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I’ven’t Heard Straight Back from Him. Is He Blowing Me Down?

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Reader Question:

I began community college about five several months ago, and that’s when I met he. We really struck it off (no less than I imagined very). We fell quite difficult. By the time finals had folded about, I experienced obtained in the courage to inquire about him away. The guy responded definitely and informed me to content him so we could set one thing up. Today he performed warn me that he could be active, but I assumed it intended he had work. I waited a couple of days before texting him to see if we could satisfy for lunch. I have yet to listen right back (3 days later).

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Is the guy blowing me personally down? Or is the guy truly THAT active?

-Audra (Arizona)

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Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Answer:

Audra: Oh, darling Audra. Once I browse email messages like your own website, If only i really could bottle upwards my personal grown-woman wisdom and hand it out to each and every girl I fulfill.

This reminds me personally of a story from my very early 20s.

It had been New-year’s Eve. I was with a girlfriend along with her family members. Your house party was filled with her Caribbean aunties, nieces and nephews, and also traditional Grandma plunked by xmas forest with a rum and eggnog inside her hand.

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I didn’t appreciate the warmth of these interactions because I was pining out, waiting for the arrival of men I had dropped for.

He was in a Fl airport looking to get to me in Canada. The guy labeled as every hour or so with apologies and detailed tales of crowed airports and missed planes.

Every time we informed him we comprehended, we exchanged terms of love, and that I carried on to attend.

At long last, whilst neared midnight, a smart croak erupted through the xmas tree. My pal’s grandma had been watching and listening.

Her voice rang like an island witch-doctor who’d just investigated a crystal basketball, “youngsters, dat mon don’t leave his residence. Call. You’ll see.”

Exactly what could this old girl actually know about twenty-first century matchmaking, I was thinking? But we humored her through getting my good friend’s buddy to contact and ask for him.

And certainly, a woman answered. Apparently he’d a wife. And she told my pal, “only one minute, he’s out by the share on their cell phone.” Crowded airport, my butt.

I am suggesting this story which means you can pay attention to my words to save lots of you heartache.

1. Ladies should hold off, flirt and invite a guy to inquire about all of them on. They need ton’t function as pursuer at the beginning.

2. When he told you to content him, he had been stating, “I’m becoming courteous to you but getting away from this social scenario with a smile because I am a coward.”

3. As he said “I’m truly active” that designed “i am contemplating different women, maybe not you.”

4. Ladies should never content a person for a night out together. Actually Ever.

5. He’s blowing you down. No man is actually active for a potential intimate chance.

I know. We hated those instructions, too. These were a real bitch to learn. But absolutely nothing in comparison to my discomfort and embarrassment thereon New Year’s Eve.

It is a novice mistake, gf. The following year, you’ll be a sophomore might share it with all the freshmen girls.

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Primate Ayodele’s Prophecy On Chad Presidential Election Comes To Pass

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Primate Ayodele’s Prophecy On Chad Presidential Election Comes To Pass

 

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The Leader of INRI Evangelical Spiritual Church, Primate Elijah Ayodele has yet again been celebrated for the fulfillment of his prophecy on the just concluded Chad presidential election.

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The election saw the incumbent head of state, Idriss Deby becoming victorious.

Chad’s state election body said interim President Mahamat Idriss Deby won the 6 May presidential election outright with over 61 per cent of the vote, citing provisional results, even as his main challenger declared himself the winner.

This is in fulfillment of Primate Ayodele’s prophecy which he repeatedly shared about the outcome of the presidential election. Several prophecies of Primate Ayodele about Chad have come to pass already and the victory of Idriss Deby is just an addition to them.

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Most recent of his prophecy regarding the election was the one he shared earlier this month, a few days about the election making it known that the interim leader would win the election but there will be more issues to contend with in his administration.

Just like in his previous prophecies, Primate Ayodele assured Deby of victory in the election but warned him to be careful of attacks and attempt to truncate his government.

These were his words

‘’In Chad, Idriss will win the election but there will be a gang up against him. There will be attempts to truncate his government, despite the fact that his government will have international backings. He has good intentions but there will be complications politically.’’

In earlier prophecies, Primate Ayodele revealed that the election would favor the interim leader and that some opposition leaders would be disqualified from participating in the election. The prophet’s prophecy came through with the barring of some candidates.

‘’Chad: there will be political rowdiness, they will want to disqualify some candidates and there will be electoral violation. Mahamat Idriss Deby Itno will still have an edge except there’s a coalition. He will have an edge over other candidates. They should pray against the crisis during and after the election. New terrorist will come up in Chad, they will face a bigger security challenges.’’

Also, in a video interview, the prophet advised an opposition candidate, Succes Masra not to waste his money because the ruling party will win.

‘’Idriss will win, I am seeing Masra Succes wasting his money and energy, the ruling party will win’’

@primateayodele

#chad #chadtiktok🇹🇩 #idrissdeby #election #electionresult #fulfillment #prophecyfulfilled #chadian #deby #capcut #fyp #primateayodele #iescworldwide

♬ original sound – Primate Ayodele

Obviously, the election outcome has fulfilled the prophecy of Primate Elijah Ayodele.

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Olokun: What you need to know about Olokun*

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*Olokun: What you need to know about Olokun*

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Can we meet you ma?

I am Princess Latifat Wuraola Momodu , I am Yeye Olokun Agbaye

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Thank you Queen Mother!

Please can you tell us about Olokun ?

Let me introduce who Olokun is to you!
The name OLOKUN is derived from the word “OLO” meaning “OWNER” and “OKUN” meaning “OCEAN “.The ALMIGHTY GOD is the creator and owner of the ocean but placed a powerful Angel in charge(the head of the ocean who worships the most High GOD,the ALMIGHTY GOD and the GOD of the Universe OLODUMARE, OSANOBWA, CHINEKE,UBANGIDI,OGHENEetc.At the beginning of the creation of the world GOD created Okun(Ocean)n GOD rested in it.It is a miracle, powerful and healing water.GOD gave the Angel incharge unmatchable wisdom.He made Her govern over dreams, wealth, prosperity,meditation and healing.
GOD gave the Angel authority over all the water on earth.Infact because of the authority given to her by GOD ALMIGHTY She can transmit good health, wealth and prosperity to GOD s followers(those who worship only GOD ALMIGHTY )and members of Olokun faith(Olokun 1 members).
The light of GOD ALMIGHTY is in the Ocean,that is why so many people worship HIM in front of the Ocean.We Olokun 1 members believe in one GOD and we do not worship idols.GOD demands men to worship and esteem HIM as the only one and true GOD.D Angel/ruler/Queen of the Ocean worship s GOD who placed her there.In the olden days because of lack of education and civilization,the people who called themselves OLOKUN worshipers could not really pass a proper divine message about OLOKUN (GOD ALMIGHTY)to the people.They saw the amazing power of the Ocean as GOD’S n called it name an African word for GOD(OLOKUN).They were actually worshiping GOD in a way they understood it.l am the one sent by the ALMIGHTY GOD to pass a message to the world that we should worship only one GOD,the ALMIGHTY through OLOKUN faith or others.

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Thank you Queen Mother for this teaching, we believe alot of people will know more now ma!

 

Olokun: What you need to know about Olokun*

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AN OPEN LETTER TO HIS EXCELLENCY, GOVERNOR OF LAGOS STATE AND HONOURABLE LAW MAKERS

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SANWO-OLU MOURNS MEDICAL DOCTOR, DR. DIASO, ORDERS IMMEDIATE INVESTIGATION

AN OPEN LETTER TO HIS EXCELLENCY, GOVERNOR OF LAGOS STATE AND HONOURABLE LAW MAKERS

We write to call your attention to the misinformation and puncturing of our rich history by the Deputy Governor of Lagos State, Dr. Obafemi Hamzat. The Deputy Governor has been a torn in the flesh to the people of this division who had previously co-existed in peace and understanding for numbers of years as officially recorded. It has come to our notice that if the Deputy Governor is not properly contained and cautioned he will drive the division into communal clash that had previously been abolished by our fore bearers.

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To avoid this as it were in 1979, the Deputy Governor and the type of leadership tactics he has deployed among our people may not mean or end well.

It is pertinent to let you know that the Deputy Governor, Obafemi Hamzat is neither related to Epe by blood nor by birth. He was brought to the division by some of our greedy and selfish leaders, groomed under a certain family to give him head-on ahead of some other aspiring candidates during the 2014 Gubernatorial Elections, we are contending this to your Honourable Offices to point out the fact that he is not from here, therefore he knows nothing of our history, culture, traditions and how we do our things. By this he will be in no way allowed to dictate in that aspect to us.

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His sudden support for the Alara of Ilara Kindgom came as no surprise because some of us are aware of his antecedence in Mushin, in the same vain, and like Mushin, we denied him the dictation and welfare of our people because he is not one of us. Ilara as a Kingdom is a town under Epe and under the jurisdiction of the Oloja of Epe Land. What is surprising is that the Deputy Governor is now helping the recently installed Alara of Ilara to push his boundaries and the narratives that he is the most superior King in the division ahead of the Paramount Ruler of Epe. Like in other 3 divisions of Lagos as the Chairman, only the Paramount Rulers are recognised as the permanent Vice Chairman of Lagos Council of Obas and Chiefs. It is written and historically proven that the Oloja of Epe Land is the Paramount Ruler of Epe Land and its environs. The Awujale of Ijebuland and as the Custodian of the Ijebu people recently reiterated this when there was issues of land disputes hearing at Lagos High Court seated in Epe.

Ironically the Deputy Governor had tried this act in Mushin where the indigens and people of Mushin didn’t let it happen. Epe is a more aboriginal division than that of Mushin.

Your Excellency and Honourable House, Epe people have been very welcoming and accommodating to all and sundry but the Deputy Governor – is giving us a lot of reasons to change this status quo, he has gone as far as involving the ever resilient Lady Doja Otedola, the wife of the former Governor of Lagos state; Sir Michael Agbolade Otedola.

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He already did one successfully by installing the Grand Chief Imam General of the division to a certain section of the division who had never held such position before and historically have no right to it. He had also at one time tried to interfere in the affairs of Transport Union (NURTW) workers. This time we won’t allow him that privilege, because this is a Royalty issue and it has a lot to do with our culture and traditions for generations to come.

We as concerned aborigines hereby seek your intervention into this matter as leaders, fathers and a well brought up Yoruba men to ward him of these steps. We are peace loving people who goes by their daily routines, culture and traditions normally, we won’t allow this magnitude of the chaos he is trying to cause the people of this division, he should step back and leave us as we have been for centuries before his emergence.

Your Excellency and Honourable House of Assembly, we will appreciate as a matter of urgency if you can wade into this matter as soon as possible.

Yours sincerely
Designate of Epe Aboriginals and Indigenes

Olayemi Yekini,
Chairman.

Tunji Aberuagba,
Publicity Secretary.

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