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Sad Story Of How Osun Lady Discovered Her Husband Had A Child Outside, Burnt Him Alive And Committed Suicide

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Sad Story Of How Osun Lady Discovered Her Husband Had A Child Outside, Burnt Him Alive And Committed Suicide

Sad Story Of How Osun Lady Discovered Her Husband Had A Child Outside, Burnt Him Alive And Committed Suicide

Sad Story Of How Osun Lady Discovered Her Husband Had A Child Outside, Burnt Him Alive And Committed Suicide

Residents of Koka, a community in Obokun Local Government Area, Osun State, are yet to come to terms with the tragic end of a nine-year-old romance between a Cairo-based businessman, Bolu Bamidele and his lover, Ifeoluwa Akanji.

Alleged infidelity by one of the two lovers resulted in an acrimony that culminated in the death of the two lovers with Ifeoluwa taking her own life after burning Bolu to death.

 

 

 

 

 

Findings made by The Nation revealed that love birds had been in a relationship since 2014 when Bolu was studying Mass Communication at the Federal Polytechnic Offa, Kwara State. They kept the bond until they had their introduction ceremony on October 4, 2021.

One of Ifeoluwa’s friends, who pleaded not to be named, said: “Ifeoluwa was a quiet girl who hardly talked or related with people. She loved his boyfriend, fondly called Teebam, so dearly. Bolu was the one who sponsored Ife in school and even built a house for her parents before settling up a fashion designing shop for his heartthrob.

 

 

 

 

 

“After the introduction, Ifeoluwa was pregnant twice but had miscarriages, which caused both partners to be worried. Bolu was living in Cairo (Egypt) but came home from time to time and spent two weeks with his partner in Osogbo, Osun State capital, before returning to his base.”

It was gathered that Bolu returned from Cairo on July 7, 2022 in a bid to celebrate the birthday of Ifeoluwa and also relocate finally to Nigeria to have more time for her.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A source within the family told our correspondent that on July 17, 2022, Bolu hanged out with his friends and returned home drunk around 4 pm. One of his friends was said to have dropped him off at his house near the Osogbo Campus of Osun State University.

The source added: “Around 6 pm on that day, Ifeoluwa called one of Bolu’s parents, reporting that he was drunk again in spite of several warnings from them. The parent apologised to her to exercise patience and promised to come to their house the following day.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It was gathered that while Bolu was sleeping, Ifeoluwa took his phone to read some of his WhatsApp messages only to found that Bolu had a kid outside their relationship.

Another source said: “She called one of Bolu’s friends, threatening to deal with Bolu over the discovery while the friend urged her to exercise patience.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ifeoluwa would later post on her WhatsApp status a message that reads: “I’ve always been a calm girl and I’ve never done this in my life but Teebam has pushed me to the edge.

“At this point, y’all will weep over myself and him before daybreak. I’m promising y’all that!!!”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The source added: “When the friends viewed the status, they rushed down to the house but met Ifeoluwa along the route around Oomuu stream almost naked as she wore only bra and pant, walking barefooted. She told them that they should rush home and pick the corpse of their friend if they would still find him.”

One of the rescuers, Gabriel Adejare, said he saw smoke coming out of Bamidele’s house around 7:20 pm and decided to help, but he met Ifeoluwa’s younger sister, Faith, outside the gate of the house with two elderly neighbours.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He noted that Faith raised the alarm that Bolu was inside the burning house as her sister (Ifeoluwa) locked the doors and gate of the house as the fire was burning.

He said: “It took us 40 minutes to rescue him from the fire after breaking four burglaries to have access to the house. We rushed him to Osogbo Central Hospital but were referred to Osun State University Teaching Hospital. Bolu was later referred to University College Hospital, Ibadan for treatment.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A friend of Bolu identified simply as Sola said: “Bolu begged for doctors to save his life and also ensure that Ifeoluwa did not abscond. He reiterated his love for her on the hospital bed till the point of death. Bolu died on Tuesday as a result of severe burn.”

Bolu’s elder brother, Bode Bamidele, confirmed to our correspondent that he had been buried at St Benedict Catholic Cathedral, Popo, Osogbo on Wednesday.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He said the family of Ifeoluwa had relocated from their house at Illias Junction at Kobo area of Osogbo since his brother was buried.

“Ifeoluwa has thrown us into darkness with the death of Bolu. He relocated to Nigeria with the thought that when they are closer to each other, pregnancy would be possible,” Bode said.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

When The Nation contacted Ifeoluwa’s father, Mr Akanji, to speak on the matter, he only rained curses on the reporter, saying your daughter will set your generation ablaze. You will be unfortunate in life!”

The police had launched a manhunt for Ifeoluwa since she fled and also declared her wanted on Thursday. It was, however, gathered that on Thursday night, Mr Akanji contacted some lawyers to meet his daughter in Ilesha where she was hiding.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It was learnt that they picked Ifeoluwa up from her hideout in Ilesha, but when they were about to leave in the car, she coughed and confessed to have taken poison before their arrival.

She was rushed to a hospital in Ilesha and later to Our Lady of Fatima Jalayemi Hospital for treatment but was confirmed dead around 7 pm.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Three suicide notes were discovered inside her waist purse. One of the suicide notes obtained by The Nation reads: “To all my friends that genuinely loved me and gave listening ears. I love you guys and am sending you this to appreciate your love. Please help ensure Teebam’s legacy lives on, including mine.

“Remember Ifetife. I did not kill your friend. You all know I genuinely loved him and I still do, even to the point of my death. Do the findings everywhere, Omo baba and Forty especially. I am counting on you guys. Boluwatife will appreciate this so much.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Confirming Ifeoluwa’s death, Bolu’s elder brother, Mr Bode Bamidele, speaking with our correspondent at the hospital yesterday, said: “We have confirmed that Ifeoluwa is dead. She committed suicide and left notes. The notes are with her family lawyer.

“The father and the lawyer brought her corpse to this hospital yesterday. We were called this morning to confirm her corpse.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“She is dead but we are still going to see the police over the matter.”

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Taskforce Chairman: Akerele Adetayo. An impressive achievement marked by exceptional thoroughness

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Taskforce Chairman: Akerele Adetayo. An impressive achievement marked by exceptional thoroughness

…A considerable monumental stride without blemishes

~By Oluwaseun Fabiyi 

 

The one-on-one meeting with the Taskforce Chairman was a remarkable and unforgettable experience.

 

*How familiar are you with CSP Adetayo Akerele’s leadership as Chairman of the Lagos Task Force?*

 

_*Oluwaseun Fabiyi, publisher of Bethnews Media magazine and online, had a recent encounter with Akerele Adetayo that will shed more light on his achievements and good standing; we invite you to listen attentively*_

 

As Chairman of the Lagos State Environmental and Special Offences Enforcement Unit (Taskforce), Akerele Adetayo, an extraordinary CSP and trustworthy police officer, remains a beacon of excellence, mirroring greatness through his benevolent heart and unwavering commitment to superior service standards in Lagos and its environs

 

Without a doubt, Akerele Adetayo, the former 2iC Taskforce and pioneer LAMATA Commander turned Chairman of the Lagos State Taskforce, has solidified his standing as a highly effective and accomplished commander in the Nigerian Police Force, recognized for his impressive stride and visionary leadership.

 

CSP Adetayo Akerele’s career advancement has been grounded in his meticulous approach to duty and commitment to delivering results, which has distinguished him among his peers. As Chairman of the Lagos Environmental and Special Offences Enforcement Unit Taskforce, he has established a functional compliance desk that promotes seamless interaction with the public and enables effective response strategies

 

CSP Akerele Adetayo’s professional trajectory in journalism has garnered substantial admiration and a distinguished reputation among media practitioners across print and electronic media, complemented by his specialized knowledge in security and digital strategy, which has critically shaped the orientation of the Lagos State Taskforce

 

As Chairman of the Lagos State Task Force since 2024, he has consistently upheld the core mandate of delivering exceptional security services to citizens, ensuring peace, order, and internal security across the state, built on a foundation of professionalism, strong public relationships, effective teamwork, and unwavering accountability. Under the leadership of CSP Adetayo Akerele, the Lagos State Environmental and Special Offences Enforcement Unit Taskforce has achieved notable success in leveraging advanced technology while maintaining exemplary standards of individual appearance, conduct, and professionalism.

 

Akerele Adetayo’s exceptional dedication to service excellence has earned him numerous accolades for his outstanding contributions to the Lagos Taskforce unit and the Nigerian police force at large, in recognition of his professionalism and exemplary service

 

 

As the Chairman of the Lagos Taskforce unit, his active participation in every activity underscores a broader commitment to the agency’s structural growth. His consistent and prompt approach emphasizes execution and maximum security protection for the safety of the masses, as he fosters a teamwork network of assets that drive the agency’s growth and accessibility.

 

Note Bethnews Media shall provide its exceptional wisdom exhibited in the forthcoming article.

 

Oluwaseun Fabiyi, a seasoned journalist based in Lagos, reports.

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Postings Are Not Optional: Why The Police Must Reassert Discipline Over Transfer Resistance

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Postings Are Not Optional: Why The Police Must Reassert Discipline Over Transfer Resistance

 

 

 

In recent days, a wave of commentary across sections of the media has sought to cast routine police postings in a controversial light, particularly within Zone 2 Command of the Nigeria Police Force, which oversees Lagos and Ogun States. At the heart of the narrative is a claim misleading at best that the redeployment of officers from the zone is either improper or should be resisted.

 

This framing deserves closer scrutiny, not just for what it says, but for what it risks encouraging.

 

Postings and transfers are not punitive tools; they are essential administrative instruments in policing worldwide. They ensure operational balance, prevent the entrenchment of interests, and promote a fair distribution of manpower across commands. In a country as vast and complex as Nigeria, where some divisions grapple with acute personnel shortages, the ability of police leadership to deploy officers where they are most needed is not just lawful it is indispensable.

 

Attempts to portray transfers as “illegal” or unjustifiable undermine this fundamental principle. No command, regardless of its perceived strategic importance, can be treated as an exception to the rules that govern the wider institution. To do so would create a dangerous precedent one where postings are dictated not by operational necessity, but by preference, influence, or resistance.

 

The idea of 845 plus Senior Police Officers alone in Zone 2 Police Command is a thing of worry and it’s certain that the junior officers number would be nothing more than thrice of that of the SPOs. The newly posted and promoted AIG in charge of the Zone should be swift and decisive. The Nation is waiting.

 

More concerning, however, is the growing tendency to escalate internal administrative matters into the public domain. While transparency is vital in public institutions, there is a clear distinction between accountability and the externalization of internal processes in ways that may erode discipline. Policing, by its very nature, relies on a structured chain of command. When that structure is weakened whether through public pressure, media campaigns, or external influence the consequences extend beyond internal order to overall effectiveness.

 

There are also broader operational questions that cannot be ignored. Reports of disproportionate personnel concentration in certain formations, set against a backdrop of manpower shortages in many parts of the country, point to the need for deliberate and strategic redeployment. Ensuring that officers are equitably distributed is not merely an administrative exercise; it is central to improving response times, strengthening community policing, and enhancing national security outcomes.

 

It is equally important to acknowledge the role of the media in shaping public perception. Journalism remains a critical pillar of democracy, but with that role comes responsibility. Narratives that inadvertently legitimise resistance to lawful directives risk doing more harm than good, particularly in a disciplined service where cohesion and obedience to command are non-negotiable.

 

None of this diminishes the importance of officer welfare or the need for fair and transparent posting policies. Indeed, a well-managed transfer system must take into account both operational demands and human considerations. However, these concerns are best addressed within established institutional frameworks—not through pressure campaigns or attempts to influence outcomes from outside the system.

 

At its core, this moment presents a test of institutional resolve. The leadership of the police must balance empathy with firmness, ensuring that decisions are guided by the collective good rather than individual interests. Upholding the integrity of postings is not simply about moving personnel; it is about reinforcing the principles that sustain discipline, professionalism, and public trust.

 

A police force that cannot enforce its own internal directives risks sending the wrong message—not just to its officers, but to the citizens it serves. Conversely, a force that stands by its processes, applies its rules fairly, and communicates its decisions clearly strengthens its legitimacy.

 

In the end, the issue is not about one command or one set of officers. It is about preserving the institutional backbone of policing itself.

 

Akindele Adegebo writes from Lagos.

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4 BRIGADE EMERGES OVERALL CHAMPION OF 2 DIVISION INTER-BRIGADE CORPORALS AND BELOW COMPETITION 2026 IN BENIN

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4 BRIGADE EMERGES OVERALL CHAMPION OF 2 DIVISION INTER-BRIGADE CORPORALS AND BELOW COMPETITION 2026 IN BENIN

 

4 Brigade, Nigerian Army, on Thursday, 23 April 2026, emerged overall champion of the 2 Division Inter-Brigade Corporals and Below Competition 2026, which was held from 20 to 23 April 2026. The competition was hosted by 4 Brigade at the Nigerian Army Cantonment, Ekehuan, in Benin City.

 

In his welcome address, the Commander 4 Brigade, Nigerian Army, Brigadier General Ahmed Balogun, disclosed that the competition is designed to improve combat proficiency, leadership skills, organizational ability, teamwork, endurance, and to promote esprit de corps among soldiers of junior ranks. He added that it also challenges their initiative and prepares them for higher responsibilities.

 

He noted that the competition is not just about winning or losing, but about fostering a spirit of unity, resilience, and continuous improvement. “It provides a platform for sharing knowledge, learning from one another, and building stronger bonds within our ranks. The lessons learned and the experiences shared here will undoubtedly enhance our operational effectiveness and strengthen our team spirit,” he said. He further appreciated the General Officer Commanding (GOC) 2 Division, Major General Chinedu Nnebeife, for the confidence reposed in the Brigade to host this year’s Corporals and Below Competition, as well as for his commitment to improving training and the welfare of personnel.

 

In his closing remarks, the Special Guest of Honour, the Commandant, Nigerian Army School of Supply and Transport, Major General Adebayo Adegbite, expressed satisfaction that the objectives of the competition had been largely achieved. He stated that he had no doubt that the various events contested by the formations had significantly improved their physical and mental capacity, enhanced leadership traits, and strengthened organizational ability, while also preparing them for operational engagements in view of the current security challenges confronting the nation.

 

He further charged participants to take back to their respective formations the experience and knowledge gained during the competition and translate them into remarkable achievements in the field for the benefit of their formations and the Nigerian Army at large.

He also expressed profound gratitude to the Chief of Army Staff (COAS), Lieutenant General Waidi Shaibu NAM, for his unwavering commitment to the development of junior non-commissioned officers, whom he described as the backbone of the Army. He added that 2 Division remains grateful for the COAS’s strategic guidance and support. He also commended the planning team for ensuring that the competition was fair, challenging, and reflective of real-world operational standards.

 

The 2026 edition of the 2 Division Inter-Brigade Corporals and Below Competition featured events such as drill competition, combat swimming, map reading, weapon handling and firing, combat cross-country race, and obstacle crossing. Participating formations included 4 Brigade, 12 Brigade, 22 Armoured Brigade, 32 Artillery Brigade, 42 Engineers Brigade, and 2 Division Garrison. At the end of the competition, 4 Brigade, emerged overall champion, while 12 Brigade, and 2 Division Garrison, came second and third respectively.

 

The ceremony was graced by heads of security agencies in Edo State, as well as friends of the Brigade. Highlights of the closing ceremony included obstacle crossing competition among formations, presentation of awards, souvenirs, and group photographs.

*KENNEDY ANYANWU*

Captain

Assistant Director Army Public Relations

4 Brigade Nigerian Army

Benin City

 

24 April 2026

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