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Blood on Our Hands: The Lusikisiki Tragedy and the Crisis of Male Violence in South Africa’s South

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Blood on Our Hands: The Lusikisiki Tragedy and the Crisis of Male Violence in South Africa’s South.

By George Omagbemi Sylvester | published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com

 

A dark and agonizing cloud has once again descended upon Lusikisiki, a quiet rural town in the Eastern Cape of South Africa. This time, it is not crime as usual, nor one of the countless political betrayals that plague our people, but something far worse. A man is on the run after allegedly SHOOTING and KILLING his PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND and WIFE in cold blood. Yes, you read that right. A woman carrying life inside her (an unborn child) was gunned down by the very person who once claimed to LOVE her. Her co-victim? His own LEGAL wife. This is not just a tragedy; it is an abomination, an unspeakable act of cowardice and brutality that reflects the deeply rooted crisis of GENDER-BASED violence and toxic masculinity in South Africa.

The Lusikisiki shooting is not an isolated incident. It is another gruesome entry in South Africa’s growing list of femicides. It raises the same haunting question we have asked countless times: WHAT IS WRONG WITH OUR MEN?

The Southern Curse: A Crisis Brewing in Silence. The southern regions of South Africa (especially the Eastern Cape, KwaZulu-Natal and parts of the Western Cape) have become breeding grounds for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, MURDER-SUICIDES and UNRESOLVED GENDER TENSIONS. What we witnessed in Lusikisiki is not new. It is a brutal cycle of pain that repeats itself, only with different names, different dates, but the same outcomes: BLOOD, GRIEF, TRAUMA and IRREVERSIBLE LOSS. This very year, not far from Lusikisiki, another man in Mthatha SHOT and KILLED his girlfriend before turning the gun on himself, leaving behind their 4-year-old daughter. Last year in Butterworth, a young woman was STABBED to DEATH in front of her mother by her ex-boyfriend. How many more sisters, daughters, wives and pregnant lovers must die before we say “ENOUGH”?

 

We must address the harsh reality: some men in our communities are not LOVERS or PROTECTORS; they are PREDATORS in plain clothes. And we, as a SOCIETY, are enabling them with our SILENCE.

Violence MASQUERADING as MASCULINITY. Let us get one thing straight; VIOLENCE is not STRENGTH. Pulling a trigger on a defenseless woman is not a SIGN of MANHOOD; it is the most disgraceful form of WEAKNESS. True strength lies in RESTRAINT, in WALKING AWAY, in PROTECTING rather than DESTROYING. Unfortunately, many young men in the Southern region are growing up without the emotional education necessary to differentiate between DOMINANCE and DIGNITY, between RESPECT and POSSESSION.

Too many boys are being raised to believe that women are OBJECTS to be OWNED and when they assert their independence, these boys (now men) respond with violence. That is not LOVE. That is SICKNESS. That is ENTITLEMENT. That mindset must be UNLEARNED.

A Pregnant Woman, A Mother, A Life Snuffed Out. Imagine the FEAR that gripped that young pregnant woman in her final moments. Imagine the BETRAYAL she must have felt. To carry someone’s child and be repaid with death. That is not just murder; it is an assault on humanity, a crime against the unborn and a blasphemy against the sanctity of life.

And the wife? She too bore the burden of COMMITMENT, TRUST and PARTNERSHIP, only to be met with CRUELTY. Two women. One gun. One man. The lives of families, friends and entire communities shattered forever. We must never NORMALIZE this MADNESS.

The Failure of Society and Justice. Let us not pretend that these incidents happen in a vacuum. Our JUSTICE system is slow. Our police often fail to act on protection orders. Our communities gossip, but they rarely intervene. Religious and traditional leaders, who ought to speak boldly against domestic abuse, often stay silent, choosing RESPECTABILITY over RESPONSIBILITY. When cases like this happen, we act surprised; but should we be? We ignored the WARNING SIGNS. We saw the VERBAL ABUSE. We saw the CONTROL. We heard the SCREAMS at night. We saw the BRUISES hidden behind SMILES and FOUNDATION, but we said “It is none of our business.” Well, now it is everyone’s business. Now, two women are dead. A child is dead before it could live. And the man is still on the run.

To the Youth: Violence is Never the Answer. To the young men growing up in the dusty streets of Lusikisiki, Flagstaff, Butterworth, Mthatha and beyond, listen carefully: VIOLENCE will never earn you RESPECT. You cannot control a woman by killing her. You cannot earn love with fists or bullets. If you are hurting, SEEK HELP. If you are angry, WALK AWAY. If she says no, ACCEPT IT. There are organizations. There are friends. There is therapy. There are police stations, churches and youth centres. Murder? That is the end of your story and hers. If you want to be a real man, PROTECT. DO not DESTROY.

Advice to the Community: Silence is Complicity. Communities in the South must wake up. It is time to say NO to the CULTURE of SILENCE. DO not turn the other way when a woman CRIES for HELP. DO not LAUGH off SIGNS of ABUSE. Do not SHAME VICTIMS. Above all, do not make EXCUSES for ABUSIVE men.

“O monna ke monna ka basadi” ~ A man is a man through women.

Let us begin to redefine MASCULINITY not as DOMINANCE, but as DIGNITY. Not as CONTROL, but as COMPASSION. Not as FEAR, but as RESPONSIBILITY.

Government’s Role: Words Are Not ENOUGH. Yes, President Ramaphosa has spoken against gender-based violence. Yes, there are legal frameworks and action plans. Yet how many more must die before those words translate to REAL ACTION? We need quicker responses, better protection systems, harsher punishments and a nationwide campaign targeting men, particularly in rural regions, with re-education programs and emotional support. This cannot be fixed by hashtags or photo-ops. It requires long-term investment in justice, education and community healing.

In the words of renowned African legal scholar Prof. PLO Lumumba: “The tragedy of Africa is not that our men are poor, but that their minds are imprisoned by archaic beliefs.”

It is time to free our men from the MENTAL CHAINS of CHAUVINISM and VIOLENCE; because until that happens, Lusikisiki will not be the last tragedy. It will be one of many.

Final Thoughts: From Tears to Change. We are weeping again. Another FUNERAL. Another SET of GRAVES. Another HEADLINE that will FADE in a week.

Let us do something different this TIME. Let us channel our grief into a MOVEMENT. Let us hold each other ACCOUNTABLE. Let us teach our sons DIFFERENTLY. Let us raise our voices for our DAUGHTERS.

Let Lusikisiki not just be the site of death, but the BEGINNING of CHANGE, because if we don’t stop this now, we will all have blood on our hands.

Blood on Our Hands: The Lusikisiki Tragedy and the Crisis of Male Violence in South Africa’s South.
By George Omagbemi Sylvester | published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com

George Omagbemi Sylvester writes from South Africa and is a human rights advocate and journalist. This article was published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com

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ONDO STATE GOVERNMENT MOBILIZES ON #UniteAgainstTerror CAMPAIGN, CALLS FOR NATIONAL UNITY AGAINST TERRORISM

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ONDO STATE GOVERNMENT MOBILIZES ON #UniteAgainstTerror CAMPAIGN, CALLS FOR NATIONAL UNITY AGAINST TERRORISM


‎The Ondo State Government has announced its support for the nationwide #UniteAgainstTerror campaign, calling on all Nigerians to rise above political, ethnic, and religious differences in a collective effort to combat terrorism and other forms of violent crimes threatening the nation’s peace and stability.

‎2. The campaign mobilization comes in the wake of the recent conviction and sentencing of individuals linked to the horrific Owo church massacre of June 2022, a tragedy that claimed innocent lives and left lasting scars on families, communities, and the nation. While welcoming the judicial outcome as a significant step toward justice, the Government emphasized that the fight against terrorism requires sustained vigilance and the active participation of all citizens.

‎3. Speaking on Channels Television’s Politics Today, Governor Lucky Orimisan Aiyedatiwa stated that this is a defining moment for Nigerians to come together with one voice against terrorism, stressing that national security must transcend partisan interests. According to the Governor, “when we see something, we must say something,” urging citizens to promptly report suspicious activities and security concerns to the appropriate authorities.

‎4. The Government commends the Armed Forces of Nigeria, the Nigeria Police Force, the Department of State Services, the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps, Amotekun Corps, and other security agencies for their courage, sacrifice, and unwavering commitment to protecting lives and defending the nation’s territorial integrity.

‎5. Ondo State Government therefore calls on traditional rulers, religious leaders, community associations, youth groups, civil society organizations, media practitioners, and all well-meaning Nigerians to embrace the #UniteAgainstTerror campaign as a patriotic movement aimed at strengthening intelligence gathering, promoting public awareness, and denying criminal elements the space to operate within our communities.

‎6. The Government reaffirms its commitment to supporting all lawful measures that enhance national security and urges every citizen to remain alert, responsible, and actively involved in the collective task of safeguarding Nigeria. Together, united in purpose and action, we can defeat terrorism and build a safer and more secure nation for present and future generations.


‎Hon. Idowu Ajanaku,
‎Commissioner for Information and Orientation
June 5, 2026

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WAZOBIA: Nigeria’s Hardly Separable Tripod Stand Since 1914; It’s Time To Rotate Presidency Among 6 Geo-Political Zones In 2027

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Dear High Chief Jibrin Okutepa (SAN), I bring you calvary greetings from the land of Lincoln. I want to first of all commend your continued sincerity of purpose for a united, peaceful, and prosperous Nigeria.

But with all due respect sir, let me reaffirm that since 1914, when the British colonialists led by Lord Frederick Lugard, amalgamated the Northern and Southern Protectorates, Nigeria has always stood on a Tripod called WAZOBIA (Yoruba, Hausa/Fulani, and Igbo). In fact, it is the alleged domination of these three major ethnic nationalities that brought about the doctrine of necessity called the Six Geo-political Zones proposed by Chief Alex Ekwueme, et al., at the 1994/1995 Constitutional Conference chaired by the late Justice Adolphus Karibi-Whyte and empaneled by General Sanni Abacha.

Prior to, and during this period under review, there were legitimate claims and concerns from ethnic minorities across the old Eastern region, the old Northern region, as well as the old Western region that they were being dominated, marginalized, oppressed, and strangulated by the abovementioned three major ethnic nationalities in Nigeria.

So, to solve this hydra-headed problem capable of imploding Nigeria, via a doctrine of necessity, General Sanni Abacha in 1996, partitioned Nigeria into six geo-political zones, namely: North Central, North East, North West, South East, South South, and South West.

The minorities in the old Northern region were majorly zoned into the North Central. This is even as the minorities in the old Eastern region and old Western region were respectively zoned into the South South (a cardinal point unknown to history).

As one of the ardent students of contemporary Nigerian history and politics, permit me to affirm that pertitioning Nigeria into six geo-political zones is the best bet at guaranteeing justice, equity, fairness, national unity, national cohesion, national peace, and commandeering national loyalty in a country like Nigeria with over 385 ethnic nationalities and over 500 languages.

Going forward into 2027, to make Nigeria work, all that is needed has been proferred by Chief Alex Ekwueme during the 1994/1995 Constitutional Conference. Let’s rotate the presidency among the six geo-political zones for a single term of five or six years. This is in line with the spirit and letters of Section 14(3) of Nigeria’s 1999 Constitution (as amended).

Of all the frontline Presidential candidates for the 2027 all-important elections, only His Excellency Atiku Abubakar- @atiku espouses and religiously supports this equitable zoning arrangement. The North/South zoning arrangement has been a scam all along. It has not been able to restore national unity, national peace, and commandeer national loyalty among Nigerians from across the six geo-political zones for their beloved country.

It is therefore, self-evident and conspicuous like the North Star that when power goes North, the more populated North West hijacks it and runs away with it. And when power comes South, the more populated South West using its mainstream media and propaganda prowess, hijacks it and runs away with it. This malady has continued unabated since 1999 to the chagrin of the marginalized North East, South East, and North Central.

As an emerging political scientist and investigative journalist, I affirm that at this auspicious moment in Nigeria’s chequered history, the country now urgently needs an experienced reformer with the political will and balls of steel like Waziri Adamawa; the Zege Mule u Tiv; and the Ogo wu chi onye 1 of Igboland, to get the failing country out of the woods.

Your (Okutepa’s) proposition to downplay the fact that Nigeria is standing on a Tripod called WAZOBIA can be described as an academic exercise tantamount to futility. Nigeria will always stand on a Tripod. All that is needed is for the 1999 Constitution to be amended to make it an impeachable offence for the Nigerian President to abuse his powers and going contrary against the spirit and letters of Section 14(3) of the 1999 Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria (as amended).

Muhammadu Buhari did it and was not punished with impeachment proceedings from the rubber-stamp Senate Presidency of Ahmed Lawan. Bola Tinubu continued from where Buhari stopped and has not been punished with impeachment proceedings from the rubber-stamp Senate Presidency of Godswill Akpabio.

By and large, I reckon with you in toto, that Nigeria’s problem is not in the 1999 Constitution nor in the law, but in the blatant disregard and disrespect for law and order. Gift the American Constitution to these current crop of rogue politicians in Nigeria, they will still plunge Nigeria into the unfathomable chaos like they have done today.

Going into 2027 all-important presidential election billed for Saturday, January 16, 2027, let me conclude by saying that since 2015, having tried and tested two successive regimes of the ruling All Progressives Congress, APC, it’s time to try and test the main opposition African Democratic Congress, ADC, whose charge is led by His Excellency Atiku Abubakar.

May the Nigerian State and the Nigerian people succeed in 2027!

Ikenna Asomba is a political scientist and journalist. He writes from the State of Illinois, United States.

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The Abyss of Silence: Why We All Failed the Oyo Abductees

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​By Femi Oyewale

 

 

​The haunting cadence of W.B. Yeats’ The Second Coming, quoted so often by the late Chinua Achebe, has ceased to be mere poetry. It has become a grim, real-time mirror reflecting our national existence: “Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold; / Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world.”

 

The Abyss of Silence: Why We All Failed the Oyo Abductees

​By Femi Oyewale

 

​In a nation that boasts some of the brightest minds globally, a land steeped in the communal sanctity of “it takes a village to raise a child,” we have descended into an unthinkable abyss. Daredevil criminals have reached into the heart of Oyo State, snatched our children—the very architects of our future—and vanished. Yet, as the sun rises and sets, from the gilded halls of the Presidency to the dusty corners of the local street, we remain paralyzed, tethered to a collective ignorance that is as chilling as it is shameful.

 

The Theatre of Performative Outrage

​We have become a nation of “noises.” We trade blame with surgical precision—the Presidency points to the state, the state points to the security architecture, and the populace directs its vitriol toward the political elite. We have seen the press releases, the hashtags, the fleeting television appearances, and the hollow promises of “concerted efforts.”

 

 

 

 

​But let us be painfully honest: these are not efforts; they are performances. There is not even a whisper of a “near-success syndrome.” While we debate and defend our preferred political affiliations, our children are sleeping under the cold, unforgiving stars of a forest floor. They are subjected to the kind of trauma that shatters souls long before it breaks bodies. They are waiting for a rescue that we are too divided to coordinate.

 

 

 

 

​The Mirror of Empathy

​Let us strip away the facade of civic detachment. I challenge every father in this country: if that abducted child were your only son, would you be content with a tweet? To every mother: if that child were the fruit of your old age, would you accept a press statement as enough?

 

 

 

 

​To our governors, our senators, and our political titans: if these children were the heirs to your empires, would the current pace of “investigation” satisfy you? To our billionaires, our security chiefs, and our local traditional warriors, those who claim the mantle of protectors, what if these children were born of your own loins?

 

 

 

​The silence that would follow that personal connection is the same silence currently haunting the homes of these victims. We have allowed the abstraction of “national crisis” to desensitize us to the visceral reality of a child’s terror.

 

 

 

​Beyond the “One-Man” Savior Complex

 

​We have developed a dangerous habit of outsourcing our conscience. We wait for the radical activist, the viral influencer, or the singular loud voice to carry the burden of the nation. We expect a solitary figure like VDM or a lone firebrand like Sowore to move mountains that require the combined weight of a movement.

 

 

 

 

​But no singular individual can replace the collective pulse of a people. Their rescue is not a one-man job; it is a fundamental test of our humanity.

 

 

 

​The Path to Reclamation

​We are currently a house divided by party lines, religious silos, and ethnic prejudices. Yet, we have seen that we possess a dormant capacity for unity. When the Super Eagles take to the pitch, our differences vanish. We become one heartbeat, one voice, one nation. Why is it that a game can unify us, but the abduction of our children leaves us fractured?

 

 

 

​We do not need more talk. We do not need more inquiries that lead to no arrests. We need to acknowledge a hard truth: we have failed. We have failed the children, we have failed their teachers, and we have failed ourselves.

 

 

 

​No stranger knows our terrain better than we do. No satellite imagery can replace the intelligence of a community that refuses to be silent. It is our land. These are our children.

 

 

 

​The systemic rot has metastasized to the point where “efforts” no longer count. Only results matter. The time for performative sorrow is over; the time for a unified, uncompromising demand for their return is now. If we do not rise, if we do not act with the singular intensity of a people reclaiming their future, then let the history books record that when our children were taken, Nigeria chose its politics over its people.

 

 

 

​We must rescue them. Not tomorrow. Not after the next meeting. Now.

 

 

Femi Oyewale is the publisher of Sahara Online and President of NASRE who
writes on national affairs, security, and social development.

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