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Nigerian Doctor Shares Heartbreaking Story as Marriage Crumbles Months After Relocating to Canada

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Nigerian Doctor Shares Heartbreaking Story as Marriage Crumbles Months After Relocating to Canada

Nigerian Doctor Shares Heartbreaking Story as Marriage Crumbles Months After Relocating to Canada

A Nigerian doctor has publicly shared his heartbreak after his marriage fell apart just months after he and his family relocated to Canada. The devastated man, who is of Yoruba descent, recounted his painful ordeal in a conversation with relationship adviser Adeolatalks, revealing how his wife, who hails from Edo, allegedly manipulated the Canadian justice system against him.

“I swear my wife ruined me in this country, and we just landed o,” he lamented, igniting mixed reactions across social media.

According to his detailed account, their marriage started to fall apart roughly four months after they arrived in Canada. He alleged that his wife accused him of domestic abuse, leading to serious legal consequences that have since upended his life in the new country.

“We ended up separating when we arrived in Canada about four months later. She even went as far as to involve me in the criminal justice system here, which is not sympathetic to claims of domestic abuse,” he stated.

Reflecting on his actions, the embattled doctor admitted that he may have exhibited controlling tendencies due to his seniority in age but insisted that he never physically harmed his wife.

“I admit we had arguments, and I accept that because I am older than her, I may have lorded some authority over her. My controlling behavior was wrong, and I apologize. But I never for once hit her. It felt to me like a setup,” he added.

Beyond the legal woes, he accused his estranged wife of financial irresponsibility, disclosing that she mismanaged a sum of approximately ₦10 million in Nigeria before their relocation. He explained that the funds were intended for her contribution to their proof of funds for permanent residency, but she allegedly squandered the money on personal expenses.

“She became entangled in a loan cycle of approximately ₦10 million, which she used for self-care over eight months. This money was meant for her personal contribution to the proof of funds for permanent residency, but she squandered it with nothing to show for it,” he lamented.

The doctor further claimed that his wife used their immigration process as leverage to demand more financial support, allegedly threatening not to travel with him and their children unless he covered the required proof of funds.

Their separation took a drastic turn when she reportedly secured a restraining order against him, barring him from any contact with her or their children.

“As I speak to you, I do not know where she lives, and I cannot talk to her because she issued a restraining order against me in this country, which she refused to lift even when asked by the government,” he said.

Expressing deep concern for his two young daughters, he revealed that his attempts at reconciliation have been fruitless and that his in-laws have chosen not to intervene.

“We have two little girls, and I am concerned about them. I have done my best to get her back, but she got the police to put a no-contact order on me from the very first day. Her family won’t get involved.”

He further alleged that his wife has since moved on and is now living with another man.

The heartbreaking revelation has sparked widespread debate on social media, with many expressing opinions on relationships, financial responsibility, and the challenges couples face after relocating abroad. While some sympathized with the doctor’s plight, others argued that there may be more to the story than he has shared.

 

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From Giant to Beggar: The Tragic Collapse of Nigeria Under APC Rule

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From Giant to Beggar: The Tragic Collapse of Nigeria Under APC Rule

 

By George Omagbemi Sylvester

 

Once hailed as the “Giant of Africa,” Nigeria now limps on broken legs — economically battered, politically rudderless, and morally bankrupt. It is no longer just the brain drain that should worry us; it is the soul drain. Nigerians — students, professionals, entire families — are fleeing not just to Europe or North America, but to Ghana, a nation we once dismissed as “small brother.” This is not just ironic. It is humiliating. And it is a direct consequence of the All Progressives Congress (APC) taking power in 2015.

 

From Giant to Beggar: The Tragic Collapse of Nigeria Under APC Rule

 

The APC’s takeover, starting with President Muhammadu Buhari in 2015, marked the beginning of a free-fall. What followed was a decade of despair, capped now by President Bola Ahmed Tinubu — another APC patriarch — who has inherited and worsened the crisis. The result? Every airport terminal has become a departure lounge for the talented, the young, and the fed up.

 

From Giant to Beggar: The Tragic Collapse of Nigeria Under APC Rule

 

A Decade of Despair: From Buhari

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Pro-democracy group tells Tinubu to declare a state of emergency in Zamfara over insecurity, political repression

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Pro-democracy group tells Tinubu to declare state of emergency in Zamfara over insecurity, political repression

Pro-democracy group tells Tinubu to declare a state of emergency in Zamfara over insecurity, political repression

 

 

 

The United Democratic Coalition (UDC) has called on President Bola Tinubu to immediately declare a state of emergency in Zamfara, citing worsening insecurity and a breakdown of democratic order in the state.

 

Pro-democracy group tells Tinubu to declare state of emergency in Zamfara over insecurity, political repression

 

The demand was contained in a statement on Friday signed by Abdulrahman Danladi, president of the coalition.

 

Danladi described Zamfara as “a state under siege,” accusing the state government of abandoning its constitutional duty to protect lives and uphold democratic principles.

 

“The situation in Zamfara has gone from troubling to terrifying. Armed groups operate freely, citizens are at the mercy of bandits, and yet those elected to speak up are being silenced,” the statement read.

 

He was referring to the recent suspension of 10 lawmakers in the Zamfara State House of Assembly, whom he said were punished for raising concerns about insecurity and illegal mining in their constituencies.

 

“What we are witnessing is not just lawlessness — it is executive tyranny. These lawmakers were elected by the people and have a duty to speak out. Instead of listening to them, the state assembly, clearly acting on orders, has shut them down,” Danladi said.

 

He likened the political tension in Zamfara to the recent situation in Rivers state, where Governor Siminalayi Fubara governed with just four lawmakers after a split in the House of Assembly — a scenario that prompted calls for federal intervention.

 

“If Rivers with four lawmakers sparked talks of emergency rule, how is Zamfara with 10 suspended lawmakers and spiraling violence, not a national concern?” Danladi asked.

 

“The same standard must apply. Democracy is being murdered in Zamfara in broad daylight. If the federal government could consider intervening in Rivers, it must not turn a blind eye to the breakdown in Zamfara.”

 

“We are calling for a six-month state of emergency in Zamfara to allow security forces to take control, restore peace, and return the state to constitutional order.”

 

The group also demanded the immediate reinstatement of the suspended lawmakers and an investigation into what it called “executive interference” in the legislature.

 

“This is not the time for political correctness. It is the time for leadership. The people of Zamfara are under siege — both by bandits and by those who should be protecting them,” the statement added.

 

Zamfara, one of Nigeria’s most troubled states, continues to face persistent attacks from armed groups, with thousands displaced and dozens killed in the past year alone.

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Ariya247 Exclusive : I Got Inspired Through Prayers, Says Ugochukwu Obi

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Ariya247 Exclusive : I Got Inspired Through Prayers, Says Ugochukwu Obi

Ugochukwu Innocent Obi was born into the family of Obi Okereke, originally from Uhuolugho Ngodo Isuochi in Umunneochi Local Government Area, Abia State, Nigeria. He was born in Ibeku, Umuahia, Abia State, and later moved to Lagos, where he spent a significant part of his early life.

In 2010, he relocated to the United States to further his career in government contracting, earning multiple certifications in the field. Currently, Mr. Obi is a contracting professional for the U.S. Department of Defense, as well as a preacher, author, and gospel artist.

His faith journey began in 1995 when he became born again, leading him to serve in pastoral roles across various countries. As a gospel artist, he has released several songs, including You Alone, Holy One, Elohim, Let Me See You, Let It Flow, The Light of Your Presence, Arise from the Wings, Spirit of the Living God, and I Give You Praise.

Speaking on his inspiration for gospel music, Mr. Obi shares, “My motivation comes from God. Whenever I pray, I hear the sounds of heavenly music and find myself singing new songs. My desire is to bring these divine melodies to life here on earth.”

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