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Father threatens daughter, family for marrying Christian, converting to Christianity

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Father threatens daughter, family for marrying Christian, converting to Christianity.

 

 

It is surprising that some people are still tenaciously holding on to their extremist religious belief despite the changing time.Not even the popular Yoruba adage that says, “Father’s choice of religious practice may not influence their children’s way to salvation”,could change their minds.
The above narration best explained the case of popular Muslim cleric in ibadan who allegedly has decided to make life difficult for his daughter and family for exercising her right to change her religion.
Mrs Atewogbola Adeola Ganiyat, a 39 year-old woman who hails from a Muslim family in Ibadan, Oyo State in Southwest,Nigeria, is one of the few among those who suffering religious slavery in the country that are bold enough to speak out and dare their parents regarding their religious presence.
Mrs Atewogbola is, however, currently paying dearly for her courage in marrying a Christian and converting from Islam to Christianity against her father’s wish.
The Mother of one (David Akorede, 2)is married to Mr Michael Adeyemi Atewogbola, a 43 years old devoted Christian she met at a crusade in Ibadan.
It was, however, reported that her father,who is a well known Muslim leader, vehemently opposed her relationship with a Christian husband.
Mrs Atewogbola spoke with Sahara newspaper during her sojourn in Ota, a practice which she and her family have adopted not only as a devoted Christian family but also as a way of moving around to avoid her father and his agent that are allegedly tracking them.
She spoke with our reporter from her hideout with husband and two children after their home was allegedly attacked by people suspected to be members of an Islamic group which she said is working for our father.

 

 

The trouble woman, who said that she had been a practicing Muslim from childhood, added that her father who is the Baba Adinni and chieftain of Idi-Ape central mosque in ibadan, has declared war on her and her family for effrontery in marry a Christian and converting from her family religion (Islam) to Christianity.
“I grew up knowing only Islam as my way of life because my family is a Muslim family. It was our way of life and the only thing that we know, so, there is no way I could have known what was happening in other religion, especially Christianity which my father detests.
“It is always a constant warning to me and other children that we cannot under any circumstances be married to anyone except someone that is a Muslim”.
Mrs Atewogbola, who said that she was a member of the women’s wing of the Alasalatu Islamiyah of Nigeria, Ibadan chapter, and secretary of the group, said that things took another turn in 2012 when she add a strange encounter.
“But everything changed through devine intervention in 2012. It was around June of that year while I was in a trance in my room, I saw the image of a man in white robe who told me in plain Arabic language that I should follow him”, I was told to abandon my old faith and embrace Christianity. The situation was very confusing and I simply dismissed as nothing after I regaining my consciousness.But the same thing occurred in the night and this time, the communication was in my Yoruba language. In a clear voice, I was told Jesus is the way,the truth and the life”, she recalled.

 

 

According to her, it was unthinkable for her to even contemplate going to church at that time as a result, she had to live with the feeling for a long time until she had a problem getting husband.
She said that all her attempt to marry a Muslim man proved abortive as all her relationship with Muslim men ended abruptly and afterwards had an encounter with a pastor who told her to seek for a husband in a church.
I later had an encounter with a pastor I have never met in my life who told me I can only get the husband of my desire in a Church.
After the encounter, I started having a change of of heart because I needed a husband desperately at that time. I started attending church secretly for Bible study, it was this that changed my perception which was based on the indoctrination that we were given from childhood about Christianity. ” The religion is all about love, sharing, compassion, forgiveness and devotion”, Mrs Atewogbola said.

 

 

She stated that she met her husband, Mr Michael Adeyemi Atewogbola at a crusade and later married him after she secretly embrace Christianity.
” I actually met my husband at a crusade. We just met and got talking and eventually married but not without serious disagreement. As expected, my father vehemently opposed the unio.It was while we were preparing for the wedding that I was mustered the strength to reveal to my father and other family members that my husband is not just a Christian, but I have also converted to his religion as well.”
She explained further that, “They were devastated and asked me to call off the wedding but I stood my ground.
However, the eldest man in our family which everybody looked up to because of his age and influence, that intervain and prevailed on my father to allow the wedding to go on.
Although, he reluctantly approved of the union, none of my family members attended the wedding” she added.
The Mother of David Atewogbola started that her problems were compounded in 2016, when her father wrote to her that he had presented her for the position of a woman leader in a Mosque in Ibadan.
” Despite knowing that I was no longer a Muslim, my father called me in 2016 that to take up an Islamic title of Iya Adinni of Ansar-ul-Deen mosque in ibadan, on the ground that it was zoned to our family and he has nominated me for the position.
My refusal brought so much threat to my family and since then, we have been running from one place to another for crusades as a way of getting away from my father because we are constantly under monitoring”.she lamented.
” My husband was attacked twice in our area in Ibadan by some members of Muslim Society of Nigeria, an organization that my father belongs to. He was also attacked in Sango Ota in Ogun state where we were living after running away from Ibadan due to attacks and incessant threats from my father and his group. He’s actually one of their patrons “.
A distraught Mr. Atewogbola, also speaking on his family’s recent ordeal, said that his wife has been able to capture all that they have been facing in the hands of her father and added that their lives are no longer safe anywhere.
“When we thought we are in Lagos and far away from these people, members of this organization tracked us down to Ikorodu, where we were having a crusade as they hid in bid to attack us. We were actually in a crusade growhe they attacked the house we were staying in Ota,.
The place was vandalized and our Rio car was set ablaze before our neighbor call us us on getting there they attacked my husband again. We only managed to escape again with the help of some Christian and members of the local vigilante group.
He said his plan was to take his family to a safer place far away from where his wife’s father, family or any of their loyalists will be able to reach them.

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Customs, NDLEA Intercept N16.7bn Cannabis Shipment at Tin Can Port ‎

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Customs, NDLEA Intercept N16.7bn Cannabis Shipment at Tin Can Port


‎By Ifeoma Ikem


‎The Nigeria Customs Service, Tin Can Island Port Command, has intercepted a major consignment of illicit drugs valued at N16.7 billion at the Lagos Port Complex, in what authorities described as a significant breakthrough in Nigeria’s ongoing anti-smuggling operations.

‎The seizure, which occurred barely two weeks after a similar interception, involved 4,173.5 kilograms of Cannabis Indica concealed in 8,347 packages and packed inside a 40-foot container.

‎Speaking during a media briefing in Lagos, the Customs Area Controller of Tin Can Island Port Command, Comptroller Frank Onyeka, said the operation was carried out through intelligence sharing and strategic collaboration between the Nigeria Customs Service and the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency.

‎Onyeka explained that officers of the command’s Enforcement Unit intercepted the container marked HAMU 247034/8 after receiving credible intelligence reports from relevant security agencies.

‎He said the container was immediately flagged for detailed physical examination upon arrival at Tin Can Island Port.

‎According to him, the container originated from Canada and was discovered to contain large quantities of Cannabis Indica hidden among cargo items.
‎He disclosed that the illicit substance weighed 4,173.5 kilograms and carried an estimated street value of N16.694 billion.

‎The Customs boss said the interception highlights the increasing use of maritime trade routes by international criminal syndicates seeking to penetrate Nigeria’s market with illegal substances.

‎He noted that such criminal activities pose serious risks to national security, public health and economic productivity, particularly among young Nigerians.

‎Onyeka stated that the command would continue to strengthen surveillance systems, improve cargo profiling and enhance intelligence gathering to safeguard Nigeria’s ports.

‎He also warned that port insiders and other individuals aiding smuggling activities would be identified and prosecuted in accordance with the law.

‎The Comptroller commended the Comptroller-General of Customs, Bashir Adewale Adeniyi, for promoting inter-agency cooperation in anti-smuggling operations.

‎Receiving the seized consignment on behalf of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency, Director of Seaport Operations, ACGN Ibinabo Archie Abia, described the seizure as a major disruption of transnational drug trafficking networks.

‎She revealed that the operation followed months of surveillance and international intelligence collaboration involving Homeland Security Investigations, the United States Drug Enforcement Administration and the Royal Canadian Mounted Police.

‎Abia added that the latest interception, alongside previous seizures of 4,729 kilograms on April 27 and 610.5 kilograms on April 30, reflects growing efficiency in intelligence-driven enforcement operations aimed at protecting Nigeria’s maritime trade environment.

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Menopause Is Not the End – It is a Critical Transition Hidden Behind Silence and Stigma 

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*Menopause Is Not the End – It is a Critical Transition Hidden Behind Silence and Stigma* 

– *Dr Nelson Aluya MD, MBBS* 

 

Menopause is universal, inevitable, and often misunderstood.

It is not merely the end of menstruation; it is one of the most consequential biological transitions in a woman’s life. The danger of menopause does not lie in the transition itself, but in how poorly it is understood, recognized, and treated—by societies, healthcare systems, and often by women themselves.

Women constitute approximately 49.6–49.7% of the global population, amounting to over 4 billion women worldwide as of 2024–2025. Although slightly more boys are born than girls—about 106 boys for every 100 girls—higher male mortality means women increasingly outnumber men in older age groups. Globally, the sex ratio evens out to nearly 50/50, with women dominating later decades of life (United Nations; World Bank; INED). And every woman who lives long enough will experience menopause.

 

Menopause is defined as 12 consecutive months without a menstrual period, typically occurring between ages 45 and 55, with an average age of 51–52. Today, over one billion women globally are experiencing perimenopause, menopause, or postmenopause. In the United States alone, 1.3 to 2 million women enter menopause annually, roughly 6,000 women every day. As populations age and life expectancy increases, this number will continue to rise.

Yet despite affecting nearly half of humanity and 100% of women who reach midlife, menopause remains one of the most neglected and poorly integrated areas of modern meLimitations?

 

*A Critical Biological Turning Point:*

Menopause represents a sharp decline in estrogen and progesterone—hormones that influence far more than reproduction. Estrogen plays a protective role in cardiovascular health, bone density, brain function, metabolic regulation, and emotional stability. When estrogen levels fall, risk rises.

This is why menopause is increasingly recognized as a critical health inflection point, not a benign milestone.

 

*Cardiovascular Disease: The Greatest Threat:*

Cardiovascular disease is the leading cause of death in women worldwide, surpassing all cancers combined. Before menopause, estrogen confers relative cardiovascular protection. After menopause, that protection rapidly diminishes.

Menopause Is Not the End – It is a Critical Transition Hidden Behind Silence and Stigma* 

- *Dr Nelson Aluya MD, MBBS* 

Research shows that the menopausal transition is associated with: Worsening lipid profiles Increased insulin resistance

Central weight gain

 

Vascular stiffness and endothelial dysfunction

Collectively, these changes double the risk of heart disease compared with premenopausal women.

Compounding this risk is misdiagnosis. Women experiencing myocardial infarction often do not present with classic symptoms such as crushing chest pain or dramatic shortness of breath. Instead, they may report fatigue, nausea, heartburn, dizziness, jaw or shoulder pain—symptoms frequently dismissed as anxiety, stress, or “menopausal complaints.”

The consequences are stark. Studies show that women aged 45–64 have higher mortality following a first heart attack than men of the same age. One-year mortality rates approach 23% in women versus 18% in men, and within five years, 47% of women die, develop heart failure, or suffer a stroke compared with 36% of men.

 

“Menopause does not cause heart disease.

Ignorance of menopause does.”

 

*Mental Health, Depression, and Suicide Risk:*

Menopause is also a period of heightened psychological vulnerability. Fluctuating and declining estrogen affects neurotransmitters such as serotonin and dopamine, increasing susceptibility to major depression, anxiety, irritability, and emotional dysregulation.

 

*This risk is not theoretical:* Epidemiological data indicate that women are more likely to die by suicide between the ages of 45 and 49, coinciding with the late perimenopausal and early menopausal years. While suicide is multifactorial, menopause represents a biological and psychosocial stressor that intersects with caregiving burdens, career pressures, aging awareness, and sleep deprivation.

 

“o dismiss these symptoms as “normal” is to trivialize a period of genuine risk.”

 

*Cognitive Decline and Neurological Vulnerability:*

Emerging evidence suggests that estrogen plays a role in maintaining synaptic health and cerebral blood flow. The menopausal transition has been associated with brain fog, memory lapses, and reduced processing speed, symptoms frequently minimized or ignored.

 

Women account for nearly two-thirds of Alzheimer’s disease cases worldwide. While causality remains under investigation, declining estrogen during menopause is increasingly viewed as a potential contributor to long-term neurological vulnerability, particularly when combined with cardiovascular risk factors.

 

*Bone Loss and Physical Frailty:*

Bone density declines precipitously after menopause. Without estrogen, women experience accelerated bone resorption, placing them at high risk for osteoporosis and fractures. Nearly half of a woman’s lifetime bone loss occurs during the menopausal years.

 

Hip fractures, in particular, are associated with loss of independence, chronic disability, and increased mortality—yet bone health screening and prevention remain underutilized.

 

*The Burden of Symptoms—and Silence:* Hot flashes, night sweats, sleep disruption, fatigue, vaginal dryness, reduced libido, and cognitive changes are not trivial inconveniences. Moderate-to-severe vasomotor symptoms peak in the first two years after menopause and can persist for a decade or longer.

Despite this, menopause remains dramatically under-treated. Many women are told to endure symptoms without explanation or support. This silence has consequences—not only for individual health, but for families and communities.

 

*Menopause and the Social Fabric:*

Menopause often coincides with peak life stress: caring for aging parents, supporting adolescent or adult children, managing career demands, and confronting aging itself. The cumulative effect can strain relationships.

 

Surveys suggest that up to 70% of women report menopause as a contributing factor to marital breakdown, citing increased conflict, reduced intimacy, and emotional distress. Divorce rates among adults over 50—so-called “gray divorce”—have risen dramatically in recent decades, with menopause frequently acting as an unrecognized catalyst.

When menopause is misunderstood, women are blamed for biological changes they cannot control.

A Shift Toward Evidence and Empowerment

Menopause is not a disease, but it demands medical respect.

 

Lifestyle interventions—regular physical activity, balanced nutrition, smoking cessation, reduced alcohol use—remain foundational. Medical care is equally vital: cardiovascular screening, bone density assessment, mental health support, and treatment of genitourinary symptoms.

 

Hormone therapy, long stigmatized, is undergoing reevaluation. In November 2025, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration initiated the removal of outdated “black box” warnings from most hormone replacement therapies, acknowledging that prior risk assessments were based on misinterpreted data. Current evidence indicates that for women under 60 or within 10 years of menopause, hormone therapy can reduce cardiovascular risk, fractures, and possibly dementia when appropriately prescribed.

 

Legislative efforts, such as the New Jersey Menopause Coverage Act, reflect growing recognition that menopause care is not optional—it is essential healthcare.

 

Beyond Survival: The Postmenopausal Years

For many women, life after menopause brings increased confidence, clarity, and freedom—a phase sometimes described as postmenopausal zest. But reaching that stage safely requires awareness, education, and systemic change.

 

Conclusion

Menopause is not a footnote in women’s health.

 

It is a defining chapter.

Ignoring it places billions of women at unnecessary risk—of heart disease, depression, cognitive decline, fractured families, and preventable death.

 

“Menopause does not weaken women.

Silence does.”

 

Recognizing menopause as a critical health transition is not only a medical obligation—it is a moral one.

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NSCDC Busts Syndicate Vandalizing Railway Tracks, NNPC Pipelines; 12 Suspects Arrested

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NSCDC Busts Syndicate Vandalizing Railway Tracks, NNPC Pipelines; 12 Suspects Arrested

The Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC) has dismantled a syndicate involved in the vandalism, theft and recycling of critical national infrastructure, including railway tracks, NNPC pipelines and water board installations, with no fewer than 12 suspects arrested. The National Public Relations Officer of the corps, ACC Babawale Afolabi, disclosed this during a briefing on Wednesday in Kaduna. Afolabi, represented by the Deputy Public Relations Officer, SC Terzungwe Orndiir, said the operation followed a viral video showing massive vandalisation of newly laid Kaduna-Kano rail tracks and existing railway infrastructure in the northern part of the country. He said the Commandant General of the corps, Ahmed Abubakar Audi, directed the CG’s Special Intelligence Squad (SIS) and the Kaduna State Command to identify and apprehend those behind the act.

According to Afolabi, the breakthrough was achieved through intelligence-led operations supervised by the Commander of the CG’s SIS, Commandant Apollos Dandaura, in collaboration with the Kaduna State Command. He said operatives on May 12 dismantled what he described as an international and local syndicate operating under a sophisticated criminal cover. The suspects allegedly used the premises of Inner Galaxy Steel Company at Birnin Yero in Igabi Local Government Area of Kaduna State as a front for their activities. According to the NSCDC spokesperson, the company allegedly compressed vandalised railway materials into scrap at its Kaduna facility before transporting them to Aba, Abia State, where they were melted and recycled into nails and iron rods. Afolabi said this criminal cycle had caused the Federal Government monumental economic losses, adding that the suspects allegedly conspired with vandals to purchase stolen railway tracks, slippers, NNPC pipes and water board infrastructure.

The NSCDC spokesman said seven suspects had been arrested in connection with the case, identifying them as Usman Hassan, company manager; Bilyaminu Usman, weighbridge operator; Choji Pam, weighbridge officer; Jamilu Jaafar, scrap collector; Chukwuemeka Udonwoke, supervisor; Chikwodilli Ezema, company manager; and Isaac Etim, scrap leader. According to him, the suspects are being processed for criminal conspiracy, unlawful possession of vandalised property and receiving stolen property. He listed items recovered from the scene to include large quantities of vandalised railway tracks and slippers, suspected NNPC and water board pipes, as well as specialised machinery allegedly used for compressing and concealing stolen infrastructure.

Afolabi further disclosed that the CG’s SIS and Kaduna State Command also arrested five suspects over alleged vandalism of rail tracks along the Kaduna-Abuja corridor at Gwagwada community in Chikun Local Government Area. He said exhibits recovered from them included railway tracks, slippers and gas cylinders allegedly used in destroying the infrastructure. The NSCDC spokesman quoted the Commandant General as commending the CG’s SIS and Kaduna State Command for their gallantry and professionalism. He said the corps was concerned that registered companies were allegedly acting as saboteurs, adding, “Under this leadership, the NSCDC will not treat economic sabotage with kid gloves. We are going after the sponsors. This operation marks the beginning of a new phase in our crackdown on syndicates supporting vandalism under any disguise.” Afolabi thanked members of the public for providing intelligence through social media and urged continued collaboration with security agencies.

Also speaking, the Managing Director of the Nigerian Railway Corporation (NRC), Dr Kayode Opeifa, commended the NSCDC for recovering large quantities of railway materials allegedly vandalised and concealed in Kaduna State. Opeifa, represented by the Chief Technical Officer (Track), Zaria, Mr Paul Doche, said the NRC team was invited by the NSCDC to identify railway materials recovered during the intelligence-led operation. He said the recovered items included heaps of railway sleepers and rail tracks allegedly hidden beneath scrap metal debris, adding, “We have gone round and identified some of our materials there. These are national assets.” Doche praised the NSCDC for what he described as a successful intelligence-driven operation. He noted, however, that it would be difficult to immediately quantify the recovered materials because many of the railway components were buried under heaps of metal scraps. “Before we can quantify, we have to remove all the debris and count the materials one after the other,” he said. Doche reiterated that the Nigerian Railway Corporation had zero tolerance for vandalism and destruction of railway infrastructure. According to him, the matter would be handed back to the NSCDC for further investigation and prosecution of those involved in accordance with the law.

 

NSCDC Busts Syndicate Vandalizing Railway Tracks, NNPC Pipelines; 12 Suspects Arrested

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