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Struggles of a Newlywed Wife: Overwhelmed by the Constant Pressure of Intimacy

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Struggles of a Newlywed Wife: Overwhelmed by the Constant Pressure of Intimacy

 

A newlywed wife has opened up about the struggles she faces in her marriage, particularly the relentless demands of intimacy. In a post that has gone viral on the social media platform X (formerly Twitter), she shared her frustrations about how her husband’s constant desire for physical closeness leaves her feeling drained and overwhelmed. According to her, her body hasn’t had a moment of rest since she tied the knot, as her husband seems unable to accept a “no” when it comes to intimacy.

Struggles of a Newlywed Wife: Overwhelmed by the Constant Pressure of Intimacy

 

In her post, the woman described how her husband reacts when she declines his advances. She wrote, “Since I got married, my body hasn’t had any rest. When you say no, they frown and won’t talk to you all day. But the day you say yes, you’ll suddenly become the sweetest mango on the tree.” She explained how, despite her own feelings and mood, her husband’s desires always seem to come first. “Marriage is sweet, but this constant knacking is one of the hardest parts. Whether you’re well or not, in the mood or not, as long as ‘boss’ is in the mood, you’ll have to please him.”

 

In addition to her post, the woman shared a video on social media, where she spoke extensively about the pressures she faces in her marriage. The video quickly gained traction, and it wasn’t long before a flood of reactions poured into the comment section, sparking a broader conversation about relationships, intimacy, and personal boundaries.

 

Reactions from users were mixed, with some offering empathy and others expressing their opinions about the woman’s public sharing. One user, @Slanddi, sarcastically commented, “Na man wey marry her I pity, Toto wey no rest before marriage, abi she take marriage like Toto retirement?” Others, like Ms. Sweet Soul the Writer, criticized the woman’s decision to air her marital issues online, stating, “Omo, what won’t people do for clout on social media. People be acting like they fell from trees. If you lack self-respect, at least respect your husband & family members & keep somethings private. Eh.”

 

Meanwhile, some users offered a more empathetic perspective. @curator_hub wrote, “Now someone has finally come out to speak for the voiceless,” showing support for the woman’s openness about the emotional and physical toll that constant intimacy demands can have on a person. Others like @ozmoneyyy and @sulucious jokingly reminded her that it could be a phase, with @ozmoneyyy commenting, “Every gender get wetin dem dey go through, men’s pocket too never rest,” and @sulucious predicting, “No worry, your husband will soon tire and you’ll be the begging.”

 

However, some users were skeptical about the woman’s intentions, with @Sasky_Mali asking, “Who dey marry all this kind one sef? Must you do makeup, set ring light, wear dress, to talk about your marital sex life??” pointing out the oddity of her setup for sharing such intimate details online.

 

The post has ignited a larger conversation on the balance between intimacy and personal boundaries in marriage, as well as the complexities of marital expectations. While some individuals sympathize with the woman’s situation, others believe such matters should remain private, questioning the line between seeking support and sharing too much on social media. Regardless of the mixed reactions, her post has sparked an important discussion about the realities of marriage and the importance of mutual respect and understanding between partners.

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Opinion: It has become apparent that the forgotten Nollywood actress Doris Ogala is on a path to total destruction …

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Opinion: It has become apparent that the forgotten Nollywood actress Doris Ogala is on a path to total destruction
… her behavior is erratic

Doris Ogala, a fading actress in Nollywood, has lost credibility due to her recent claims that Dr. Chris Okafor is having an affair with her. Fortunately, the public no longer believes her false accusations and blackmail. Can Doris Ogala justify her actions, trying to destroy or blackmail Dr. Chris Okafor, her spiritual father, when she should be showing respect for her own father?

*A Brilliant Question Raises Eyebrows:*

Who is Doris Ogala’s father, and I assume the answer is that she has no father, because if she did, he would have provided guidance to help her avoid destructive paths and prevented her from making significant mistakes, as the scriptures clearly state, ‘Touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm.’ Notwithstanding Doris Ogala’s criticisms, they do not impact us in Grace Nation International, also known as Liberation City. Nonetheless, her actions may inadvertently lead to her own downfall, resulting in her demise

*Do her recent allegations demonstrate her method of blackmail?*

An exclusive investigation has uncovered that Dr. Chris Okafor is not the first individual to be accused by this person. Apparently, numerous men of God have faced similar accusations. The question arises: what is her objective? The seemingly obvious answer is nothing. This raises the question: why would a rational person engage in a non-profitable pursuit? It implies she has failed in her original calling in the perceived world, resorting to blackmail as a result

Doris Ogala, are you cognizant of the fact that your blackmail is ineffective against Grace Nation? I am certain that you monitor our services every Thursday midweek service and Sunday service, and you can see that every day, Grace Nation grows in numbers, with people flocking to the church because God is with Grace Nation.

Doris Ogala, you are ill-equipped to hinder God’s Movement. You have undoubtedly taken on more than you can handle, and you will ultimately face the consequences of your actions. When you witness the repercussions of your endeavors, your community will sympathize with you

Doris Ogala, I find it rather intriguing that you assert having traveled to heaven and received detrimental instructions from spirits. To which heaven, exactly, did you ascend? Do you honestly think that those who engage in blackmail can come close to heaven’s gate? It is not feasible. I recommend that you undergo treatment, as your actions may be symptomatic of health issues like malaria. Regardless of whether you opt to seek medical help or not, you will inevitably face the repercussions of your actions

You previously stated that you were very close to our father. Are you married? If so, where is your husband in relation to your close relationship with our father? Honestly, I’m not surprised, Doris Ogala. Unless you change, it’s unlikely that you’ll get married. Can a man be expected to marry someone perceived as being indiscriminate in her relationships due to financial motivations? May I ask you something?. Are you under the impression that our father will pity you and fall for these allegations? No, you are being dishonest. Dr. Chris Okafor cannot be deceived by this. Furthermore, did Dr. Chris Okafor have a prior relationship with you? All evidence suggests that he did not know you, and if he did, you would not have made such allegations. Nevertheless, I am not surprised, given the various allegations we have encountered within our church community

Approximately 4-5 years ago, while I was still residing in Nigeria, a lady attended our church, claiming that God had directed her to Grace Nation, as her husband, Dr. Chris Okafor, was a member. She physically attended the service, but when she didn’t receive the expected reaction, she attempted to take drastic measures. Unbeknownst to the congregation, she had brought fuel with her and proceeded to douse herself with it, intending to set herself ablaze. Fortunately, swift intervention by church members prevented a tragic outcome. She alleged that God had instructed her to visit Liberation City to meet her prospective husband, who was our revered leader. We have encountered numerous similar incidents, but your accusations, Doris Ogala, have crossed a boundary, and there will be consequences

In a functioning society, how would a woman unapologetically make such grave allegations in a public space against a genuine man of God who is known to have a family?. Ha-a-h! Doris Ogala you are a shameless and disgrace to womanhood, you are not worth to be addressed a woman in our society, because your behaviors and character not far from you dogs, give your life to Christ so that you will not perish in hell fire

Via this medium, I am appealing to individuals worldwide to ignore the baseless and unsubstantiated allegations against my father, Dr. Chris Okafor. Doris Ogala is a serial blackmailer, and her allegations are unfounded. I advise you, Doris Ogala. Your only chance for spiritual rejuvenation is to commit your life to Christ and be born again. It is essential that you promptly seek forgiveness from Dr. Chris Okafor, or risk facing prolonged adversity

On a final note: My heart goes out to your generation, and a gentle suggestion is sufficient for the perceptive.

Chuke Emmanuel writes from
Gambia

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RCCG Pastor Peter Oyediran Conveys a Peaceful Message during the Easter Celebration of Resurrection and Restoration

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RCCG Pastor Peter Oyediran Conveys a Peaceful Message during the Easter Celebration of Resurrection and Restoration

~By Oluwaseun Fabiyi

At Jesus House Huntsville, Alabama, USA, the Easter Sunday celebration was filled with love as Resident Pastor Peter Oyediran gave a powerful sermon on ‘He is not here; He has risen!’ drawing from Luke 24:6. “The grave proved incapable of holding Him, and now it similarly cannot hold us. We forego mourning; instead, we dance upon an empty grave. Victory is not expected; it has already been realized. This constitutes Resurrection. This personifies Jesus”.

In his efforts to spread his message to the people of Nigeria and the Christian faithfuls he highlighted the crucial role of peace and unity in fostering a harmonious society and a united country

Pastor Peter Oyediran of RCCG Jesus House Huntsville Alabama USA has sent warm Easter greetings to Christian faithfuls in Nigeria and beyond, emphasizing the importance of peace and unity within the Christian community

As we mark the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ, let us ruminate on the triumph of righteousness over wickedness and the gift of eternal life. May this festive occasion bring us nearer to God and to one another, as we uphold the tenets of love, compassion, and kindness that Jesus epitomized

The resurrection of Jesus Christ serves as a potent emblem of hope and renewal, underscoring the notion that even amidst adversity, opportunities for redemption and rejuvenation are always available

As a divinely appointed servant and resident pastor of RCCG Jesus House Huntsville, Alabama, USA, I am inspired by this message of hope and urge all Nigerians to hold on to it. As we celebrate Easter, let us not forget the importance of peace and unity in the country and in every community. Let us unite to create a just, equitable, and thriving society for everyone. May divine blessings be upon us all, and may we emerge more resilient and united than ever

I extend heartfelt greetings to our beloved Daddy GO Adeboye and fellow Pastors working together for the same purpose of kingdom service

May the true spirit of Easter inspire us to serve our local parishes and individual communities within our jurisdictions with unwavering dedication and integrity. May God’s peace be with us all, guiding us by the values of love, compassion, and kindness that Jesus taught us. Happy Easter!

RCCG Pastor Peter Oyediran Conveys a Peaceful Message during the Easter Celebration of Resurrection and Restoration
~By Oluwaseun Fabiyi

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Oluwaseun Fabiyi
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Hope Beyond the Cross: Folusoomosebi Foundation’s Easter Appeal

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*Hope Beyond the Cross: Folusoomosebi Foundation’s Easter Appeal

 

As Christians around the world commemorate the resurrection of Jesus Christ, the Folusoomosebi Care Foundation has extended warm Easter greetings to all Nigerians, urging reflection on the core values of hope, renewal, compassion, and selfless love that define the season.

In her Easter message, the Foundation’s Executive Director, Mrs Foluso Omoosebi, encouraged individuals and communities to embrace the deeper significance of the occasion—highlighting Easter’s message of enduring faith, resilience, and the triumph of light over darkness.

Hope Beyond the Cross: Folusoomosebi Foundation’s Easter Appeal

“Easter is more than a holiday; it is a powerful reminder that after hardship comes victory,” Omoosebi stated. “The resurrection of Christ challenges us to live lives filled with compassion, unity, and purpose.”

She emphasized that this sacred season presents a timely opportunity for healing, reconciliation, and a renewed commitment to collective well-being—especially towards supporting the less privileged and vulnerable.

“As we confront challenges as a nation and as individuals, let this season reignite our faith in a brighter, more inclusive future—one we can build together through acts of kindness, courage, and unwavering trust in God,” she added.

Omoosebi also used the opportunity to recognize the dedication of caregivers, partners, and volunteers who continue to work with the Foundation to improve lives across communities.

She reaffirmed the Folusoomosebi Care Foundation’s enduring commitment to humanitarian service, focusing on health, education, and social empowerment.

The Foundation concluded by wishing Christians and all Nigerians a peaceful and joyful Easter celebration, filled with renewed hope, strength, and love.

#HopeBeyondTheCross #FolusoomosebiCareFoundation #Easter2025 #HealingTogether #CompassionInAction

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