”

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Jailed for Snooping: Wife Faces Prison for Reading Husband’s WhatsApp Messages

 

In a case that has sparked heated debates, a young woman, Dumsile Dludlu, is set to serve up to three years in prison after being found guilty of breaching Swaziland’s strict Computer Crime and Cybercrime Act of 2022.

Dludlu was accused of unlawfully accessing her husband’s WhatsApp messages without his consent—a move that landed her in legal trouble under a law designed to protect individuals’ privacy in the digital age.

The Computer Crime and Cybercrime Act criminalizes any unauthorized access to a computer system or digital platform. Violations of this law carry harsh penalties, including fines of up to E500,000 (approximately R500,000) or imprisonment for up to five years.

Dludlu reportedly went through her husband, Samukeliso Matse’s, private WhatsApp conversations, prompting a domestic confrontation. During the altercation, Dludlu allegedly insulted her husband after uncovering messages that upset her.

“I did insult him, but it wasn’t as severe as what’s in the police statement,” Dludlu told the court, pleading not guilty to the charge of unauthorized access but admitting to the verbal altercation.

The case highlights the far-reaching consequences of the Computer Crime and Cybercrime Act, a law aimed at curbing unauthorized access to digital information. Critics argue that the law, though necessary to protect privacy, may be disproportionately punitive in domestic or minor disputes like this one.

The ruling has sparked a conversation about digital privacy and the boundaries of personal relationships in the digital age. Some have expressed support for the husband’s decision to pursue legal action, while others question whether such matters should be handled in court.

A New Era of Privacy

This case serves as a stark reminder of the importance of respecting digital privacy, even in close relationships. As more countries adopt stringent cybersecurity laws, individuals are urged to be mindful of accessing someone else’s digital devices or accounts without permission.

Dludlu’s sentencing is expected to set a precedent for similar cases under Swaziland’s new cybercrime law, drawing attention to the balance between protecting privacy and navigating the complexities of personal relationships.

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The Heart’s GPS: Coping with the Emotional Effects of Distance By Femi Oyewale

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Love Across Miles: The Psychological Toll and Triumphs of Long-Distance Relationships

 

Long-distance relationships (LDRs) are a unique test of love, resilience, and patience, often stirring up a whirlwind of emotions. While they can strengthen bonds and build character, they also present a range of psychological challenges. Here’s a closer look at how LDRs impact individuals—both positively and negatively.

The Heart’s GPS: Coping with the Emotional Effects of Distance By Femi Oyewale

The Struggles of Distance

Being apart from a loved one can feel like an emotional labyrinth, with many grappling with:

  1. Loneliness and Isolation: The absence of physical closeness can intensify feelings of solitude, particularly during life’s challenges.
  2. Anxiety and Insecurity: Distance may fuel doubts about the relationship’s stability, leading to worries about infidelity or fading commitment.
  3. Communication Strain: Misunderstandings can easily arise through text or video calls, creating emotional tension.
  4. Emotional Highs and Lows: The anticipation of reunions juxtaposed with the sadness of goodbyes often leaves individuals on an emotional roller coaster.
  5. Depression: Prolonged loneliness and stress may lead to depressive symptoms, affecting overall mental health.
  6. Adapting to Change: Partners may grow apart as they experience personal changes and milestones without each other’s immediate presence.

Silver Linings of Separation

Despite its challenges, an LDR can nurture personal growth and strengthen relationships in surprising ways:

  1. Sharper Communication Skills: Distance encourages partners to express themselves more openly and articulate their feelings effectively.
  2. Deeper Emotional Bonds: Without physical proximity, couples often rely on meaningful conversations and shared emotional intimacy to stay connected.
  3. Fostering Independence: Time apart allows individuals to pursue personal interests, careers, and friendships, fostering a sense of self-reliance.
  4. Cherishing Togetherness: Reunions become cherished moments, helping couples appreciate their time together more deeply.
  5. Focused Goals: Many long-distance couples set clear goals—such as closing the gap geographically—giving their relationship direction and purpose.

Navigating the Distance

Ultimately, the psychological effects of long-distance relationships depend on the couple’s approach. Open communication, trust, and mutual commitment are the cornerstones of thriving despite the distance. While LDRs can be emotionally taxing, they also offer opportunities for growth, resilience, and deeper connection.

Whether miles apart or side by side, love endures when both partners remain dedicated to weathering the journey together.

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