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As a herdsman, ‘yowwa’ is the likeliest gratifying word to escape from the tight-lipped Nigerian President and Commander-in-Chief of the Armed Forces, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.) if his cows nuzzle their muzzles against him as they eat hay from his outstretched hands during a random visit to his herd.
As a herdsman, ‘yowwa’ is the likeliest gratifying word to escape from the tight-lipped Nigerian President and Commander-in-Chief of the Armed Forces, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.) if his cows nuzzle their muzzles against him as they eat hay from his outstretched hands during a random visit to his herd.    And as a devout Muslim, ‘Auzubillahi!’ is the likeliest word the President would utter if a dog mistakenly snuggles up against his ankle; Islam forbids human-dog embrace.     Aside from the religious injunction, however, the 78-year-old northern leader is unlikely to prefer the dog to the cow. Quite unlike the slow, witless and clumsy cow, the dog is a very intelligent, friendly, sensitive, and witty creature. Universally, the dog is seen as man’s best friend, not the cow. Notwithstanding all these attributes, President Buhari's preference will still be for the cow, not the dog, any day, anytime - for ancestral reasons.       The age-long ‘yes-sir!’ military mentality that upholds loyalty to superiors over patriotism to Nigeria, predisposes Buhari, a veteran soldier, to choosing the pliant cow over the witty dog.       Surely, the flunkey ‘yes-sir’ mentality is the reason why the Nigerian military, police, DSS, and other security agencies put Buhari far above the country and the Constitution and would shoot at innocent youths at Lekki tollgate even when such an order is in clear breach of the rules of engagement and the Constitution.       Indeed, the distinction between sycophancy and patriotism was what saved the US when subversive forces rose against its democracy on January 6, 2021, at the Capitol as the judiciary, the legislature, the military, and all other institutions of government stood in defense of the American Constitution over the shenanigans of former President Donald Trump and his cohorts.      The understanding of the distinction between racism and patriotism is what is currently playing out in the trial of the white police officer, Derek Chauvin, who knelt on the neck of African-American George Floyd on May 25, 2020, sending him to an early grave in Minneapolis city of Minnesota, USA.       Chauvin’s ongoing public trial, which commenced on March 29, 2021, displays the unquestionable ability of the American nation to reinvent itself when faced with challenges.       For the average Nigerian like me, it beggars belief to think that serving and retired Nigerian police officers would enter the witness box and vehemently condemn one of their own as it’s being done in the trial of Chauvin, who faces up to 40 years in prison if the second-degree murder charge, which presupposes that he didn’t intentionally kill Floyd, is upheld.       Since public hearings on police killings and brutality opened in various states of the Nigerian federation, following the #Endsars nationwide protests last year, no ex-security officer or serving security officer has come out to condemn army-police extrajudicial killings.      Public officials’ arrogant misuse of state power against the citizenry is one of the reasons for the overwhelming call for the restructuring of the country.       The monumental failure of the Buhari-led regime in tackling insecurity, corruption, nepotism, poverty, ethnicity, and government insensitivity is the fuel to the agitation for the break-up of the federation.       Arrogant, insensitive, and utterly reckless, the All Progressives Congress-led Presidency, in 2019, released the picture of  Buhari picking his teeth, probably after drinking some (nunu) milk from his cows - while the citizenry groaned under the weight of unemployment, lack, and dejection. Only our I-don’t-care President would pick his teeth after drinking milk.       Commenting on the tooth-picking picture, presidential aide on New Media, Bashir Ahmad, displayed the characteristic arrogance and insensitivity of the Buhari regime when he said in a tweet, “It’s hard to understand why some people are genuinely angry because of this innocent pic. When I innocently snapped it on Feb 27 and posted (it) on my Snapchat, it didn’t occur to me that it’s going to give wailers that strong hit...”       As Nigerians have been gnashing their teeth since the beginning of 2015, so shall it be till the end in 2023. Nothing will stop the plunge. Buhari is on an eight-year vacation.     Displaying his nonchalance to public outcry for the umpteenth time, Buhari, on March 30, 2021, embarked upon a two-week medical check-up in London, despite the nationwide strike by medical doctors in public hospitals back home.      Without a word on the plight of millions of sick Nigerians condemned to attend public hospitals nationwide, the President hopped on a plane and zoomed off to England, probably with two toothpicks in his mouth after a meal of two and isi ewu.      Defending Buhari’s shameless medical trips, the most meritless of Buhari’s media aides, Lauretta Onochie, tweeted on April 7, 2021, “NEXT YEAR. PRES. @MBuhari WILL GO FOR A ROUTINE CHECKUP.   1. We have been here since 2016. It's been the same wailing. So the response will also be the same. At least, once a year, People across the world see their personal Doctors especially one they have seen for about 40 years.’      It’s not hard to distinguish the noise of an empty barrel. So, Buhari, Onochie, and the wastrels that make up the Presidency see nothing wrong in wasting Nigeria’s hard currency abroad in the last 40 years?       That Buhari cannot give Nigeria just one hospital he can attend, despite ruling Nigeria for eight years now, summarises his failure as a leader. It’s scandalous that Buhari didn’t feel ashamed about going to England still - for treatment - when he’s in an opportune position, in the last six-year, to turn around Nigeria’s health sector.       The latest trip makes it Buhari’s 12th time to run off to London for medical treatment, despite his country having 72,000 registered medical doctors with over 50,000 of them, shamefully, out of the shores of the country due to lack of facilities and adequate welfare packages.      Buhari’s insensitivity doesn’t stop at the medical sector alone, where nurses, physiotherapists, health technologists, etc are leaving the country in droves, the lethargy of his regime permeates every fabric of our national life, and holds the country down to slow death.       Even his wife, Aisha, left her matrimonial home and took off to Dubai for six long months. It’s unheard of anywhere in the world that the wife of the president of a country, which isn’t at war, would go on vacation abroad for six months! Or, could it be that oga madam went on antenatal vacation ni?       Henceforth, I’ll be on the lookout for a bulge in the mid-region of the beautiful Aisha. If Aisha gets pregnant peren? Eeeehhh!! Nigerians will put Buhari to the sword online. I bet you, trolls against the Buhari family will burn down the internet!  But seriously speaking, President Buhari won’t touch the dog. I’m sure he won’t touch the pig, either, because he’s a very pious Muslim. However, Buhari is the chichidodo, a bird that passionately hates feces but loves to eat the maggots in feces. Buhari hates corruption, but corruption has been the signpost of his administration with millions of dollars yearly disappearing into non-working refineries and his former EFCC chair, Ibrahim Magu, enmeshed in financial scandals.  Buhari promised to stop medical tourism when campaigning to be President, but he and his family have made England, France, Germany, Canada, Dubai, and the US their second homes. Buhari promised to revamp the education sector, but his children never graduated from a Nigerian university.  Buhari, in 1983, promised to build infrastructure when he seized power in a military coup, but he canceled the lofty Lagos metro line project initiated by the late Lateef Jakande administration, throwing the traffic of the lagoon city into eternal chaos. He came back in March 2019 to inaugurate a bus stop in Lagos, though. Chai! The alarming picture just keeps flashing in my head: Nigerian President on the bed of a random London hospital in an age when microchips can be implanted to monitor and control patients. Unmh! Buhari rests peacefully in London while peace has fled his own country, Nigeria. Terrible. Email: tundeodes2003@yahoo.comFacebook: @tunde odesolaTwitter: @tunde_odesola
And as a devout Muslim, ‘Auzubillahi!’ is the likeliest word the President would utter if a dog mistakenly snuggles up against his ankle; Islam forbids human-dog embrace.
Aside from the religious injunction, however, the 78-year-old northern leader is unlikely to prefer the dog to the cow. Quite unlike the slow, witless and clumsy cow, the dog is a very intelligent, friendly, sensitive, and witty creature. Universally, the dog is seen as man’s best friend, not the cow. Notwithstanding all these attributes, President Buhari’s preference will still be for the cow, not the dog, any day, anytime – for ancestral reasons.
The age-long ‘yes-sir!’ military mentality that upholds loyalty to superiors over patriotism to Nigeria, predisposes Buhari, a veteran soldier, to choosing the pliant cow over the witty dog.
Surely, the flunkey ‘yes-sir’ mentality is the reason why the Nigerian military, police, DSS, and other security agencies put Buhari far above the country and the Constitution and would shoot at innocent youths at Lekki tollgate even when such an order is in clear breach of the rules of engagement and the Constitution.
Indeed, the distinction between sycophancy and patriotism was what saved the US when subversive forces rose against its democracy on January 6, 2021, at the Capitol as the judiciary, the legislature, the military, and all other institutions of government stood in defense of the American Constitution over the shenanigans of former President Donald Trump and his cohorts.
The understanding of the distinction between racism and patriotism is what is currently playing out in the trial of the white police officer, Derek Chauvin, who knelt on the neck of African-American George Floyd on May 25, 2020, sending him to an early grave in Minneapolis city of Minnesota, USA.
Chauvin’s ongoing public trial, which commenced on March 29, 2021, displays the unquestionable ability of the American nation to reinvent itself when faced with challenges.
For the average Nigerian like me, it beggars belief to think that serving and retired Nigerian police officers would enter the witness box and vehemently condemn one of their own as it’s being done in the trial of Chauvin, who faces up to 40 years in prison if the second-degree murder charge, which presupposes that he didn’t intentionally kill Floyd, is upheld.
Since public hearings on police killings and brutality opened in various states of the Nigerian federation, following the #Endsars nationwide protests last year, no ex-security officer or serving security officer has come out to condemn army-police extrajudicial killings.
Public officials’ arrogant misuse of state power against the citizenry is one of the reasons for the overwhelming call for the restructuring of the country.
The monumental failure of the Buhari-led regime in tackling insecurity, corruption, nepotism, poverty, ethnicity, and government insensitivity is the fuel to the agitation for the break-up of the federation.
Arrogant, insensitive, and utterly reckless, the All Progressives Congress-led Presidency, in 2019, released the picture of  Buhari picking his teeth, probably after drinking some (nunu) milk from his cows – while the citizenry groaned under the weight of unemployment, lack, and dejection. Only our I-don’t-care President would pick his teeth after drinking milk.
Commenting on the tooth-picking picture, presidential aide on New Media, Bashir Ahmad, displayed the characteristic arrogance and insensitivity of the Buhari regime when he said in a tweet, “It’s hard to understand why some people are genuinely angry because of this innocent pic. When I innocently snapped it on Feb 27 and posted (it) on my Snapchat, it didn’t occur to me that it’s going to give wailers that strong hit…”
As Nigerians have been gnashing their teeth since the beginning of 2015, so shall it be till the end in 2023. Nothing will stop the plunge. Buhari is on an eight-year vacation.
Displaying his nonchalance to public outcry for the umpteenth time, Buhari, on March 30, 2021, embarked upon a two-week medical check-up in London, despite the nationwide strike by medical doctors in public hospitals back home.
Without a word on the plight of millions of sick Nigerians condemned to attend public hospitals nationwide, the President hopped on a plane and zoomed off to England, probably with two toothpicks in his mouth after a meal of two and isi ewu.
Defending Buhari’s shameless medical trips, the most meritless of Buhari’s media aides, Lauretta Onochie, tweeted on April 7, 2021, “NEXT YEAR. PRES. @MBuhari WILL GO FOR A ROUTINE CHECKUP.
1. We have been here since 2016. It’s been the same wailing. So the response will also be the same. At least, once a year, People across the world see their personal Doctors especially one they have seen for about 40 years.’
It’s not hard to distinguish the noise of an empty barrel. So, Buhari, Onochie, and the wastrels that make up the Presidency see nothing wrong in wasting Nigeria’s hard currency abroad in the last 40 years?
That Buhari cannot give Nigeria just one hospital he can attend, despite ruling Nigeria for eight years now, summarises his failure as a leader. It’s scandalous that Buhari didn’t feel ashamed about going to England still – for treatment – when he’s in an opportune position, in the last six-year, to turn around Nigeria’s health sector.
The latest trip makes it Buhari’s 12th time to run off to London for medical treatment, despite his country having 72,000 registered medical doctors with over 50,000 of them, shamefully, out of the shores of the country due to lack of facilities and adequate welfare packages.
Buhari’s insensitivity doesn’t stop at the medical sector alone, where nurses, physiotherapists, health technologists, etc are leaving the country in droves, the lethargy of his regime permeates every fabric of our national life, and holds the country down to slow death.
Even his wife, Aisha, left her matrimonial home and took off to Dubai for six long months. It’s unheard of anywhere in the world that the wife of the president of a country, which isn’t at war, would go on vacation abroad for six months! Or, could it be that oga madam went on antenatal vacation ni?
Henceforth, I’ll be on the lookout for a bulge in the mid-region of the beautiful Aisha. If Aisha gets pregnant peren? Eeeehhh!! Nigerians will put Buhari to the sword online. I bet you, trolls against the Buhari family will burn down the internet!
But seriously speaking, President Buhari won’t touch the dog. I’m sure he won’t touch the pig, either, because he’s a very pious Muslim. However, Buhari is the chichidodo, a bird that passionately hates feces but loves to eat the maggots in feces.
Buhari hates corruption, but corruption has been the signpost of his administration with millions of dollars yearly disappearing into non-working refineries and his former EFCC chair, Ibrahim Magu, enmeshed in financial scandals.
Buhari promised to stop medical tourism when campaigning to be President, but he and his family have made England, France, Germany, Canada, Dubai, and the US their second homes.
Buhari promised to revamp the education sector, but his children never graduated from a Nigerian university.
Buhari, in 1983, promised to build infrastructure when he seized power in a military coup, but he canceled the lofty Lagos metro line project initiated by the late Lateef Jakande administration, throwing the traffic of the lagoon city into eternal chaos. He came back in March 2019 to inaugurate a bus stop in Lagos, though. Chai!
The alarming picture just keeps flashing in my head: Nigerian President on the bed of a random London hospital in an age when microchips can be implanted to monitor and control patients. Unmh!
Buhari rests peacefully in London while peace has fled his own country, Nigeria. Terrible.
Facebook: @tunde odesola
Twitter: @tunde_odesola

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Meet the Newly Appointed Sole Administrator of Rivers State, Retired Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas

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Meet the Newly Appointed Sole Administrator of Rivers State, Retired Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas By George Omagbemi Sylvester

Meet the Newly Appointed Sole Administrator of Rivers State, Retired Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas

By George Omagbemi Sylvester

 

In a significant development for Rivers State, Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas (retired), a decorated former Chief of the Naval Staff, has been appointed as the Sole Administrator of the state. With an illustrious career spanning over four decades in the Nigerian Navy and a wealth of experience in leadership, administration, and strategic governance, Vice Admiral Ibas is poised to bring his expertise to bear in steering the affairs of Rivers State.

Born on 27 September 1960 in Nko, Cross River State, Vice Admiral Ibas began his educational journey at Nko Primary School and later attended the prestigious Hope Waddell Training Institute in Calabar. His academic pursuits took him to the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA), where he was commissioned as a Sub-Lieutenant in 1983, marking the beginning of a distinguished military career.

Throughout his service in the Nigerian Navy, Vice Admiral Ibas attended numerous military courses both locally and internationally. These included the Sub-Lieutenant Technical Course in India, Primary Pilot Training in Kaduna, and specialized training in Amphibious Warfare at the United States Marine Corps University. He also holds a Master’s Degree in Defence and Strategic Studies from Quaid-I-Azam University in Islamabad, Pakistan, underscoring his commitment to continuous learning and professional development.

Meet the Newly Appointed Sole Administrator of Rivers State, Retired Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas
By George Omagbemi Sylvester

Vice Admiral Ibas has held several key appointments in the Nigerian Navy, including Commanding Officer of the Nigerian Navy Underwater Warfare School, Director of Maritime Warfare at the Armed Forces Command and Staff College, and Chief of the Naval Staff from 2015 to 2021. His tenure as the 20th indigenous Chief of the Naval Staff was marked by significant reforms and modernization of the Nigerian Navy. After retiring from active service, he served as Nigeria’s High Commissioner to the Republic of Ghana from 2021 to 2023, further solidifying his diplomatic and administrative credentials.

A recipient of numerous awards and decorations, including the Distinguished Service Star and the Admiralty Medal, Vice Admiral Ibas is widely respected for his dedication to service and excellence. His professional affiliations include membership in the Nigerian Institute of International Affairs (NIIA), the Nigerian Institute of Management (NIM), and the US Naval Institute, among others.

Beyond his professional achievements, Vice Admiral Ibas is a family man, happily married to Mrs. Theresa Ibas, with whom he shares children. He is also an avid reader, documentary enthusiast, and golf player, reflecting a well-rounded personality.

As the newly appointed Sole Administrator of Rivers State, Vice Admiral Ibas brings a wealth of experience, discipline, and strategic vision to the role. His appointment is expected to usher in a new era of effective governance, stability, and development for the state. Residents of Rivers State and stakeholders across the nation are optimistic that his leadership will address critical challenges and drive progress in the region.

With his proven track record in leadership and administration, Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas is well-positioned to navigate the complexities of governance in Rivers State and deliver on the expectations of the people. His appointment marks a new chapter in the state’s journey toward peace, prosperity, and sustainable development.

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From Naval Command to Political Helm: The Strategic Appointment of Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas as Sole Administrator of Rivers State

In a momentous turn of events, the Federal Government of Nigeria has appointed Retired Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas as the Sole Administrator of Rivers State. This decision, made amidst deepening political turmoil and administrative stagnation in the state, is more than a routine bureaucratic reshuffle—it is a calculated, strategic deployment of discipline, integrity, and experience into a system yearning for visionary leadership.

Vice Admiral Ibas, a seasoned and decorated officer of the Nigerian Navy, brings to the office over four decades of military excellence, administrative acumen, and diplomatic experience. His trajectory from the hallowed halls of the Nigerian Defence Academy to the apex of naval leadership, and later to diplomacy as Nigeria’s High Commissioner to Ghana, reads like a blueprint of what transformational leadership should entail.

A Lifelong Journey of Service and Excellence

Born on 27 September 1960 in Nko, Cross River State, Ibas represents the very quintessence of the disciplined Nigerian elite class. His early education at Nko Primary School and Hope Waddell Training Institute laid the foundational values of hard work and resilience. His commissioning as a Sub-Lieutenant in 1983 marked the beginning of an extraordinary journey through the ranks of the Nigerian Navy.

The Admiral’s intellectual arsenal is as formidable as his professional résumé. Armed with a Master’s Degree in Defence and Strategic Studies from Quaid-I-Azam University in Islamabad, Pakistan, Ibas also underwent rigorous military training in India, the United States, and Nigeria. From amphibious warfare to naval command strategy, he is a product of global military best practices.

His leadership as the 20th indigenous Chief of the Naval Staff from 2015 to 2021 ushered in a wave of modernization in the Nigerian Navy. Under his command, the navy enhanced its blue-water capabilities, improved coastal security infrastructure, and engaged in sustained anti-piracy operations that significantly reduced maritime crime in the Gulf of Guinea.

“A Leader is a Dealer in Hope” – Napoleon Bonaparte

The appointment of Ibas to steer the affairs of Rivers State comes at a time when the state’s political machinery is in dire need of recalibration. Mistrust among stakeholders, factional disputes within political parties, and a mounting sense of disillusionment among the populace have rendered Rivers one of the most politically volatile regions in the country.

As Napoleon Bonaparte aptly stated, “A leader is a dealer in hope.” In Ibas, Rivers State has not just a seasoned administrator, but a harbinger of restored faith in governance. His military background guarantees structure, discipline, and zero tolerance for mediocrity—qualities painfully absent in recent state administrations.

Strategic Governance and National Security

Rivers State is not just any region—it is the economic jugular vein of Nigeria, home to the largest crude oil and gas reserves and host to key multinational corporations. Mismanagement in such a state does not just affect its citizens—it reverberates across the nation. The implications for national security, economic stability, and foreign investment are far-reaching.

According to renowned economist Prof. Pat Utomi, “Nigeria’s underdevelopment is not a function of lack of resources, but of a crisis of leadership.” The appointment of Vice Admiral Ibas signals a deliberate effort to correct this systemic dysfunction by inserting competence where confusion has reigned.

Discipline Meets Diplomacy

Beyond the battlefield, Ibas has proved his mettle in diplomacy. His tenure as High Commissioner to Ghana from 2021 to 2023 was marked by strengthened bilateral relations, increased trade dialogue, and deft handling of diplomatic tensions between both nations. Such experience is invaluable in a complex state like Rivers, where tribal politics, oil revenue disputes, and youth restiveness intertwine dangerously.

As former UN Secretary-General Kofi Annan once observed, “Good governance is perhaps the single most important factor in eradicating poverty and promoting development.” Ibas is not stepping into office as a politician scrambling for power, but as a strategist focused on delivering results and fostering peace.

A New Era for Rivers State

For years, Rivers has been caught in a cycle of political godfatherism, resource mismanagement, and underdevelopment. Infrastructure decay, unemployment, environmental degradation from oil exploration, and insecurity have become daily realities. The intervention of a respected, non-partisan, and capable administrator offers a real chance to break this vicious cycle.

In the words of American political scientist Francis Fukuyama, “What underpins institutions is not just formal rules, but trust, social norms, and leadership.” The Admiral’s sterling record fosters trust. His discipline shapes social norms. His leadership is untainted by the corrupt patronage systems that plague many civilian administrations.

Public Expectations and the Road Ahead

The expectations are undeniably high. From civil servants demanding efficient administrative processes to youth clamoring for jobs and entrepreneurs hoping for a friendlier business environment, all eyes are now on the new administrator.

There is optimism that he will prioritize infrastructure renewal, reform public procurement processes, combat oil theft, and champion environmental sustainability. Ibas’s known affinity for structure and strategic thinking suggests he will approach governance as a well-planned mission—defined goals, tactical operations, and measurable outcomes.

As Peter Drucker, the father of modern management, famously said, “Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.” Vice Admiral Ibas is expected to do both.

Echoes of National Implication

While the appointment is specifically for Rivers, the broader national significance cannot be overlooked. In a country where appointments are often made on the basis of patronage, ethnicity, or political alignment, this one bucks the trend. It sends a powerful message: merit and experience still matter.

This move may well set a precedent for future engagements, particularly in crisis-prone regions. If successful, it could ignite a renewed conversation on how non-political technocrats, retired military officers, and seasoned administrators can contribute to nation-building beyond the barracks or diplomatic missions.

Conclusion: A Return to Values-Based Leadership

Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas is not just assuming office; he is assuming responsibility for the hopes of millions in Rivers State. He is stepping into history at a time when leadership is often equated with loud rhetoric rather than quiet competence. His calm demeanor, razor-sharp intellect, and unwavering commitment to excellence mark him as a different kind of leader.

As South African anti-apartheid icon Nelson Mandela once said, “It is better to lead from behind and put others in front… especially when you celebrate victory when nice things occur. You take the front line when there is danger.” The people of Rivers State need such a servant-leader—firm yet fair, silent yet strategic, humble yet highly effective.

If Vice Admiral Ibas delivers—as many believe he will—then Rivers State may not only emerge from its current political turbulence but may also set the standard for governance in Nigeria’s fragile federal structure.

The ship has been handed over. The sails are up. All that remains is for the Admiral to navigate the turbulent waters of political expectation, economic uncertainty, and social fragmentation—and steer Rivers State into a harbor of peace, prosperity, and progress.

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Nollywood’s Wumi Toriola Sparks Drama

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I Want More Babies with My Ex—Not Marriage!” — Wumi Toriola Shocks Fans with Bold Confession

LAGOS, NIGERIA – In a revelation that has left fans stunned and the internet buzzing, popular Nollywood actress Wumi Toriola has openly declared that she has no interest in getting married again — but still wants to have more children with her ex-husband.

The outspoken actress, known for her fiery roles on screen and blunt takes off-screen, made the confession in a recent interview that has gone viral across social media.

“I’m not interested in getting married now, but I want to have more babies with my ex-husband,” she said without hesitation.

Toriola, whose marriage ended in 2023, explained that despite their separation, she and her ex-husband maintain a solid co-parenting relationship — and even share mutual respect when it comes to parenting.

“My ex-husband told me that I may not be a good wife to him if we come back together,” she revealed.
“But he also told me that I’m a good mother to our children.”

Nollywood’s Wumi Toriola Sparks Drama

A Marriage Built on Conflict

In a tell-all moment last year, the actress disclosed that the marriage broke down due to constant emotional clashes, with her ex allegedly throwing past mistakes in her face during arguments — a pattern she said became too toxic to continue.

Yet, in a twist that has captured public attention, Toriola seems to be embracing a non-traditional family dynamic, openly stating her desire for more children with a man she no longer sees herself marrying.

 “More Babies, No Ring”

Her candid take has ignited hot debates across social media, with fans divided — some praising her honesty and progressive mindset, others questioning the complications such an arrangement might bring.

While her ex-husband is reportedly not remarried, Toriola admitted she doesn’t know if he is in a new relationship, but emphasized that their current parenting arrangement is working just fine.

Social Media Reactions

Reactions have been pouring in:

“This woman is just being real. Marriage isn’t for everyone.” — @RealtalkNaija
“More babies with your ex? Sounds like a soap opera plot.” — @AmakaUnfiltered
“Respect to her for owning her truth, but I hope the kids are okay in all this.” — @ParentingNg

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“I Am Severely Damaged” — Kemi Olunloyo Breaks Silence on Childhood Trauma’

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“I Am Severely Damaged” — Kemi Olunloyo Breaks Silence on Childhood Trauma, Family Rejection, and Her Father’s ‘Bondage’

“I Am Severely Damaged” — Kemi Olunloyo Breaks Silence on Childhood Trauma, Family Rejection, and Her Father’s ‘Bondage’

LAGOS, NIGERIA — Controversial media personality and self-styled investigative journalist Kemi Olunloyo has once again sent shockwaves across the country with a raw, deeply personal revelation about her lifelong trauma, fractured family ties, and her decision to walk away from journalism for good.

In a post that has since gone viral on social media, the 59-year-old daughter of the late former governor of Oyo State, Victor Omololu Olunloyo, opened up about her harrowing past, including surviving a sexual assault at age 13, her strained relationship with her father, and why she never married.

“I am especially severely damaged from the se@ual attack trauma of Ikorodu Rd as it’s April 28th (1978) again,” she wrote.
“It is one of the reasons I never married and just had children.”

The journalist claimed she had been robbed of affection and the will to trust or love a man ever since the abuse, adding that the experience permanently changed the course of her emotional and personal life.

Olunloyo, known for her controversial takes and online rants, stated that she currently lives alone in a one-room apartment, having relocated multiple times in the past two years. But now, she says, she is “finally at peace.”

 “My Father Put a Charm on My Career”

Perhaps the most explosive part of her confession was her accusation against her late father, whom she claims spiritually sabotaged her career in journalism.

“I begged through fundraising and donations to work for so long because my own father clamped a charm bondage on my career,” she alleged.
“He never liked me being a journalist. He never wanted my education to supersede his.”

Olunloyo also denounced the media industry in Nigeria, stating that many outlets branded her “mad” and refused to support her work for over a decade. As a result, she declared her permanent retirement from journalism, a profession in which she had been both celebrated and condemned.

“I cannot return to journalism as I’ve retired twice and have no interest anymore,” she said.

 A Wave of Support Amid the Pain

Despite the dark tone of her message, Olunloyo acknowledged an overwhelming outpouring of support from Nigerians who have reached out, offering gifts and prayers.

“God will lift me. I appreciate all your gifts. Continue to pray for me.”

Her message has sparked a nationwide conversation on mental health, sexual violence, childhood trauma, and the often-taboo topic of dysfunctional family dynamics among Nigeria’s elite.

As Nigerians reflect on her confessions—raw, unapologetic, and deeply personal—many are asking tough questions about how society supports survivors, especially when their voices come wrapped in controversy.

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