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I began community college about five several months ago, and that’s when I met he. We really struck it off (no less than I imagined very). We fell quite difficult. By the time finals had folded about, I experienced obtained in the courage to inquire about him away. The guy responded definitely and informed me to content him so we could set one thing up. Today he performed warn me that he could be active, but I assumed it intended he had work. I waited a couple of days before texting him to see if we could satisfy for lunch. I have yet to listen right back (3 days later).

Is the guy blowing me personally down? Or is the guy truly THAT active?

-Audra (Arizona)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Answer:

Audra: Oh, darling Audra. Once I browse email messages like your own website, If only i really could bottle upwards my personal grown-woman wisdom and hand it out to each and every girl I fulfill.

This reminds me personally of a story from my very early 20s.

It had been New-year’s Eve. I was with a girlfriend along with her family members. Your house party was filled with her Caribbean aunties, nieces and nephews, and also traditional Grandma plunked by xmas forest with a rum and eggnog inside her hand.

I didn’t appreciate the warmth of these interactions because I was pining out, waiting for the arrival of men I had dropped for.

He was in a Fl airport looking to get to me in Canada. The guy labeled as every hour or so with apologies and detailed tales of crowed airports and missed planes.

Every time we informed him we comprehended, we exchanged terms of love, and that I carried on to attend.

At long last, whilst neared midnight, a smart croak erupted through the xmas tree. My pal’s grandma had been watching and listening.

Her voice rang like an island witch-doctor who’d just investigated a crystal basketball, “youngsters, dat mon don’t leave his residence. Call. You’ll see.”

Exactly what could this old girl actually know about twenty-first century matchmaking, I was thinking? But we humored her through getting my good friend’s buddy to contact and ask for him.

And certainly, a woman answered. Apparently he’d a wife. And she told my pal, “only one minute, he’s out by the share on their cell phone.” Crowded airport, my butt.

I am suggesting this story which means you can pay attention to my words to save lots of you heartache.

1. Ladies should hold off, flirt and invite a guy to inquire about all of them on. They need ton’t function as pursuer at the beginning.

2. When he told you to content him, he had been stating, “I’m becoming courteous to you but getting away from this social scenario with a smile because I am a coward.”

3. As he said “I’m truly active” that designed “i am contemplating different women, maybe not you.”

4. Ladies should never content a person for a night out together. Actually Ever.

5. He’s blowing you down. No man is actually active for a potential intimate chance.

I know. We hated those instructions, too. These were a real bitch to learn. But absolutely nothing in comparison to my discomfort and embarrassment thereon New Year’s Eve.

It is a novice mistake, gf. The following year, you’ll be a sophomore might share it with all the freshmen girls.

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Panic as Late Singer’s Mother Cries Out Over Alleged Kidnap of Son After Court Appearance

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Panic as Late Singer’s Mother Cries Out Over Alleged Kidnap of Son After Court Appearance

Panic as Late Singer’s Mother Cries Out Over Alleged Kidnap of Son After Court Appearance

Lagos was thrown into panic on Wednesday after the mother of the late singer, Abosede Aloba, raised an alarm over the alleged abduction of her son, Adura, by unknown gunmen. The incident, which took place outside the Magistrates’ Court in Ogba, has sparked outrage and concerns over the safety of individuals involved in legal disputes.

According to eyewitnesses, Adura was forcefully taken away by unidentified armed men immediately after leaving the court premises. Speculation is rife that the abductors may be law enforcement officers acting under undisclosed directives.

Reports indicate that Adura was at the court over a dispute with Damola Ayinde regarding the sale of a mobile phone. The legal battle, however, escalated into a broader case involving actor Yomi Fabiyi, Damola Ayinde, and other parties.

Mother’s Cry for Help

Following Adura’s sudden disappearance, his distressed mother, Abosede Aloba, was seen in a car weeping and calling for assistance. In an emotional outburst captured on video, she accused actor Yomi Fabiyi and another individual, Sam Jojo, of orchestrating the abduction.

“Please help me, people of God! It’s Yomi Fabiyi. They’ve taken my son, and I don’t know where they’re taking him,” she lamented.

Abosede further alleged that Adura was not in good health at the time of his abduction, raising fears about his well-being and safety.

Public Outcry and Calls for Investigation

The alleged abduction has ignited public outrage, with concerned citizens and human rights activists calling on the Lagos State Police Command to immediately investigate the incident and ensure Adura’s safe return.

So far, neither the police nor the accused individuals have issued official statements regarding the allegations. However, the growing tension surrounding the case has intensified calls for justice and transparency.

As of press time, efforts to reach Adura’s family for further updates have been unsuccessful. The situation remains fluid, with many awaiting clarification on the circumstances surrounding his disappearance.

 

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NNPC Clarifies Naira Crude Contract with Dangote Refinery

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NNPC Clarifies Naira Crude Contract with Dangote Refinery

 

NNPC Limited has addressed recent reports circulating on social media regarding the alleged unilateral termination of its crude oil sales agreement with Dangote Refinery.

In a statement by Olufemi Soneye, Chief Corporate Communications Officer, NNPC clarified that the contract for the sale of crude oil in Naira was structured as a six-month agreement, subject to availability, and is set to expire at the end of March 2025. Discussions are currently ongoing to establish a new contract.

Since October 2024, NNPC has supplied over 48 million barrels of crude oil to Dangote Refinery under this arrangement. In total, more than 84 million barrels have been made available to the refinery since it commenced operations in 2023.

NNPC Limited reaffirmed its commitment to supporting local refining by supplying crude oil under mutually agreed terms and conditions, ensuring stability in Nigeria’s energy sector.

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I Have An Idea For Govt, Families For February 14 -Ajadi

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I Have An Idea For Govt, Families For February 14
-Ajadi

It is February 14, and Nigerian politician, entrepreneur and humanist, Ambassador Olufemi Ajadi Oguntoyinbo says he has an idea for governments, organisations and couples that would revolutionise society’s cohesion.
He in fact, has thrown a challenge to these quarters, concerning this year’s St Valentin’s Day, how they should celebrate it differently and more impactfully.

 

I Have An Idea For Govt, Families For February 14
-Ajadi

According to him, it should go beyond mere commemorations to heart-felt interventions and legacy projects that improve the wellbeing of people in the society

The entrepreneur-politician said, there could be no better way to join in an event that is synonymous with love, than sinking or implementing projects or programmes that truly touch the lives of the people, changing it for the better.

Sincere affection for the people, he said, should be enough motivation for others holding responsible positions in government, to go beyond tokenism this time but really provide for their people, life-transforming projects and policies.

Even for those who may not have material things to give, Ambassador Ajadi is of the opinion that the season of St Valentine, should motive them to love and care genuinely, shun greed, selfishness, wickedness, materialism bitterness, hate, murder, and the other vices which tend to characterise the society.

It is excellent to see individual lovers sharing cards and gifts at Valentine Day, but how about seeing projects tied to uplifting the people and improving their lifestyles being commissioned and handed over this season as a token of love”, he asked.

Commending organisations and individuals who usually reach out to the underprivileged during St Valentine Day every February 14, Ambassador Ajadi urged them not to relent, as they were fulfilling a great role in society for which they would be rewarded at due time.

“You will agree with me that, if we can imbibe this style of celebration, it will help us to achieve a lot improving the lives of our people, and making the society generally safer.

“It is something that any representative who truly loves his constituency should think about, execute a life impactful project, borne out of genuine love for your constituency that you can deliver during the season of February 14”.

Bemoaning the increasing hardship in the country, he urged Nigerians not to allow them to stop being one another’s keeper.

Ajadi who recently celebrated his marriage anniversary also challenged couples to use Valentina day celebration to renew their relationship.

According to him, families have a lot of roles to play in society even as healthy families will translate to healthy societies and vice versa.

“My admonition to couples is to use this February 14 Valentine’s Day to profess their love afresh to their partners.

“They should remember that they owe each other genuine affection and love, which will also show on their children.

“Let the love professed by St. Valentine on February 14 be seen in their actions towards one another.

“Let couples be there for each come rain, come shine and our society will be better again “.

Bemoaning the rampant cases of ritual killing, kidnapping and murders, he described them also as symptoms of a lack of genuine love in the society

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