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Outrage and Urgency: VDM Condemns Peller’s Suicide Attempt as Selfish and Irresponsible. A National Reckoning on Mental Health
Outrage and Urgency: VDM Condemns Peller’s Suicide Attempt as Selfish and Irresponsible. A National Reckoning on Mental Health.
By George Omagbemi Sylvester | Published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com
In a deeply troubling moment that has captured Nigeria’s social media and public discourse this week, prominent TikTok streamer and content creator Habeeb Hamzat, popularly known as Peller, reportedly attempted to take his own life following emotional distress related to a personal relationship breakdown. The incident, which saw Peller crash his vehicle during a live stream and later be rushed to hospital, has ignited intense reactions and from genuine concern and calls for empathy to fierce condemnation by controversial social media activist VeryDarkMan (VDM).
VDM’s critique of the suicide attempt (labeling the act as “selfish” and “irresponsible”) has sparked wider debate about the way Nigerian society understands mental health, personal accountability, and the role of public figures in influencing young Nigerians. This is not merely an internet spat; it is a vital national conversation about how we view human dignity, pain, crisis, and support.
The Incident: What Happened to Peller?
According to multiple media reports, Peller, a youthful online personality with millions of followers, became visibly distressed during an Instagram livestream. In the footage, he appeared to be emotionally overwhelmed following a dispute with his girlfriend (known online as Jarvis) and made several troubling statements suggesting an intention to harm himself. Moments later, his vehicle collided with a roadside barrier, prompting bystanders to rush to his aid and subsequently lead him to medical care.
Although details remain partially unconfirmed by official statements from Peller or authorities, reputable news organisations have widely shared verified footage and coverage indicating the seriousness of the incident. As of this writing, Peller’s condition is still a subject of public concern, but he is believed to be under medical observation following the crash.
VDM’s Reaction: Sharp Words, Hard Questions. In an official Instagram statement, VDM (whose real name is Martins Vincent Otse, a Nigerian social media influencer and activist) condemned Peller’s actions in stark terms. VDM argued that Peller “failed to consider the emotional impact his actions could have on his mother and fans.” He described the attempt as selfish and irresponsible, asserting that the psychological fallout on family, friends and impressionable followers could have been devastating if Peller had succeeded.
Moreover, VDM did not limit his critique to the suicide attempt itself. He also took aim at what he characterises as “toxic behaviour” in Peller’s personal life, particularly regarding his relationship with Jarvis. VDM suggested that such instability, if unchecked, could damage not only Peller’s life but also the reputation and wellbeing of those around him. He called on Peller’s family to intervene and support him more actively.
Why This Matters: Suicide, Sympathy, and Social Responsibility. VDM’s response, though severe, underscores deeper issues at play in Nigeria’s growing mental health crisis:
1. Suicide Is a Public Health Issue — Not Only a Personal Failing. Globally and in Nigeria, suicide is recognised not as a moral failing but as a complex phenomenon rooted in psychological, social and economic stressors. Scholarly research highlights that for every suicide death, up to 20 individuals may attempt to end their lives as a stark statistical reminder that suicide attempts are far more common than often acknowledged.
The World Health Organization (WHO) estimates that suicide claims over 700,000 lives annually worldwide and is a leading cause of death among young people aged 15 to 29 which is the age bracket that includes Peller and many of his followers.
Yet under Nigeria’s current legal framework, attempted suicide remains ccriminalised and punishable by up to one year in prison under Section 327 of the Criminal Code. This punitive approach has been widely criticised by public health experts for discouraging individuals in crisis from seeking help and for framing psychological distress as a crime rather than a health emergency.
2. Experts Call for Compassion and Framework Reform. Leading voices in psychiatry and public health have urged a transformation in how suicide is addressed in Nigeria. Psychiatrists lament that criminalisation “cripples prevention efforts and creates a blind spot for data collection and support strategies.” They argue for decriminalisation and a shift toward therapeutic intervention.
Meanwhile, the Suicide Prevention Bill currently before the National Assembly seeks to decriminalise attempted suicide and establish a structured national strategy for prevention, care and aftercare — a critical step in treating such incidents as health issues requiring compassion and resources, not judgment or punishment.
Mental health advocates also point out that stigma ( cultural, religious, and societal) remains a major barrier to acknowledging and addressing mental distress. As one psychologist told Sahara Healthwise, “Anybody can be sick.,do not stigmatise them, attempted suicide could be a cry for help.”
3. Public Figures Have Influence — But Also Burdens. Peller’s stature as a content creator with a massive platform amplifies the impact of his actions. When influencers experience crises publicly, the reactions of fans and followers can intensify emotions and drive discourse, for better or worse.
VDM’s critique focuses on this dimension — cautioning that public figures in distress can inadvertently normalise harmful behaviour or trigger copycat responses among vulnerable young people. Research shows that irresponsible reporting of suicide can indeed lead to imitation, a phenomenon known as the “Werther effect,” prompting calls for sensitivity and responsible engagement from media and influencers alike.
Reconciling Tough Talk with Human Empathy
There is a tension in the way VDM addresses this situation. On one hand, his condemnation reflects a broader social expectation that individuals must act responsibly, especially when in positions of influence. On the other, mental health experts emphasise that language such as “selfish” or “irresponsible” (while capturing public frustration) can inadvertently reinforce stigma and drive individuals further into silence rather than healing.
As global mental health advocate Hauwa Ojeifo (founder of She Writes Woman and a leader in the fight for mental health rights in Nigeria) once articulated: meaningful change requires compassionate engagement, destigmatisation and community support. Her work highlights that understanding mental distress must move beyond blame towards empathy and structural reform.
What Should Happen Next?
This incident should prompt collective reflection, not merely social media skirmishes:
United action: Communities, policymakers, health professionals and families must work together to treat mental health with seriousness and dignity.
Decriminalisation: Nigeria’s Suicide Prevention Bill must be prioritised to promote care over punishment.
Support networks: Emergency hotlines and accessible psychological services should be strengthened so that individuals in crisis can find help without fear.
Responsible media: Influencers and news outlets must avoid sensationalism and instead provide fact-based, empathetic coverage that guides readers toward understanding and resources.
Suicide is not an isolated act; it is a symptom of deeper systemic failures mostly from economic pressures to emotional isolation. As a society, we must reject both judgment without empathy and fear without action.
In closing, violence against the self is never a simple act of selfishness. It is often a desperate plea for relief from overwhelming suffering. Responding with compassion, bolstered by evidence-based strategies and societal support, is essential if Nigeria is to transform this crisis into a turning point for dignity, care, and collective responsibility.
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‘I Never Indicted Egbetokun’ — Jesam Michael Rebuts Sowore’s Allegations
‘I Never Indicted Egbetokun’ — Jesam Michael Rebuts Sowore’s Allegations
Abuja — Businessman Jesam Michael has strongly refuted claims attributed to him in a recent report by activist and publisher Omoyele Sowore, describing the publication as false, misleading, and a total misrepresentation of his statements.
In an exclusive chat on Saturday, Michael denied ever making the allegations credited to him by Sowore concerning the Inspector-General of Police (IGP), Kayode Egbetokun, while both men were reportedly inmates at the Kuje Correctional Centre in October 2025.
Sowore, in a widely circulated account, claimed that Michael had alleged receiving operational support from senior police officers, including the provision of office space within the Nigeria Police Force Headquarters, police protection, and the use of officers to detain individuals connected to a purported Ponzi scheme. The report further alleged financial inducements involving senior police officers.
However, Michael dismissed the account as “entirely fabricated.”
“I never made those statements to Omoyele Sowore or to anyone else,” Michael said. “At no point did I accuse the Inspector-General of Police or any senior police officer of providing me with offices, police units, or protection. The claims attributed to me are false and malicious. I only met him briefly when he came to greet Nnamdi Kanu’s younger brother whom I share a block with here and there is no way we could have sat down to discuss such fabricated stories ”
Michael specifically rejected claims suggesting that he supported or “served” police officers, insisting that he never stated that he had any police unit at his disposal or that law enforcement personnel acted on his instructions.
“I never said I supported police officers or had officers working for me. That allegation did not come from me,” he said.
He also denied claims that his properties were shared among senior police officers, describing the allegation as baseless and untrue.
“At no time did I say that my properties were shared among police officers or anyone else,” Michael stated.
Additionally, Michael categorically refuted allegations credited to him that a retired Deputy Inspector-General of Police, Dasuki Galandanchi, collected ₦250 million or played any role in silencing victims.
“I never mentioned DIG Dasuki Galandanchi, nor did I accuse him or anyone else of collecting money. That statement was never mine,” he said.
Michael further alleged that Sowore, through intermediaries, had previously attempted to persuade him to publicly indict the IGP in exchange for media backing—an offer he said he firmly rejected.
“I was approached repeatedly through a lawyer called Marshall, allegedly acting on Sowore’s behalf, asking that I make statements against the IGP so an article could be published. I refused, and I believe this publication is retaliation for that refusal,” he stated.
According to Michael, he declined to entertain the lawyer again after the initial contact, insisting that he would not be used to advance any personal or political agenda.
Sowore had earlier narrated his detention following the #FreeNnamdiKanuNow protest, alleging harassment by police officers and accusing the IGP of acting unlawfully in office. His report cited conversations he claimed to have had with Michael during their time in custody as further evidence of alleged corruption within the Nigeria Police Force.
Michael, however, maintained that any legal issues surrounding him are already before the appropriate authorities and are being handled by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC).
“My case is before the law. I have not, and will not, make reckless allegations against individuals or institutions to gain favour or sympathy,” he said.
As of the time of filing this report, the Nigeria Police Force has not issued an official response to either Sowore’s allegations or Michael’s rebuttal.
The development adds a new layer to the ongoing public controversy surrounding Sowore’s claims against the police hierarchy, with Michael’s denial raising questions about the accuracy of statements attributed to private individuals in politically sensitive narratives.
Jesam Michael’s business challenges are currently being addressed at the federal high court as well as FCT high court Jabi. He is very confident that justice will surely be done at the end of the day.
Joining Sowore in his pursuit of cheap blackmail against the IGP, other senior police officers or anyone else has never and will never be a part of Jesam Michael.
To say the least, Jesam Michael is totally disgusted by the stories falsely peddled by Sowore and wishes to totally dissociate him self from the false and malicious stories told by Sowore.
Sowore should please look for another willing tool to use not Jesam Michael.
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When Power Meets Privilege: Controversy Trails the Rise of NNPC Gas Czar Lekan Ogunleye
When Power Meets Privilege: Controversy Trails the Rise of NNPC Gas Czar Lekan Ogunleye
Among many of Abraham Lincoln’s popular saying is that “If you want to test a man’s character, give him power.” This saying suggests power and affluence reveals a person’s true nature rather than changing it.
The saying might rightly describe one of NNPC limited eggheads, Lekan Ogunleye, who is the Executive Vice President, Gas, Power & New Energy.
It’s a matter of stating the obvious saying that the former Deputy Managing Director of Nigeria LNG Limited is a brilliant chap. He’s been equipped with significant industry experience in various aspects of the gas value chain, he was made the Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer of Gas Aggregation Company Nigeria Limited (GACN),a firm set up by Federal Government of Nigeria to implement the Nigerian Gas Master Plan and manage domestic supply of gas.
But with all of these achievements, many alleged that a thorn in the flesh that lives with Mr Ogunleye is his fondness for the other gender. Sources close to him alleged that he invests millions in satisfying his cravings to invite them from around the world in different sizes and shapes on regular basis.
Information gathered has it that like many of his class, he has a permanent suite in a luxurious hotel on Lagos Island where he entertains them, it was alleged that his arrangements even provides luxurious treatment for them even when he’s not in town. A recent case of such was when he travelled to UAE during last year December with his family, sources close to him alleged that while he was away, ladies invited from Indonesia and Rwanda were receiving royal treatment in this permanent suite which cost over half a million Naira per night.
The sources also alleged that he’s known to relish his fetish practices with two ladies at the a time, and to watch them play with themselves before joining in the fun.
While his personal life may not be that important, how he was able to sustain such an expensive lifestyle, was scrutinize and it was alleged that he regularly receives kickbacks from NNPC vendors and contractors, especially the foreign partners who have been awarded contracts worth millions of dollars through his assistance.
Some of his close allies alleged that power that his privileged office brought was responsible for his insatiable desires for the opposite sex a situation that led to the collapse of his first marriage before he remarried a few years ago.
In other to establish the true state of things, a query was sent to him especially about the allegation of financial irregularities and the abuse of power and privileges for personal enrichment, the query was left unanswered after more than two weeks even when receipt was confirmed.nleye
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Pomp, Prestige and Purpose: Dr. Mutiu Adewale Badmus Crowned Otunba Alayeluwa Onimolete of Molete, Ogbomoso
Pomp, Prestige and Purpose: Dr. Mutiu Adewale Badmus Crowned Otunba Alayeluwa Onimolete of Molete, Ogbomoso
Last Sunday was etched in gold in the annals of Molete, Ogbomoso, as the ancient town came alive in colour, culture, and celebration for the conferment of a prestigious chieftaincy title on the erudite entrepreneur and man of many parts, Dr. Mutiu Adewale Badmus.
In a ceremony steeped in tradition and grandeur, Dr. Badmus was formally installed as the Otunba Alayeluwa Onimolete of Molete, Ogbomoso, drawing an impressive gathering of crème de la crème from across the social, business, and cultural strata of society.
The atmosphere was one of pride, reverence, and collective joy as dignitaries, community leaders, friends, and well-wishers thronged the historic town to witness the landmark event.
The honour, bestowed in recognition of his outstanding contributions to societal development and humanity at large, reflects Dr. Badmus’ enduring commitment to service, excellence, and community upliftment. As the Chief Executive Officer of Al-Hatyq Travel and Tours Limited, he has distinguished himself not only as a successful business leader but also as a compassionate humanitarian whose impact transcends commerce.
The colourful ceremony showcased the rich cultural heritage of Ogbomoso, with traditional rites, music, and pageantry underscoring the significance of the occasion. For many in attendance, the conferment was more than a title—it was a celebration of character, legacy, and a life devoted to meaningful service.
As Dr. Mutiu Adewale Badmus assumes his new role as Otunba Alayeluwa Onimolete, expectations are high that his wisdom, vision, and passion for humanity will continue to inspire progress and unity within Molete, Ogbomoso, and beyond.
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