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My Money Mistake: How I Gambled With Money For My Wedding
My Money Mistake: How I Gambled With Money For My Wedding
My money mistake is a weekly PiggyVest series that explores the worst money mistakes real Nigerians have made, and the lessons they learned from them.
For this week’s episode of My Money Mistake, we spoke to a 36-year-old electrical engineer who used to have a gambling addiction. He tells us how he funded his hobby, and why he used his wedding funds to bet just weeks before the ceremony.
Could you tell me your money mistake?
In April 2015, I accompanied a friend to a place where he plays Lotto. That morning, he used ₦50 to win ₦12,000. It happened right in front of me. He won two more games that day. That success prompted me to give betting a try. Slowly, it became a habit, and I ended up taking funds from places I shouldn’t to finance it. On one occasion, I took funds from the church I served as a treasurer to place a stake.
Ah. Did you ever win any money?
I did. That day, I spent ₦10,000 before I got my first winning game. My first win was ₦2,400, then I made ₦1,000 and, after that, I won ₦12,000. That was what kept me hooked.
You mentioned using church funds to play this game. How did that happen?
My betting buddy told me there was a sure game to bet on. Initially, I told him I didn’t have money, but he kept pushing, reassuring me that the game was sure. I didn’t have money with me, but I had ₦50,000 from the church. When I told him, he calculated my potential winnings. It was ₦1,000,000.
Did you win?
No, I didn’t. This happened on a Friday, in October 2019, and we were to hold meetings in church on Sunday, where I was supposed to give an account of the funds. That Sunday, at the meeting, I was informed that the money was needed to acquire something. It was a really embarrassing situation.
How did you sort it out?
I lied. I said I used the money to order something online. I’d sell it and pay the money back. But I couldn’t pay that money until the next year. It was difficult to pull funds due to the financial stress of the lockdown. This was back when people were looking for food to eat and the little money I had went into managing my household.
Is that when you decided to stop?
No. I quit in December 2019, after I took some money that I was saving for my wedding. That was over ₦100,000. I ended up losing everything. This happened days before the wedding.
Wow. How did this affect your marriage ceremony?
Thankfully in Nigeria, marriage doesn’t end in a day. While trying to fulfill the marriage rites and payments, I let my in-laws know that I would pay the balance when I had the money. I haven’t been able to pay it yet and the balance is about ₦800,000.
Ah. How did you end up spending over N100K in such a short period on this game?
In a day, we could end up playing multiple times, spending about ₦1,000 for each game (and you can play about seven games). When you play a game and it doesn’t work, you think the next one will and so on and so on. You can end up spending ₦12,000 in one day. I was spending nothing less than ₦48,000 in a week.
Ah!
Yes. And I never told my wife, even after we had fixed a date for the ceremony. I just kept telling her to hold on because money was coming, while using money that I ought to have given her for the preparations to play this game. When I couldn’t deliver on the day of the ceremony, I told her that a customer was owing me. But, I had lost ₦100,000.
Did you win anything with this money?
Yes. I won about ₦40,000 from the first game, then I used all of the winnings to stake in another game, where I won ₦230,000. That was what kept me playing, but I never won after that. Eventually, I just had to stop.
Why did you go on for so long?
Peer pressure. I could stake ₦10 and win about ₦2,400, then someone else would use N1,000 to play that same game and win ₦200,000, prompting me to raise my stake.
And then there was this trend common in the area I stayed. You’d meet a mad man, who would give you random numbers to play and you would win big. That was before it turned into a popular scam to get gamblers to buy things for them. Mad men were lying and making people stake huge sums of money believing it would work.
AHN AHN!! Did these numbers work and did you ever collect numbers from a mad man?
Yes, sometimes it did. During my earlier days of playing I did meet a mad man, but it never worked for me.
Oh wow. If you could give an estimate, how much do you think you lost to gambling?
I’d say over ₦600,000 and my total winning isn’t up to half of that. Sometimes I’d win and end up using all of it to stake another game only to lose it all or win really small.
What’s your biggest lesson from this?
I learnt that gambling can be addictive. There were times when it felt like if I didn’t play in a day, something bad would happen. It can also take a toll on your health. I developed high blood pressure just trying to settle debts and ease the pressure from my wife back when we were still planning the wedding. My advice is to never gamble.
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Taskforce Chairman: Akerele Adetayo. An impressive achievement marked by exceptional thoroughness
Taskforce Chairman: Akerele Adetayo. An impressive achievement marked by exceptional thoroughness
…A considerable monumental stride without blemishes
~By Oluwaseun Fabiyi
The one-on-one meeting with the Taskforce Chairman was a remarkable and unforgettable experience.
*How familiar are you with CSP Adetayo Akerele’s leadership as Chairman of the Lagos Task Force?*
_*Oluwaseun Fabiyi, publisher of Bethnews Media magazine and online, had a recent encounter with Akerele Adetayo that will shed more light on his achievements and good standing; we invite you to listen attentively*_
As Chairman of the Lagos State Environmental and Special Offences Enforcement Unit (Taskforce), Akerele Adetayo, an extraordinary CSP and trustworthy police officer, remains a beacon of excellence, mirroring greatness through his benevolent heart and unwavering commitment to superior service standards in Lagos and its environs
Without a doubt, Akerele Adetayo, the former 2iC Taskforce and pioneer LAMATA Commander turned Chairman of the Lagos State Taskforce, has solidified his standing as a highly effective and accomplished commander in the Nigerian Police Force, recognized for his impressive stride and visionary leadership.
CSP Adetayo Akerele’s career advancement has been grounded in his meticulous approach to duty and commitment to delivering results, which has distinguished him among his peers. As Chairman of the Lagos Environmental and Special Offences Enforcement Unit Taskforce, he has established a functional compliance desk that promotes seamless interaction with the public and enables effective response strategies
CSP Akerele Adetayo’s professional trajectory in journalism has garnered substantial admiration and a distinguished reputation among media practitioners across print and electronic media, complemented by his specialized knowledge in security and digital strategy, which has critically shaped the orientation of the Lagos State Taskforce
As Chairman of the Lagos State Task Force since 2024, he has consistently upheld the core mandate of delivering exceptional security services to citizens, ensuring peace, order, and internal security across the state, built on a foundation of professionalism, strong public relationships, effective teamwork, and unwavering accountability. Under the leadership of CSP Adetayo Akerele, the Lagos State Environmental and Special Offences Enforcement Unit Taskforce has achieved notable success in leveraging advanced technology while maintaining exemplary standards of individual appearance, conduct, and professionalism.
Akerele Adetayo’s exceptional dedication to service excellence has earned him numerous accolades for his outstanding contributions to the Lagos Taskforce unit and the Nigerian police force at large, in recognition of his professionalism and exemplary service
As the Chairman of the Lagos Taskforce unit, his active participation in every activity underscores a broader commitment to the agency’s structural growth. His consistent and prompt approach emphasizes execution and maximum security protection for the safety of the masses, as he fosters a teamwork network of assets that drive the agency’s growth and accessibility.
Note Bethnews Media shall provide its exceptional wisdom exhibited in the forthcoming article.
Oluwaseun Fabiyi, a seasoned journalist based in Lagos, reports.
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Postings Are Not Optional: Why The Police Must Reassert Discipline Over Transfer Resistance
Postings Are Not Optional: Why The Police Must Reassert Discipline Over Transfer Resistance
In recent days, a wave of commentary across sections of the media has sought to cast routine police postings in a controversial light, particularly within Zone 2 Command of the Nigeria Police Force, which oversees Lagos and Ogun States. At the heart of the narrative is a claim misleading at best that the redeployment of officers from the zone is either improper or should be resisted.
This framing deserves closer scrutiny, not just for what it says, but for what it risks encouraging.
Postings and transfers are not punitive tools; they are essential administrative instruments in policing worldwide. They ensure operational balance, prevent the entrenchment of interests, and promote a fair distribution of manpower across commands. In a country as vast and complex as Nigeria, where some divisions grapple with acute personnel shortages, the ability of police leadership to deploy officers where they are most needed is not just lawful it is indispensable.
Attempts to portray transfers as “illegal” or unjustifiable undermine this fundamental principle. No command, regardless of its perceived strategic importance, can be treated as an exception to the rules that govern the wider institution. To do so would create a dangerous precedent one where postings are dictated not by operational necessity, but by preference, influence, or resistance.
The idea of 845 plus Senior Police Officers alone in Zone 2 Police Command is a thing of worry and it’s certain that the junior officers number would be nothing more than thrice of that of the SPOs. The newly posted and promoted AIG in charge of the Zone should be swift and decisive. The Nation is waiting.
More concerning, however, is the growing tendency to escalate internal administrative matters into the public domain. While transparency is vital in public institutions, there is a clear distinction between accountability and the externalization of internal processes in ways that may erode discipline. Policing, by its very nature, relies on a structured chain of command. When that structure is weakened whether through public pressure, media campaigns, or external influence the consequences extend beyond internal order to overall effectiveness.
There are also broader operational questions that cannot be ignored. Reports of disproportionate personnel concentration in certain formations, set against a backdrop of manpower shortages in many parts of the country, point to the need for deliberate and strategic redeployment. Ensuring that officers are equitably distributed is not merely an administrative exercise; it is central to improving response times, strengthening community policing, and enhancing national security outcomes.
It is equally important to acknowledge the role of the media in shaping public perception. Journalism remains a critical pillar of democracy, but with that role comes responsibility. Narratives that inadvertently legitimise resistance to lawful directives risk doing more harm than good, particularly in a disciplined service where cohesion and obedience to command are non-negotiable.
None of this diminishes the importance of officer welfare or the need for fair and transparent posting policies. Indeed, a well-managed transfer system must take into account both operational demands and human considerations. However, these concerns are best addressed within established institutional frameworks—not through pressure campaigns or attempts to influence outcomes from outside the system.
At its core, this moment presents a test of institutional resolve. The leadership of the police must balance empathy with firmness, ensuring that decisions are guided by the collective good rather than individual interests. Upholding the integrity of postings is not simply about moving personnel; it is about reinforcing the principles that sustain discipline, professionalism, and public trust.
A police force that cannot enforce its own internal directives risks sending the wrong message—not just to its officers, but to the citizens it serves. Conversely, a force that stands by its processes, applies its rules fairly, and communicates its decisions clearly strengthens its legitimacy.
In the end, the issue is not about one command or one set of officers. It is about preserving the institutional backbone of policing itself.
Akindele Adegebo writes from Lagos.
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4 BRIGADE EMERGES OVERALL CHAMPION OF 2 DIVISION INTER-BRIGADE CORPORALS AND BELOW COMPETITION 2026 IN BENIN
4 BRIGADE EMERGES OVERALL CHAMPION OF 2 DIVISION INTER-BRIGADE CORPORALS AND BELOW COMPETITION 2026 IN BENIN
4 Brigade, Nigerian Army, on Thursday, 23 April 2026, emerged overall champion of the 2 Division Inter-Brigade Corporals and Below Competition 2026, which was held from 20 to 23 April 2026. The competition was hosted by 4 Brigade at the Nigerian Army Cantonment, Ekehuan, in Benin City.
In his welcome address, the Commander 4 Brigade, Nigerian Army, Brigadier General Ahmed Balogun, disclosed that the competition is designed to improve combat proficiency, leadership skills, organizational ability, teamwork, endurance, and to promote esprit de corps among soldiers of junior ranks. He added that it also challenges their initiative and prepares them for higher responsibilities.
He noted that the competition is not just about winning or losing, but about fostering a spirit of unity, resilience, and continuous improvement. “It provides a platform for sharing knowledge, learning from one another, and building stronger bonds within our ranks. The lessons learned and the experiences shared here will undoubtedly enhance our operational effectiveness and strengthen our team spirit,” he said. He further appreciated the General Officer Commanding (GOC) 2 Division, Major General Chinedu Nnebeife, for the confidence reposed in the Brigade to host this year’s Corporals and Below Competition, as well as for his commitment to improving training and the welfare of personnel.
In his closing remarks, the Special Guest of Honour, the Commandant, Nigerian Army School of Supply and Transport, Major General Adebayo Adegbite, expressed satisfaction that the objectives of the competition had been largely achieved. He stated that he had no doubt that the various events contested by the formations had significantly improved their physical and mental capacity, enhanced leadership traits, and strengthened organizational ability, while also preparing them for operational engagements in view of the current security challenges confronting the nation.
He further charged participants to take back to their respective formations the experience and knowledge gained during the competition and translate them into remarkable achievements in the field for the benefit of their formations and the Nigerian Army at large.
He also expressed profound gratitude to the Chief of Army Staff (COAS), Lieutenant General Waidi Shaibu NAM, for his unwavering commitment to the development of junior non-commissioned officers, whom he described as the backbone of the Army. He added that 2 Division remains grateful for the COAS’s strategic guidance and support. He also commended the planning team for ensuring that the competition was fair, challenging, and reflective of real-world operational standards.
The 2026 edition of the 2 Division Inter-Brigade Corporals and Below Competition featured events such as drill competition, combat swimming, map reading, weapon handling and firing, combat cross-country race, and obstacle crossing. Participating formations included 4 Brigade, 12 Brigade, 22 Armoured Brigade, 32 Artillery Brigade, 42 Engineers Brigade, and 2 Division Garrison. At the end of the competition, 4 Brigade, emerged overall champion, while 12 Brigade, and 2 Division Garrison, came second and third respectively.
The ceremony was graced by heads of security agencies in Edo State, as well as friends of the Brigade. Highlights of the closing ceremony included obstacle crossing competition among formations, presentation of awards, souvenirs, and group photographs.
*KENNEDY ANYANWU*
Captain
Assistant Director Army Public Relations
4 Brigade Nigerian Army
Benin City
24 April 2026
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