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What I Dislike About Primate Elijah Ayodele, Whom I Love So Much

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What I Dislike About Primate Elijah Ayodele, Whom I Love So Much

By Osho Oluwatosin

 

Every February 14 is a day I patiently look forward to because it represents the special and rare moment I get to celebrate the Leader of INRI Evangelical Spiritual Church, Primate Elijah Ayodele.

It feels strange referring to him as the Leader of IESC in this write-up because I can’t remember the last time I saw him in that capacity. I’m sure that if it weren’t for the need to include that title in our media materials, I might have even forgotten he holds such a title.

This isn’t because he isn’t worthy of the title; it’s just that Primate Ayodele has never really cared about this role. He often acts like a regular church member. One would expect a leader of a spiritual movement to be uptight, less accessible, and more distant, but not him. You’ll find him playing with children, hugging church members, dedicating time to counsel people, picking up their calls even at odd hours, and still being spiritually efficient. Maybe for him, being the Leader of IESC is just a title, but in reality, he acts more like the Chief Servant of INRI Evangelical Spiritual Church.

Well, this isn’t my main focus for today. Perhaps the spirit led me to talk about this briefly, but my intention is to express my feelings about what I dislike about the man, Primate Elijah Ayodele, whom I love so much.

Many may be surprised to realize that someone like me, who doesn’t spend a day without speaking to Primate Ayodele, would have something I dislike about this popular man of God. But I need everyone to understand that Primate is human and isn’t totally perfect. Therefore, today is the day I’ll expose the imperfection I’ve observed in Primate Ayodele.

Don’t get me wrong, I love Primate Ayodele like a son loves his father, like a husband loves his wife, like friends love each other, like Jesus loves the church. This expose about what I dislike about him cannot change the love I have for him.

To start with, Primate Ayodele is not just someone I work for. He is my physical and spiritual guardian, responsible for many positive things that have happened in my life over the last five years. I remember sharing how my meeting with him changed the trajectory of my life for the better, and even years later, I still look back and thank God for bringing him into my life.

Many times, I could be at a crossroads, unsure about something, and without even discussing it with him, he would bring it up during our solemn time, and immediately, I would feel relieved. You might be wondering what ‘solemn time’ is. Well, you might not fully understand, but it’s that moment when we have serious talks, which could happen once a week or a month. We talk often, joking and discussing various issues, but the solemn time is when I am quiet while he speaks to my innermost being. You can’t understand it; it’s not an ordinary moment. It is during these times that I receive answers to many of my problems.

In the physical realm, I’ve never seen anyone push my career as hard as Primate Ayodele does. In fact, I don’t put in as much effort as he does at any given point. He’s always willing to introduce me to important people, always looking for ways to connect me to opportunities, speaks proudly about me no matter who is around him, and always wants the best for me.

I remember when he surprised me with a car gift two years ago, out of the blue. I never expected it and didn’t initially understand what it meant until I realized he was sending me a message: ‘change of status.’ When I received the vehicle, I openly said that Primate Ayodele was my identity, and I wasn’t wrong in saying that. Even now, I don’t think I would have reached where I am if God hadn’t sent this man my way.

Mind you, I’m not the only one who has enjoyed Primate Ayodele’s generosity. Everyone can attest that whenever he does something for you, his next move is to disappear from you. This is what I don’t like—though I personally haven’t experienced it, many others have called me to complain about it.

Primate Ayodele is the kind of person who doesn’t like hearing the words “Thank you.” If you dare appreciate him for anything, he will just flee from you until you stop expressing gratitude.

About three years ago, Primate Ayodele rewarded one of Nigeria’s prominent journalists with a vehicle. For weeks after that, he didn’t pick up the person’s calls. The recipient became worried and even considered returning the car, but when he reached out to me, I simply told him that Primate Ayodele was running from him because he didn’t want to hear “Thank you.” Trust me, as soon as the person stopped thanking him, he started answering his calls again.

Another time, a veteran in the media industry was celebrating his birthday and reached out to Primate Ayodele. He sent some money to the person, and after that, he stopped answering his calls. The recipient called me, complaining about Primate Ayodele, and I told him the same thing. This man was initially surprised and didn’t want to believe it until he stopped saying “Thank you” and realized I was right.

It can be frustrating not to have the chance to show gratitude. Many thoughts might run through one’s mind, and the interesting part is that Primate Ayodele will never tell you that this is the reason he’s avoiding you. He’ll just go “missing in action” until you figure it out yourself.

However, I’ve come to realize that this decision not to listen to people showing gratitude is a form of humility and recognition that God is the only one who truly deserves our thanks. Primate Ayodele didn’t directly tell me this, but it’s just my observation. He probably doesn’t want to be appreciated because he doesn’t want to share in God’s glory. If you ask me, I would say that everyone has the right to do whatever they think is best to avoid seeing themselves as God in anyone’s life.

As Primate Elijah Ayodele celebrates his birthday today, I celebrate him as the most humble man of God I have ever met, the most resourceful, sophisticated person I have come across. Happy Birthday, Daddy.

– Osho Oluwatosin is the media aide to Primate Elijah Ayodele and the publisher of www.trixxng.com

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Royal Alliance for African Renaissance: King Misuzulu Hosts Ògíamè Atúwàtse III at KwaKhangelamankengane

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Royal Alliance for African Renaissance: King Misuzulu Hosts Ògíamè Atúwàtse III at KwaKhangelamankengane

On the 16th of May 2025, a monumental event in the chronicles of pan-African unity unfolded at the KwaKhangelamankengane Royal Palace in KwaNongoma, northern KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa. His Majesty King Misuzulu kaZwelithini, the reigning monarch of the Zulu nation, hosted His Imperial Majesty Ògíamè Atúwàtse III, CFR, the 21st Olú of Warri Kingdom in Nigeria, in a ceremonious and culturally rich royal engagement that symbolized not only a diplomatic alliance but a rekindling of historical ties between two of Africa’s most formidable monarchies.

 

Royal Alliance for African Renaissance: King Misuzulu Hosts Ògíamè Atúwàtse III at KwaKhangelamankengane

This visit, though described by some as ceremonial, was in fact deeply strategic and historic. It was an intersection of legacies, Zulu valor and Warri nobility, an alliance of thrones rooted in precolonial African greatness, spiritual authority and sovereign dignity.

Reconnecting the Royal Dots Across Africa


To fully appreciate the depth of this meeting, one must understand the weight each monarch carries. The Zulu Kingdom, under the lineage of Shaka Zulu and the late King Goodwill Zwelithini kaBhekuzulu, has long been the bastion of cultural pride, warrior resistance and leadership within southern Africa. The ascension of King Misuzulu kaZwelithini in 2021 marked a renewal of traditional leadership that resonates beyond South Africa.

 

Similarly, the Warri Kingdom, situated in the oil-rich Niger Delta of Nigeria, dates back to the late 15th century and is revered for its early adoption of diplomacy, Christianity and international relations, especially with the Portuguese. The current Olú, Ògíamè Atúwàtse III, who ascended the throne in August 2021, has transformed the narrative around traditional leadership in West Africa. Harvard-educated and forward-thinking, he combines ancient wisdom with global intellect to promote cultural revival, education, peace and pan-African solidarity.

According to Prof. Adeyemi Okunlola, a scholar of African monarchies, “When two thrones that stood firm through the storms of colonialism meet, it is not a coincidence but a prophecy manifest. This meeting is the spiritual and political awakening Africa needs.”

Pan-Africanism at the Level of Kings
In an era where Africa continues to grapple with neocolonial economic systems, fractured borders and leadership crises, this royal interaction sends a resounding message: Africa’s kings are not relics; they are pillars of identity, unity and hope.

Addressing the gathered elders, chiefs, diplomats and traditional dancers at KwaKhangelamankengane Palace, King Misuzulu emphasized the importance of unity among African nations and the role traditional leaders must play in shaping the continent’s destiny.

“We are not just here to exchange pleasantries,” King Misuzulu declared. “We are here to reconnect the broken bones of our continent, to renew bonds that colonizers tried to erase, and to build a new Africa from the roots.”

In response, Ògíamè Atúwàtse III offered profound insights into the spiritual and developmental duties of traditional rulers in the 21st century:

“We are custodians of both the past and the future. Africa does not lack resources; it lacks alignment and consciousness. Our thrones are not decorative, they are directional. From KwaZulu to Warri, the drumbeat of unity is louder than ever.”

These were not hollow words. Both monarchs have walked the talk. King Misuzulu has championed rural development, youth empowerment and land reform advocacy. Meanwhile, Ògíamè Atúwàtse III has restructured the Itsekiri Royal Court to include technocrats, diplomats and professionals, modernizing governance in a way that benefits his people without losing cultural identity.

Cultural Diplomacy as a Tool for African Integration
While Western diplomacy is often obsessed with trade, military alliances and economic metrics, Africa’s diplomacy has always started with relationships, respect, rituals and reciprocity.

The Zulu-Warri encounter was steeped in symbolism, royal greetings, traditional drumming, libations, gift exchanges and storytelling. Cultural exchange is not merely aesthetic; it is the most authentic African foreign policy model. As Chinua Achebe once said, “A man who does not know where the rain began to beat him cannot say where he dried his body.” This visit reminds Africans of where the rain began and inspires a future where they collectively seek shelter under the same ancestral umbrella.

This is especially important at a time when xenophobia, regional distrust and tribal divisions continue to plague African societies. The meeting of these two monarchs stands in sharp contrast to the rising tide of anti-African sentiment in South Africa. In fact, the warm embrace of Ògíamè Atúwàtse III by King Misuzulu stands as a royal rebuke to xenophobic politicians who preach division rather than unity.

Strategic Importance in 2025 and Beyond
2025 marks a critical juncture in Africa’s development. The African Continental Free Trade Agreement (AfCFTA) is still in its fragile implementation phase. Continental security is threatened by insurgencies in the Sahel, political instability in West Africa and socio-economic discontent across southern Africa. In such times, state institutions have largely failed, but traditional institutions have endured.

In the words of Prof. Thabo Moletsane, a leading South African political anthropologist, “Where presidents fail, kings remain. Africa’s future will not only be determined in parliaments and boardrooms, it will be shaped in palaces.”

The presence of the Olú of Warri in KwaZulu-Natal thus transcends tourism or courtesy, but a bold move to reassert indigenous leadership as a legitimate and critical stakeholder in Africa’s future. It is a reminder that while colonial borders may divide, ancestral allegiance unites.

Beyond Symbolism: Pathways to Collaboration
The visit also paved the way for collaborative development. Sources close to both royal courts have hinted at plans to explore partnerships in education, agriculture, cultural tourism and youth exchange programs. Ògíamè Atúwàtse III’s Royal Iwere Foundation and King Misuzulu’s development initiatives could form the backbone of a new pan-African model of grassroots progress, outside the bureaucracy and corruption that have riddled many state institutions.

This kind of bottom-up cooperation mirrors the wisdom of the African proverb: “When spider webs unite, they can tie up a lion.” In unity, African kingdoms can do more than survive; they can lead.

The Rise of a New Royal Order
As King Misuzulu and Ògíamè Atúwàtse III embraced, the symbolism was undeniable. It was a spiritual handshake that traversed time and space. It was a reminder that Africa’s true strength lies in its roots, in its royal families, in its cultural institutions and in the unity of its people.

We live in a continent where many leaders seek validation in Washington, Paris or Beijing. Yet, here we have two kings seeking validation in each other’s ancestral lineage, a far more powerful gesture that echoes the words of Kwame Nkrumah: “We face neither East nor West, we face forward.”

This encounter must not be buried in the back pages of history. It must be celebrated, studied and replicated. From the swamps of Warri to the hills of KwaZulu, a new Africa is rising, not from politics, but from purpose; not from presidents, but from palaces.

Royal Alliance for African Renaissance: King Misuzulu Hosts Ògíamè Atúwàtse III at KwaKhangelamankengane

 

Author: George Omagbemi Sylvester
Date: May 16, 2025
Location: KwaNongoma, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

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Tayo Folorunsho Partners with Fari Elysian Foundation to Host Content Creation Masterclass 2.0 in Abuja

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In a groundbreaking initiative to empower Nigeria’s next generation of digital storytellers, Tayo Folorunsho, Founder of Edutainment First International Ltd/GTE, has partnered with Farida Mirzebalaeva, Founder of the Fari Elysian Foundation, to host Content Creation Masterclass 2.0, scheduled to take place from July 10th to 11th in Abuja.

This highly anticipated two-day experience is set to be a transformative event for emerging content creators across Nigeria. The Masterclass will offer hands-on training in media production, digital storytelling, personal branding, content monetization, and digital entrepreneurship. Designed with a national vision, the initiative seeks to position participants as compelling digital voices and creative leaders in Nigeria’s rapidly growing content economy.

Farida Mirzebalaeva, whose foundation is recognized for empowering young people with practical digital skills and a growth mindset, shared her enthusiasm for the initiative:

“At the Fari Elysian Foundation, we believe the future belongs to those who create. By equipping youth with real, applicable creative and digital tools, we’re investing in a future where African voices shape global narratives. This Masterclass is not just a training—it’s a movement to spark confidence, competence, and community in the hearts of aspiring creators.”

Tayo Folorunsho, a respected voice in education-through-entertainment and community impact, emphasized the importance of this collaboration:

“Through Edutainment First, we’ve consistently championed innovation that resonates with the Nigerian reality. Partnering with Farida and the Fari Elysian Foundation to bring Content Creation Masterclass 2.0 to Abuja reflects our shared commitment to inclusivity, creativity, and impact. We are not just teaching content—we’re helping young people tell their stories, monetize their voices, and become change agents in their communities.”

Building on the success of its inaugural edition, Content Creation Masterclass 2.0 aims to expand its reach, deepen its impact, and foster a national community of empowered young creators. Attendees can expect expert-led sessions, networking opportunities, access to mentorship, and the chance to become part of a growing network of purpose-driven creatives who are changing the narrative of Africa—one post, one video, one story at a time.

#ContentCreationMasterclass #FariElysian #EdutainmentFirst #DigitalNigeria #AbujaEvent2024

Tayo Folorunsho Partners with Fari Elysian Foundation to Host Content Creation Masterclass 2.0 in Abuja*

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Ngozi Okafor: A Life Devoted to Empowering the Next Generation*

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*Ngozi Okafor: A Life Devoted to Empowering the Next Generation*

From the bustling streets of London to the heart of Lagos, from mentoring inner-city teens in Atlanta to crafting training blueprints for global institutions, Ngozi Okafor’s journey has been one of purpose, passion, and people. A woman of many hats—organizational psychologist, trainer, mentor, author, mother—Ngozi has spent over two decades empowering young people and shaping lives, one conversation, one opportunity, and one program at a time.

With more than 23 years of experience in instructional design and corporate training, Ngozi is not just a trainer or strategist—she’s a storyteller, a guide, and a believer in human potential. Her work cuts across sectors and continents, but her mission has always remained constant: to equip young people with the tools, confidence, and mindset to lead meaningful lives.

“I’ve always believed that young people don’t just need information—they need belief. They need someone to see them, to invest in them, and to walk beside them,” she once said. And that belief has taken her to 56 countries, living on four continents, and working with youth and organizations around the world.

Early Roots in the UK: Hope for the Hopeless

Her story begins in the United Kingdom, where she volunteered with Hope Worldwide International. There, she worked with vulnerable youth—many on the brink of homelessness or already living on the streets. Ngozi helped them navigate their way back into education and employment, guiding them gently but firmly toward stability and success. She didn’t just talk to them; she walked with them—sometimes organizing food drives, sometimes helping them launch charitable initiatives of their own.

A Voice in Atlanta’s Classrooms and Communities

When she moved to the United States, Ngozi took that same energy to Junior Achievers of Atlanta, facilitating business simulation programs that didn’t just teach numbers, but gave students the confidence to dream of building something of their own. Her influence extended beyond the classroom. She mobilized young people to serve their communities—visiting the elderly through Meals on Wheels, delivering not just food but companionship and care.

Returning Home to Inspire Nigeria’s Youth

Back in Nigeria, Ngozi didn’t slow down. She launched Youth Arena, a popular radio show on Armed Forces Radio 107.7 FM that became a lifeline for many young Nigerians searching for answers, guidance, and mentorship. With her warm voice and relatable stories, she connected with thousands. The show’s success led to a partnership with the Central Bank of Nigeria and the Financial Inclusion Committee, enabling her to produce a groundbreaking radio series on financial literacy.

But she didn’t stop at broadcasting. Ngozi created a practical financial workbook that was distributed across the country, demystifying savings, budgeting, and financial planning for young people who had never been taught these skills before.

Backing Words with Action

For Ngozi, empowerment isn’t just about ideas—it’s about action. She has personally financed the startup dreams of more than 50 young entrepreneurs in Nigeria, providing essential tools like sewing machines, baking ovens, and more. “Sometimes all they need is that one push—a show of faith that says, ‘I believe in you,’” she reflects.

More Than a Resume—A Mission

Ngozi Okafor’s life isn’t just a collection of impressive roles or accolades. It’s a testament to what happens when passion meets purpose. She’s worked with global public institutions, spoken at conferences, published books, and trained leaders. Yet, what defines her most is her unwavering commitment to young people—their stories, their struggles, and their potential.

A mother, mentor, and motivator, Ngozi continues to inspire across generations and geographies. Her story is still being written, one life at a time.

And in a world that desperately needs hope, her message is simple yet profound: *Every young person deserves a chance to thrive—and someone to believe.

Ngozi Okafor: A Life Devoted to Empowering the Next Generation*

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