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Embracing Uniqueness by Joyous Agada

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It is addressable that once uniquely-declined, every tendency to disrupt desires can be easily achieved. Nothing is prone to success than unique moves on every engagement. To this, making time to frustrate oneself because of meaningless comparisons or competitions, is a doing of ignorant people. Because, drawing experiences from all angles, no one has successfully made it through faking. Even if there is a record of a thing from faking, it can’t stand to be celebrated as a long-lasting legacy.

 

Embracing Uniqueness by Joyous Agada

 

 

Uniqueness comes from little original display of characters and efforts. It gradually multiply with aids of natures, and it emerges outstandingly due to how it is rightly and carefully managed. Hence, anything without touches of originality fades away like a morning dew. Nothing take a position of uniqueness in the middle of all things as there are achieved with diligence, consistency and gratefulness.

There is nothing achieved as a result of envy; there is nothing initiated with pride; and, there is nothing cultivated under influence of comparisons that has made good for oneself and a society at large. Acutely, trying to imitate someone – on inhumane grounds, always bring disasters having tremendous power to conquer the future of an individual. And to this, you hardly see an intelligent person to drop praises of his or her life for doings or achievements of others.

Just as we are born on different days, to different homes and different societies – is as our lives, missions and purposes of life. Additionally, just as our birthdays and death-days differ; similarly, our times of making things happen on earth is. It is a fact that, only when you live doing or trying to get to shoes of others by ingratitude, and for impressing others, that is when failures begin in life. I therefore stand to encourage us to honour uniqueness to make outstanding of life. Note again that, no one is ready to help where there is no definite definition of actions or activities. On a long run, accomplished individuals only help genuine people struggling to make things happen; because, having acquired knowledge, money and influence on earth – comes from original dedications – these are what are scrutinized before helping hands are extended. The worst happen that, if someone is being supported or promoted in areas he or she is not genuinely mastered, all supports and promotions await total package of collapse.

Paramountly, no one should envy others because of how they are created; no one should look down on others due to how they appear to be – rather, we should embrace ourselves for who we are, and to embrace others for who they are. No one is a creator of him or herself. Your creator who made you the way you are, is only responsible for how to make you sellable in a society as you make yourself available to Him with obedience, dedication and hard-work. Experience has taught us how uniqueness with contentment is a singular pill for gracious, glorious and prosperous life. In furtherance, to make this a song in our societies, little children need to be taught on this in order to gather courage to appreciate their uniqueness. Because, within school environment, you would see how certain sets of children never relate to others, whereas some are violent in nature. Pressing further, with careful observations, one of the foremost reasons some are violent – is relatively, a pointer to defending themselves as they feel inferior to their mates. It is therefore an essential thing for parents to install boldness in their kids and make them see their uniqueness right from childhood from the way they treat the children and the words they use on them; this goes a long way in making them to accept and embrace their uniqueness without allowing anyone talk down on them as they journey through life.

Exemplarily, a lady may say, “oh, how I desire to be fair in complexion, having long hair, speak in the British accent, tall and slender, curvy shape and maybe a good dancer and also a singer.” This could be a description of someone desiring what she doesn’t have while ignoring what she has because she sees no good in her uniqueness. With this, it is noted that, she has forgotten we all are uniquely created and the best way to embrace life, is embracing your uniqueness and being bold and proud of it. So, you really don’t have to possess what you see in someone before you can be important in the society or in your environment. Therefore, knowing that you are unique just the way you are, will help in building your self-esteem which will give you control in your sphere of influence.

A lot of people facing different challenges on street today suffer endlessly because of how they have misled themselves on a course of subscribing to lifestyles of others in quest to make name and value for what they were not originally created for. They forget to know that natures have no mercies for the disobedience people; they forget to acknowledge works of natures in their lives; they forget to acknowledge that our Creator is perfect in His makings – in the negligence, there wouldn’t be good settlement until they correct these mistakes. So, the best thing to do in life is to find the uniqueness in you and work on it to become a household thing. With that, everything goes well and easily. Because, it is so pitiful to die struggling to become someone else. Hence, if you die while trying to do originally, your works would be cherished, continued, promoted and supported by your admirers. And you should know that natures command people to love unique things intentionally and unintentionally.

Joyous Agada is a Writer, Teacher and Actress.

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CAN Calls for Compassion and Crowd Management Reform After Stampede Tragedy In Anambra, Oyo State 

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In the wake of the tragic stampede at Holy Trinity Catholic Church in Maitama on Saturday, the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) has expressed deep sorrow and called for improved measures to manage large crowds during charitable events.

In a statement titled “A Heartfelt Response to the Tragedy at Holy Trinity Catholic Church” issued on Sunday, CAN President, Archbishop Daniel Okoh, described the incident as “not just statistics” but a devastating loss affecting real families. He offered condolences to the bereaved families and called for collective support and understanding.

“The National Leadership of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) is disturbed by the tragic events at Holy Trinity Catholic Church in Maitama on Saturday morning. We have learned that at least ten people, including children, lost their lives in a stampede while trying to seek help from the church,” Okoh stated.

“This tragedy is not just statistics; it represents real families who are hurting. Each person lost was someone’s beloved family member. We wish to express our heartfelt condolences to the Catholic Church and to the families affected by this terrible incident. We stand together with you in this time of sadness and prayer,” he added.

The incident, which occurred during a charitable event, is part of a concerning trend. Archbishop Okoh highlighted two other tragic stampedes that took place earlier this month in Nigeria.

On December 18, a Christmas funfair in Ibadan turned deadly when a stampede claimed the lives of 35 children and left six others critically injured. The event, intended to distribute cash and food to over 5,000 children, has since come under investigation for potential lapses in crowd management.

In another instance, a rice distribution event in Anambra State resulted in the deaths of 22 people and injuries to 32 others. Both incidents underscore the challenges associated with organizing large-scale charitable efforts in the country.

“These heartbreaking incidents highlight the challenges of managing large crowds during charitable events. In the face of these tragedies, we recognize the importance of coming together to support those who are grieving,” Okoh said.

He urged Nigerians to show compassion and solidarity in these trying times. “It is crucial that we listen to one another, share our feelings, and offer help in any way we can. This is a time for compassion and understanding as we help one another heal,” the CAN president emphasized.

The CAN leadership also called for a review of protocols and strategies to ensure the safety of participants at charitable events, aiming to prevent similar tragedies in the future.

 

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A Safer Tomorrow: Lessons from a Tragic Event

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The sun was just beginning to rise over the bustling city of Ajayi as hundreds of people gathered outside the Civic Center. The event, a food distribution drive organized by a well-meaning NGO, promised relief to those struggling amidst the recent economic downturn. What began as a hopeful morning turned into a day etched in sorrow.

By noon, the crowd had swelled to thousands, including women cradling children, elderly men leaning on walking sticks, and teenagers who had come to secure meals for their families. The organizers, overwhelmed by the turnout, tried to maintain order, but the narrow entrance to the distribution hall became a bottleneck. As impatience grew, the atmosphere shifted from hopeful to tense.

When the gates finally opened, chaos erupted. People surged forward, pushing and shoving in a desperate bid to be among the first to receive the aid. A child’s cry pierced the air as bodies pressed against each other. Within moments, the situation spiraled out of control. In the ensuing stampede, dozens were injured, and eight lives were lost, including three children.

The tragedy sent shockwaves through the community and drew nationwide attention. Critics lambasted the event organizers for failing to anticipate the crowd size and implement adequate safety measures. The government, too, faced scrutiny for its lack of proactive policies to prevent such incidents.

In the days following the tragedy, the city of Ajayi became a focal point for discussions on public safety and crowd management. At a press conference, Mayor Adedayo Adekunle expressed profound regret for the loss of lives and pledged swift action. “This is a wake-up call for all of us. We cannot allow such a preventable tragedy to happen again. The safety of our citizens must always come first,” he stated.

In response, the city council introduced a new set of regulations for public events. Under the policy, any gathering expected to host more than 200 attendees required pre-approval from the newly formed Event Safety Commission (ESC). Organizers would need to submit detailed plans, including crowd control strategies, medical response teams, and security personnel deployment.

The ESC also mandated that venues have multiple entry and exit points to prevent bottlenecks, provide ample drinking water, and deploy trained volunteers to assist with managing queues. Additionally, the city’s emergency response hotline was upgraded, and public awareness campaigns were launched to educate citizens on safety protocols during large gatherings.

The tragedy also inspired grassroots efforts. Community leaders organized workshops on crowd safety and first aid. Churches, mosques, and other organizations reevaluated their event planning processes, emphasizing safety above all.

One of the most poignant moments came during a memorial service for the victims. Family members and community members gathered to honor the lives lost and advocate for change. Among the speakers was Mrs. Ifeoma Nnaji, who lost her six-year-old daughter, Ada, in the stampede. Holding back tears, she addressed the crowd: “Ada’s life was precious, and her death must not be in vain. Let this be the last time we mourn such a loss. Let us learn, let us act, and let us protect each other.”

Months later, Ajayi’s efforts began to show results. A subsequent food distribution event, held at a larger venue with stringent safety measures in place, went smoothly. Attendees praised the organizers and city officials for their diligence, noting how the lessons from the past had been implemented effectively.

The tragedy in Ajayi became a turning point for the entire nation. State governments adopted similar policies, and collaborations between public and private sectors strengthened safety frameworks. While the scars of that fateful day remained, the collective response demonstrated resilience and a commitment to preventing such incidents in the future.

As the city moved forward, it carried with it the memory of those who had lost their lives. Their legacy became a catalyst for change, ensuring that public events in Ajayi—and beyond—would be safer for everyone.

Epilogue

In a quiet corner of the city’s central park, a memorial was erected in honor of the victims. Inscribed on it were the words: “In their memory, we build a safer tomorrow.” It served as a somber reminder of the past and a beacon of hope for the future.

 

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Christmas Party Tragedy: Seasoned Movie Producer, Bukky Amos-Bello, Expresses Support for Queen Naomi, Sympathizes with Victims

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Seasoned Movie Producer, Bukky Amos-Bello, Expresses Support for Queen Naomi, Sympathizes with Victims

 

A top Nollywood actress and movie producer, Arewa Bukky Amos-Bello, has joined numerous well-wishers who have expressed their support for former queen of Ife Kingdom, Naomi Silekunola, who is currently facing challenges following a tragic stampede at a charity event she organised in Ibadan, resulting in loss of children’s lives.

 

The beautiful thespian popularly called Ajitannawo, in a statement made available to journalists on Sunday, sent a message of encouragement, urging Queen Naomi to stay strong.

 

 

In her heartfelt message, Arewa Amos-Bello expressed sorrow over the incident and offered prayers for Queen Naomi’s courage and resilience in the face of the tragedy.

 

“Be strong and courageous; the Lord is with you. And He will never forsake you my Queen Silekunola. My heart goes out to you in this sorrowful time of yours. My prayer is with you always. God bless you in this difficult time,” Arewa Bukky wrote, while she offered her sincere condolences to families and parents of the victims.

 

Arewa Amos-Bello stated that she feels every bit of what Queen Naomi feels at the moment because she is also a philanthropist who understands that the former Ife Queen did what she did with good intentions.

 

She added;

“I know she meant well because I’m also into charity. The Ibadan event was not her first nor was it the second. We can only pray that God help her and console the victims.”

 

“I want to assure her of my valid support; she is not alone. Her struggles are valid and real, and in acknowledging this, she finds our solidarity. When things like this happen, we may feel ashamed and find it hard to cope, yet even in such a dark time as this, we share our burdens, support one another, and find strength in our unity. She must not give up on her goal and she is encouraged to stand tall against the odds. She is never alone in this journey, she will overcome.”

Christmas Party Tragedy:
Seasoned Movie Producer, Bukky Amos-Bello, Expresses Support for Queen Naomi, Sympathizes with Victims

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