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When You Accept, You Win: The Untold Secret to Inner Peace
When You Accept, You Win: The Untold Secret to Inner Peace.
By George Omagbemi Sylvester | Published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com
“Life is not about being better than someone else; it is about being better than you used to be.” ~ Wayne Dyer
Life is not a straight road; it twists and turns, stumbles and rises and often punches us in the gut when we least expect it. No one, not even the most privileged or the most pious, is promised constant happiness. In fact, to assume that life will always go your way is a dangerous illusion. The truth is that life can never guarantee happiness, but it does offer us the power to endure, grow and most importantly ACCEPT.
This acceptance is not weakness; it is power. It is the key to peace of mind in an unpredictable world. When we understand that there are things beyond our control (other people’s success, the circumstances of our birth, time, death, betrayal, loss, missed opportunities) and we choose to stop wrestling them, we begin to live freely. Acceptance does not mean surrender; it means clarity. It is the admission that some battles are not worth your mental health, your joy, or your future.
The Myth of Constant Happiness. We live in an age where social media sells the illusion that everyone else is doing better than us; smiling on yachts, attending million-dollar weddings, buying new homes, posing with luxury cars, launching billion-dollar start-ups. The pressure to “KEEP UP” can make people lose their sense of reality. Now here’s the truth: no one is happy all the time and nobody’s life is as perfect as it looks online.
According to a 2023 global study by Ipsos, over 45% of people worldwide reported feeling stress and anxiety daily, despite apparent success or wealth. The World Health Organization also confirmed that depression remains the leading cause of disability globally. What does this tell us? THAT HAPPINESS is not GUARANTEED by SUCCESS, MONEY or even LOVE. It is FOUND in MINDSET.
Acceptance is Freedom. When you accept that not everything will go your way, you eliminate unnecessary suffering. You accept that you are ahead of alot of people, but others are far ahead of you and that’s okay. Life isn’t a race; it’s a personal journey. Just like the MOON and the SUN, we all SHINE at different TIMES.
In the words of American author Mark Manson: “The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one’s negative experience is itself a positive experience.”
Acceptance allows you to breathe, think clearly and reset your focus on what you can control. It helps you detach from toxic comparison and walk your unique path with confidence.
COMPARISON is a THIEF. One of the worst habits modern society encourages is the constant COMPARISON of lives, COMPARISON kills JOY. It leads to DEPRESSION, ENVY, RESENTMENT and HOPELESSNESS.
Harvard University’s 75-Year Study on Adult Development (which remains one of the longest-running studies in the world) concluded that people who focused on personal growth and meaningful relationships were far more fulfilled than those who chased social status and compared their lives to others. In simpler terms, you will never be at peace if you constantly measure yourself against someone else.
Control What You Can. Accept What You Can’t.
You didn’t choose your birthplace, the color of your skin, your parents or your early financial background. Some people are born into WEALTH, others into WAR. Some get an early start in life, others crawl into progress through PAIN and FIRE. It is what it is, but here’s what you do control: your MINDSET, your DISCIPLINE, your REACTION, your WORK-ETHIC and your BELIEF-IN-YOURSELF. That is enough.
Billionaire entrepreneur Jack Ma, once rejected by 30 jobs and told he was “NOT GOOD ENOUGH,” said: “You should learn to smile when you fail, knowing that every setback is temporary. What you cannot change, you must learn to rise above.”
Real Growth Begins at ACCEPTANCE. Let us not confuse “ACCEPTANCE” with “RESIGNATION.” Acceptance is understanding the terrain; resilience is deciding to walk the terrain anyway. Once you accept that life isn’t fair, you become stronger. You stop waiting for a perfect opportunity and start building your own. You stop blaming others and start creating solutions.Every mature mind eventually comes to this realization: you are not entitled to an easy life. Life owes you nothing (not success, not justice, not love), but you owe yourself peace, sanity and purpose.
Balance Ambition with Grace. Being ambitious is great, it moves the world forward. Ambition without acceptance becomes poison. It turns into greed, restlessness and desperation. The healthiest ambition is the one balanced with the grace to accept when the timing IS NOT right or when life throws you curveballs.
Michelle Obama, in her memoir Becoming, stated: “Your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own.”
Own your story. Whether you are behind, ahead or stuck in the middle, it is still your journey. You can not photocopy another person’s destiny.
You are Not Late, You are on Your Path. It is said that Colonel Sanders founded KFC at the age of 65 and Morgan Freeman got his breakout role at 52. Meanwhile, Mark Zuckerberg became a billionaire at 23. Different seasons, different timeliness, same potential for impact. Stop panicking. Life is not a ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL program. What matters is what you do with what you have, where you are. That is the path to real fulfillment.
Inner Peace is the Real Flex. What is more powerful than owning cars or properties? Inner peace. The ability to sleep at night without anxiety, bitterness or fear. The ability to laugh freely, love purely and live fully. Peace of mind is the luxury too many rich people DO NOT have.
In the words of spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle: “Accept — then act. Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it.”
This mindset changes everything. It creates emotional intelligence, mental stability and spiritual strength. You become less reactive, more intentional and more grateful.
The Bottom Line: Acceptance Is the Beginning of Power. This is not a call to give up. This is a call to wake up. To see life as it truly is; flawed, unpredictable, yet full of potential. To stop trying to control the wind and instead adjust your sails. To stop chasing shadows and start embracing the light within you. Let go of the illusion of constant happiness. Life will bruise you, humble you, test you. It will also shape you, teach you and (if you let it) transform you. The moment you accept that you are ahead of some and behind others, that life is both suffering and beauty, you find peace; and from peace, you find power.
“Happiness can exist only in acceptance.” ~ George Orwell

Written by George Omagbemi Sylvester
Published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com
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Police Deploy Extra Security To JAMB Centres, Dismiss Rumours Of Threats
Police Deploy Extra Security To JAMB Centres, Dismiss Rumours Of Threats
The Nigeria Police Force has deployed additional security personnel to examination centres nationwide ahead of the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB) examinations scheduled to begin on April 16, 2026, while dismissing recent rumours of safety threats at certain centres in a North Central state as “unfounded” and “without basis.”
In a statement issued on Tuesday, the Force acknowledged public concerns regarding the safety of candidates but emphasised that it does not act on unverified information. Nevertheless, the police said the concerns had been noted, particularly as they relate to the education and future of young Nigerians.
“Extra security has been deployed at examination centres nationwide, both overtly and covertly, to prevent any untoward incidents,” the Force Public Relations Officer, DCP Anthony Okon Placid, said in the statement. Measures include routine patrols, perimeter checks, and rapid response teams stationed at strategic locations.
The police said they are collaborating closely with other security agencies to monitor and address potential threats effectively, warning that any individual or group attempting to disrupt the examination process will be swiftly identified and prosecuted.
Candidates have been encouraged to arrive early at their centres, adhere to examination regulations, and report any suspicious activities or persons to on-site security personnel. The public was advised to disregard unverified information circulating on social media and to rely solely on official updates from JAMB and the Nigeria Police Force.
“The Force remains committed to maintaining peace, security, and public confidence in all national activities, including the JAMB examinations,” the statement added.
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Manipulation of Military Operations to Suit Political Permutations; Nigerian Military Operations in Jilli, as a case study
Manipulation of Military Operations to Suit Political Permutations; Nigerian Military Operations in Jilli, as a case study.
By Comrade Oladimeji Odeyemi.
It must be stated clearly and without any apology: the continuous attempt by some political actors to manipulate or reinterpret military operations for political advantage is reckless, dangerous, and unacceptable. The Armed Forces of Nigeria are not an extension of political ambition, nor are they instruments to be twisted to fit changing political permutations.
Our military personnel, especially the personnel of the Nigerian Army are on the frontlines, risking—and in many cases losing—their lives to defend the nation. To politicise their sacrifices is not only disrespectful, it is an insult to the very idea of national service. Those who choose to score political points from matters of security should understand that they are undermining the morale, focus, and effectiveness of the very institutions safeguarding this country.
Recent developments further expose how dangerous and misleading these narratives can be. In a circulating video, a captured Boko Haram member, one Tijani openly affirmed that insurgents frequently congregate at the Jilli Axis—an area that was recently targeted and bombed by the Nigerian military. He went to further affirmed that they mobilised from Jilli to carry out the attack on Benisheikh, which led to the tragic loss of our gallant Officers and Men. This revelation directly contradicts the politicised claims suggesting indiscriminate action or targeted victimisation. It instead reinforces the reality that military operations are intelligence-driven and aimed at dismantling terrorist strongholds.
Equally intolerable is the growing habit of dragging ethnic or tribal sentiments into matters of national security. This must stop. Security threats do not discriminate, and neither should our national response. Any attempt to twist counter-terrorism efforts into ethnic or sectional narratives is not only dishonest but dangerously divisive.
Furthermore, the reckless labeling of security operations as “witch-hunts” without credible evidence is a deliberate attempt to discredit institutions and confuse the public. Such narratives are not harmless—they weaken trust, embolden criminal elements, and place additional strain on already overstretched security personnel.
Those pushing such claims must be prepared to take responsibility for the consequences.
Let it be a warning: the continued politicisation of security issues will not only deepen national insecurity but will also be remembered as a betrayal of public trust. Politicians must draw a clear line between legitimate oversight and destructive interference. The former strengthens democracy; the latter endangers lives.
Our security agencies must be allowed to operate without intimidation, manipulation, or political distortion. Anything less is a direct compromise of national safety.
It is the government responsibility to provide security, especially in a Country like Nigeria, where citizens are not allowed to own the kind of weapons that terrorists and often criminals carry, government must protect the citizens.
In conclusion, the lives of citizens are not bargaining chips for political games. They are sacred. Any individual or group that chooses to exploit insecurity for political gain must understand that they are playing a dangerous game—one that history will judge harshly.
Comrade Oladimeji Odeyemi an entrepreneur, a security analyst and an opinion moulder sent this article from Ibadan, Oyo State.
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Monday Okpebholo Rebuilds POWA Market, Disburses ₦200 Million to Fire Victims
*Monday Okpebholo Rebuilds POWA Market, Disburses ₦200 Million to Fire Victims*
A major recovery effort has been completed for traders affected by the recent fire outbreak at POWA Market, as Edo State Governor Monday Okpebholo announced the rebuilding of the market and the disbursement of financial support to victims.
Speaking during the official presentation, Okpebholo revealed that a total of ₦200 million had been distributed to affected traders, with each shop owner receiving ₦8 million to help restart their businesses. The intervention comes just days after the governor pledged swift action following the devastating fire incident that disrupted livelihoods in the community.
“A few days ago, I made a promise to the traders affected by the POWA Market fire in Ekpoma. Today, I have fulfilled that promise,” Okpebholo said. “We have rebuilt the market, and I personally presented the cheques to each of the affected traders as we disbursed ₦200 million in support, with every shop owner receiving ₦8 million to help them restart their businesses.”
He acknowledged the hardship caused by the disaster, emphasizing that the initiative was not only about economic recovery but also restoring dignity and hope among victims.
“I understand the pain and disruption this incident caused, and this intervention is about restoring not just livelihoods, but hope and dignity,” he added.
The governor framed the effort as part of his administration’s broader commitment to responsive governance and people-centered policies. “This is what governance means to me, standing with our people and taking real action when it matters most,” he said, assuring residents that further support initiatives would follow.
Okpebholo concluded on a note of optimism about the state’s future, declaring, “We will continue to do more to support our people and put smiles on the faces of Edo families. A New Edo has risen.”
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