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IWD 2020: NGO takes free medical care to women in Ketu Community, Harps on Adequate Information as key to good health

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By Ifeoma Ikem

Womanhood with Olori Ajayi foundation, a non-governmental organisation (NGO), has taken free medical care to Ketu community for the benefit of traders and other Lagosians who ordinarily find it difficult to access routine medical tests because of time and financial constraints.

The programme is to commemorate the World International Women Day, at Congregation Refined Power Ministry, (IJO ATUNBI) Palace Chapel Ketu for Free Health Care Outreach’, which took place on Sunday, where members of the community, traders and people from all walks of life, in their numbers can avail themselves of free medical check-ups and drugs provided by health worker.

Olori Ranti Ajayi, president and founder said “it is all about International Women’s Day, we decided to carry medical outreach to Ketu community.This is the second of this medical program because as a woman we need to carry medical check-ups to assist our women.

“Many of our women in the community do not have checkups or know their health conditions and this may be because of lack of funds, or non access to medical facilities within their reach.

According to her, one of the major problem most of them face is due to inadequate information on health conditions or health talk show on health issues and how to take proper care of our body and to know how to seek help when the need arises. “I believe when we have adequate information everything will be all right.

She stressed that money is another factor that make most women not to go for medical check-ups, this is the point where government will come up with sure programs with NGOs for free medical check-ups in our health centre and also make it accessible for everyone.”I suggest that more awareness should be created so that people will be going for regular medical check-ups to know about they health condition.”

Olori – the foundation was all about marriage counseling, through the counseling we discover that many women have health challenges without knowing about it, and ‘Health is Wealth. We incorporated this to all about women needs, we have to carry out empowerment programs all hands should be on deck so that everyone we have a better living.

Osanaiye Adepeju, a fertility nurse, NORDICA Fertility Centre, member of Womanhood with Olori Ajayi foundation said “we as individual can not compare when we are being sick or being well, when someone is in good condition you think of working, doing business as far as carrying our daily activities, but when there is health challenges the person will feel bad.

Adepeju, charged everyone to always go for medical check-ups, they should not think about the results because ignorant is a major problem why most people do not know that they have health issues but before help will come the health problem is worsen.

She pointed out why government should provide adequate health facilities in rural areas to access health and also create awareness is essential, education is the key everyone need to have medical check-ups.

Another problem is religion which deny many access to health, sometimes it’s not ‘my portion mentality’ is why many do not care to check themselves. For example if any sickness is detected early like Cancer the better for treatment immediately.

A 53 years trader, Mrs. Elizabeth Adesuyi, said when the information was passed in the church I was like which one is medical check-up, for me I am like noting is wrong with me until today that I had the check I know my health status, I give God the glory for such program. I am able to know my sugar level and blood pressure.

Mrs. Obanlanre Dabiri, a foundation member said that health is wealth and that was the reason she would want to appeal to the government to step up its medical interventions for Nigerians since a good number of people were really in need of the services but challenged by finance.

She appealed to government to sensitize the people on the importance of maintaining a healthy lifestyle, get involved in regular exercise. She maintained that the government should also provide initiatives for further health awareness.

The chief host Evang, Dr, Olori Deborah Modupe Iyunade Balogun of Ketu land urged Nigerians to endeavour to undertake routine medical checks even as she noted its importance of quality healthcare to the society.
Speaking further, our women do not have time to themselves, they are the one who carry house chores, they need to have medical check-ups regurly.

Also career and business women should play their role as a mother, create time to take care of the home, to mentor and monitor their wards, do not neglect your duty as a mother.

And those that are experiencing domestic violence check yourself, your attitude, behaviour and lifestyle and amend your ways bring down your ego, respect your husband Jesus never support divorce, it is written at Matthew 19. Women need to pray and build their homes.

She advised NGOs to disperse the donation given to them and remember the pledge that the donation is for the society.

Another beneficiary, Mrs.Oyebaniyi Abibola, a 77 years old widow who was having accommodation problem. I appreciate the kind gesture of the foundation for removing shame and reproach in my life when the issue of accommodation came up I didn’t know what to do, God have use Olori Ajayi to make a way where there was no way.

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Doctor Warns On The Danger Of Excessive Masturbation

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Doctor Warns On The Danger Of Excessive Masturbation

 

 

A British doctor has warned that excessive masturbation is behind the rise of male health problems.

In moderation, self-pleasure helps to reduce stress, and improve sleep quality and mood, but it can become ‘an unhealthy habit’ and trigger a form of erectile dysfunction, says Dr Donald Grant, GP and senior clinical advisor at The Independent Pharmacy.

Doctor Warns On The Danger Of Excessive Masturbation

‘Overall, there’s no strict rule or guideline on how much people should masturbate.’

‘But when masturbation gets out of hand, there’s a variety of ways it can impact sexual and physical health.’

A key concern is the rise of porn use: half of adults in the UK now access graphic material online, according to a recent survey by media watchdog Ofcom, and Dr Grant links this to the rise in porn-induced erectile dysfunction, or PIED.

 

Up to 50 percent of adult men suffer from some degree of erectile dysfunction, according to the British Association of Urological Surgeons. It is often associated with obesity, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and diabetes but can also have no obvious cause. One lesser-known culprit could be PIED, claims Dr Grant.

‘PIED is a type of erectile dysfunction that stems from an unhealthy consumption of pornography.

‘This unhealthy porn usage can lead to desensitisation, making it more difficult for men to achieve and maintain an erection — as they’re used to more intense sexual activity seen on screen.

‘It can lead to reduced interest in sex with actual partners as men prioritise porn and masturbation instead.’

More worryingly, Dr Grant warns that compulsive masturbation could trigger physical changes that affect intimacy.

‘Compulsive masturbation can lead to reduced sensitivity in the genital area, making it more difficult to achieve sexual pleasure or stimulation.

‘It can occur when nerve endings become damaged from too much activity, creating a loss of sensitivity.

‘This can also impact individuals who masturbate too roughly, causing potential friction damage.

 

‘Thankfully, this is a short-term issue and factors such as taking breaks or utilising lubricants can help restore sensitivity.

‘And thankfully, there are a range of treatments available to men who are struggling with ED, helping them manage a healthy sex life and achieve erections with ease.’

Dr Grant added that ‘over-masturbating’ can be damaging in other ways.

It can cause men and women to become ‘hyper-focused on their own pleasure, meaning when the time comes for sexual intercourse with a partner, individuals could experience performance anxiety, which directly impacts sex drive.’

The question of how much is too much is subjective, he admitted.
‘Masturbation habits can differ largely from person to person with some people doing it daily, weekly or not at all.

‘It’s important to monitor the sexual activity to ensure it doesn’t interfere with social lives, work or relationships.

‘Additionally, discomfort or injury is usually a telltale sign that the masturbation sessions are becoming too much and harming health.

‘It’s important to maintain a healthy but sensible sex life through masturbation, ensuring it’s not at the expense of daily activities.

‘Some people can even experience mental distress due to guilt or shame relating to their masturbation — this can stem from porn usage or other factors, but can have a big effect on people’s mental well-being.

‘Overall, common sense is required to ensure it remains a recreational activity without interfering with other aspects of daily life.’

 

 

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Nigerian women embrace sex toys As Replacements 

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Nigerian women embrace sex toys As Replacements

 

Despite Nigeria’s deeply conservative and religious fabric, where sex is often a hushed topic, the sex toy industry is booming — and dildos are flying off the shelves, reflecting a surprising surge in this unconventional market as more citizens boldly embrace erotic pleasures amid economic hardships, Victor Ayeni reports

Most days of the week, Niniola (surname withheld) is as busy as a bee, catering to the diverse clientele who frequent her adult entertainment store.

Her well-lit store features a spa parlour alongside a wide array of intimate products and sex toys, including lingerie, sexual enhancers, lubricants, vibrators, dildos, and BDSM kits.

The microbiology graduate from a state university in the South-West, ventured into the sex toy business in 2020, a year after completing her National Youth Service Corps.

The 28-year-old believes her store’s location on an estate in the Ogudu axis has been a core selling point for her pleasure-enhancing business as most of her clients preferred a high degree of anonymity.

Niniola admitted that she sells more of her products via social media platforms and messaging apps to meet the demand for professional discretion.

“My customers don’t have to come down here physically, this business has evolved beyond that,” she told Saturday PUNCH.

 

 

 

“They can contact us, tell us which of their products they want, we give them a catalogue to make their choices and they pay for the services including delivery and we get it across to them.

“From time to time, I get nice feedback. Some of those who patronise us are married, some are single, some divorced, some have spouses outside the country, some of our clients are women and some are men. Their maximum pleasure is our goal,” she said, smiling brightly.

On her X and Instagram accounts, Niniola regularly showcases a variety of sex toys available in her store.

She also includes her WhatsApp number, encouraging potential clients to reach out to her through private messages.

In a recent post, she announced the arrival of new dildos, assuring women that they would provide “long-lasting pleasure.”

When our correspondent inquired from her about the patronage of dildos and whether the economic situation has affected its demand, she giggled.

“I started this business in the middle of COVID-19 and I can tell you that we made a lot of sales during that period. You know, the lockdown and social distancing affected many relationships. Many lovers were stranded and people sought sexual fulfilment from our adult novelty products.

“Even now, I can’t say the economy has affected our business because we still make good sales. We even receive orders from outside Lagos. No matter the economic situation, people will always have enough to attain sexual satisfaction because it’s important,” Niniola added.

‘I’m helping my husband’s weakness’

When Mrs Bunmi Awoyemi (not real name) was first introduced to sex toys a few years ago, she felt a tinge of shame, reflecting the influence of her strict religious upbringing.

The mother of two explained that she arranged for the delivery to a location slightly away from her home, ensuring that no one in the neighbourhood would recognise her or guess the contents of the package she was picking up.

“My husband was the kind of man who downloaded even before the play began. Within a minute or two, it was over. He is a lovely man and a good husband but that’s just our only problem.

“I wasn’t satisfied and rather than cheat on my husband, I decided it was time to try out sex toys. I ordered a vibrator and a dildo and so far, I can say they have made up for my husband’s weakness,” Awoyemi told Saturday PUNCH.

Like Mrs Awoyemi, Saturday PUNCH gathered that many married women and ladies in relationships use sex toys such as dildos to satisfy themselves.

 

 

Single ladies who have been jilted by men or have not yet found a man to warm their beds also use artificial penises to pleasure themselves.

“It’s safer to use dildos than to sleep around and get infected with venereal diseases. I would rather pleasure myself with dildos than allow men to lie to me, cheat on me, and break my heart like they like to do,” a hairstylist who gave her name as Cynthia, told Saturday PUNCH.

Dildo varieties

Dildos are adult sex aids that are often used to attain sexual climax for women and also for men.

“While they are sometimes meant to feel like a penis, they don’t have to look like one. They come in different materials, shapes, and sizes. Some dildos are curved to stimulate the prostate or G-spot,” according to WebMD.

Findings by Saturday PUNCH revealed that there are different kinds of dildos based on their structure or designs.

Some dildos are made to look like a penis with testicles while some are made to be strapped on with a harness.

 

 

Some dildos are made with a suction base to adhere to a surface, others vibrate to stimulate the user while some, known as double-sided dildos, are designed for two partners to use at once.

The materials with which these dildos are made also vary. There are glass, silicon, rubber, plastic and wooden dildos, some of which are also sold by traditional herb vendors.

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160,000 kids living with HIV in Nigeria

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160,000 kids living with HIV in Nigeria

 

 

The Christian Council of Nigeria, CCN, has raised the alarm over the high rate of children living with the Human Immunodeficiency Virus, HIV, in Nigeria, saying of an estimated 160,000 children living with HIV in Nigeria, only 45,000 are receiving treatment.

 

CCN urged the government and other stakeholders to intensify efforts to combat the spread of HIV/AIDS among children in the country.

The council made the call weekend at the close-out ceremony of the HIV intervention programme implemented in collaboration with the World Council of Churches, WCC, in Abuja.

The CCN President, Most Rev. David Onuoha, represented by Archbishop Peter ogunmuyiwa, decried the high number of children living with HIV in Nigeria, stressing the need for urgent action to address the situation.

He said, “Our mission is to identify with the needy and less privileged, and to make a positive impact on their lives. Our efforts have been enriching and impactful. We are committed to combating the HIV epidemic in our society, and we urge all relevant NGOs and government agencies to join us in this crusade.

“While we have made some progress in preventing the transmission of HIV from mother to child, we still have much work to do. According to statistics, Nigeria has a high number of children who are HIV victims – 160,000, with only 45,000 undergoing treatment. This is unacceptable, and we must do more to address this issue.”

The WCC representative, Ms Gracias Ross, reiterated the organization’s commitment to supporting Nigeria in the fight against HIV/AIDS, lamented that “160,000 children are living with HIV, but remember that two million people are living with HIV in Nigeria. They will have partners and children. In what condition will these children be born?

“We must change things. If these children are alone and don’t have a family, the church has to be their family. This is the calling that we should become the father of the fatherless and fight for the widows and fight for justice.

 

“You can imagine how many young people don’t have any positive orientation on sexuality. So the Church should be bringing light to these large numbers of young people in Nigeria who are not having information.”

 

 

Rev. Dr. Evans Onyemara, the General Secretary of the CCN, appreciated the WCC’s support in the fight against HIV/AIDS in Nigeria, highlighting the success stories from the programme’s implementation in several states.

 

 

 

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