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Look Ahead: The Power of Forward Thinking in a Distracted World
Look Ahead: The Power of Forward Thinking in a Distracted World.
Written by George Omagbemi Sylvester
Published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com
In a world dominated by noise, pressure and comparison, one timeless truth stands tall: “Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead, that is where your future lies.” This powerful quote by American author Ann Landers resonates more today than ever before. The overwhelming fixation on the past and obsession with others success stories have shackled many from pursuing their unique paths. The truth is harsh but simple, you can never drive forward while staring at the rearview mirror. The only direction that leads to growth, change and fulfillment is forward.
Yet, many individuals are trapped in the cycle of comparison and regret. They scroll endlessly through social media, comparing filtered lives, curated bodies and doctored achievements with their raw realities. They dwell in the past, nursing wounds or glorifying moments that have faded into irrelevance, but here’s the undeniable truth: “NO AMOUNT OF REGRET CAN CHANGE THE PAST AND NO AMOUNT OF COMPARISON CAN ACCELERATE YOUR DESTINY.”
The Toxicity of Comparison, A Silent Killer of Dreams. Psychological studies have confirmed that comparison is the thief of joy. A study by the University of California found that individuals who frequently compare themselves to others are more likely to suffer from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and chronic dissatisfaction. Social psychologist Dr. Leon Festinger coined the term “SOCIAL COMPARISON THEORY” in 1954, noting that people determine their self-worth based on how they stack up against others. While natural, this comparison has grown cancerous in the age of Instagram, TikTok and LinkedIn.
Dr. Brene Brown, a renowned researcher on vulnerability and shame, notes that: “Stay in your own lane. Comparison kills creativity and joy.” Every individual is on a different journey, yet society teaches us to measure our success by milestones dictated by others: the AGE to MARRY, the AGE to BUILD WEALTH, the AGE to RETIRE. Although LIFE is not a RACE, it is a JOURNEY. You are not BEHIND. You are not LATE. You are RIGHT on TIME for your own UNIQUE DESTINY.
Why the Past Cannot Define the Future. There is no wisdom in mourning missed opportunities or broken paths indefinitely. According to neuroscientist Dr. Joe Dispenza, the brain becomes addicted to emotions from past experiences. This leads to a cycle of emotional replays that trap people in the same story. He argues that true transformation occurs when we “BREAK THE HABIT OF BEING OURSELVES” and create a future rooted in new habits, not old emotions. Dwelling on what could have been or what you should have done is a trap. SUCCESS is not in PERFECTION but in PROGRESSION. The future belongs to those who wake up and say: “Today, I start again.”
Take it from Nelson Mandela, who spent 27 years in prison and still chose to lead his country to freedom with a forward-looking heart: “The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” The Power of Self-Focus and GOAL-SETTING. Instead of peering into others lives or crying over spilled milk, the wisest action is to look INWARD and FORWARD. This is not a call for selfishness but a strategy for alignment. You cannot water your garden if you are busy watching another’s bloom.
Set goals. Write them down. Break them into bits. Execute daily. Harvard Business Review reports that people who write down their goals are 42% more likely to achieve them than those who don’t. Focused individuals are not immune to failure, they simply do not allow distractions to steal their energy. As Stephen R. Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, rightly said: “The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”
The Future is for the Bold. To move forward, you must accept one brutal truth;” You are not entitled to success. You must earn it.” Complaining, comparing and regretting will never put food on your table or peace in your heart. Only discipline, consistency and vision will. Life rewards the DOERS, not the WATCHERS. The observers may trend for a moment, but the builders are the ones who last. Keep your eyes on the prize. Shut out the noise. Build in silence. Renowned business strategist Gary Vaynerchuk warns: “Your success is your responsibility. Stop blaming your parents, your circumstances, your government or your competition. Focus on what you can control.”
Mindset: Your Greatest Weapon. Your mindset shapes your future more than any external factor. Those who keep looking backward become prisoners of memory. Those who look forward become architects of destiny. Your thoughts, beliefs and attitude are your compass. Research from Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck reveals that people with a growth mindset (who believe their abilities can improve) achieve far more than those with a fixed mindset. In her book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, she emphasizes: “Becoming is better than being.” This means you are a work in progress. You are allowed to FAIL, FALL, LEARN, REBUILD, RESTART and REIMAGINE. What you are becoming matters more than what you have been.
From Regret to Responsibility. It is easy to get stuck in the past when you refuse to take responsibility for your future. Blame keeps people stagnant, but personal responsibility is the bridge between failure and redemption. As former U.S. President Barack Obama once said: “The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep, but we as a people will get there… There is nothing false about HOPE.” This hope is not blind optimism; it is faith in effort, resilience and growth. You must believe that your best days are not behind you, they are ahead of you.
What You Must Do Now. Accept your past, but do not live in it. Learn the lessons. Let go of the weight. Set meaningful goals. Don’t just work hard, work with vision. Celebrate your wins, however small. Success is built brick by brick.
Disconnect from toxic comparisons. Mute the noise.
Speak to yourself kindly. Your inner dialogue determines your destiny.
Surround yourself with growth-minded people. If your circle does not push you forward, it is holding you back.
Believe in the process. Rome was not built in a day, but it was built daily.
Parting Shot: The Future Is Yours. If You Look Ahead. You are not what you were. You are not what they said. You are what you decide to become today. The future is not found in your past mistakes or in someone else’s highlight reel. The future is found when you choose to look ahead, rise from the ashes, focus on yourself and chase your goals relentlessly. As the African proverb says, “Don’t look where you fell, look where you slipped.” LEARN. ADJUST. MOVE. You owe no one an explanation for dreaming big, starting late or starting over. Just remember this: “Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead, that is where your future lies.”
Written by George Omagbemi Sylvester
Published by SaharaWeeklyNG.com
Mayor of Brampton Honours IBD Foundation
The City of Brampton has recognised Alhaji Ibrahim Dende Egungbohun for his remarkable contributions to a transformative initiative designed to empower women through essential skill-building for independence and self-reliance. This formal acknowledgment took place on August 15, 2025, in Mayor Patrick Brown’s office during a visit from the Africa Made Economic Growth Initiative (AMEGI) team. Represented by his wife, Mrs. Omolara Egungbohun, Alhaji Dende received the certification amidst an atmosphere of gratitude and celebration. Mayor Brown presented the certificate personally and extended his commendations to the IBD Foundation for their relentless pursuit of women’s empowerment, development, and their philanthropic efforts.
The Certificate of Recognition underscored Egungbohun’s unwavering dedication and tireless efforts to create diverse opportunities for women to enhance their skills, develop their potential, and ultimately prosper in their personal and professional lives. As a philanthropist, esteemed businessman, and influential social figure, his impact in Nigeria and beyond is both profound and far-reaching.
Egungbohun’s generosity and steadfast commitment have significantly bolstered the confidence of program participants, facilitating their ability to envision and construct brighter futures while strengthening community ties. In his acknowledgment, Mayor Brown stated, “Your dedication uplifts those working to inspire others,” highlighting the deep and lasting influence of Egungbohun’s work in empowering women.
This initiative is not just a standalone effort; it harmonizes perfectly with Brampton’s broader mission to advocate for and uplift marginalized groups within the community. Egungbohun’s contributions serve as a vital catalyst for transformative change, offering practical skills that enhance employability while reshaping the economic and social framework for women. Through an assortment of workshops, mentorship programs, and robust support networks, he has fostered an encouraging environment where women can fully explore and realize their potential.
As Brampton steadfastly commits itself to promoting inclusivity and equity, leaders like Egungbohun exemplify how collaboration, vision, and genuine enthusiastic engagement can effectively turn hopes and aspirations into tangible realities. The public acknowledgment from the city not only honors individual efforts but also sends a resounding message, inspiring other community leaders and stakeholders to step up and invest in grassroots empowerment initiatives that uplift and serve those in need. This recognition is a clarion call for collective action toward a more equitable and inclusive society.
Tayo Folorunsho Nominated as Celebrity Special Marshal of the Federal Road Safety Corps
Tayo Folorunsho, renowned youth ambassador and edutainment advocate, has been officially nominated to be decorated as a Celebrity Special Marshal (CSM) of the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC).
The unveiling took place at the recently concluded FRSC Youth Hangout, held in celebration of the United Nations International Youth Day at the National Judicial Institute, Abuja.
Over the years, Tayo Folorunsho has distinguished himself as a passionate youth leader, consistently driving initiatives that inspire and empower young people. His recognition as a Celebrity Special Marshal is not only a mark of honor but also a call to responsibility—championing road safety, responsibility, and positive change within society.
Speaking on the recognition, Tayo Folorunsho emphasized:
“This is more than an honor; it is a responsibility to use my voice and influence to promote safety, responsibility, and positive change on our roads.”
This milestone reinforces his commitment to youth empowerment, social responsibility, and nation-building through edutainment and advocacy.
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FRSC Partners with Edutainment First International to Drive Road Safety Awareness in Nigeria
FRSC Partners with Edutainment First International to Drive Road Safety Awareness in Nigeria
In a country where road accidents claim thousands of lives each year—most of them young people—the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) and Edutainment First International have launched a bold new initiative to change the narrative. On Thursday, August 14, both organizations hosted the maiden Road Safety Youth Hangout at the National Judicial Institute, Abuja.
The event, held to mark United Nations International Youth Day 2025, brought together more than 300 participants, including members of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), students, youth leaders, and community representatives. Unlike traditional road safety campaigns, the hangout was designed as an interactive forum blending education and entertainment, where young Nigerians could learn, innovate, and commit to safer road practices.
According to FRSC data, young people remain the most vulnerable demographic in road traffic crashes across Nigeria—an urgent concern this initiative aims to tackle. Through storytelling, innovation, and collaborative problem-solving, the Road Safety Youth Hangout sought to transform young Nigerians into advocates for safety within their communities.
“This is not just about rules and regulations,” said one of the organizers. “It’s about equipping young people with the tools and the voice to change Nigeria’s road culture.”
Aligned with the UN’s 2025 theme, “Local Youth Actions for the SDGs and Beyond,” the program underscored the critical role of young Nigerians in advancing the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs), particularly those connected to health, safety, and responsible citizenship.
By focusing on empowerment rather than enforcement, FRSC and Edutainment First International signaled a fresh approach to road safety: investing in the next generation as the real drivers of change. The belief is simple yet powerful—an informed and empowered youth population is key to reducing accidents and saving lives.
For many participants, the hangout was more than just an event; it was a wake-up call. With interactive sessions infused with music, drama, and dialogue, young Nigerians were challenged to reflect on their daily habits as road users and to embrace leadership as advocates for safer communities.
As one youth participant reflected:
“Road safety isn’t just the job of the FRSC. It’s our responsibility too—because we are the ones most at risk.”
The maiden edition of the Road Safety Youth Hangout may have ended, but the movement it launched has only just begun. Its message was unmistakable: Nigeria’s fight for safer roads must be youth-led, collaborative, and relentless.
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