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Successful Marriage: What Ladies Must Know About Marriage

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Marriage is legally or formally recognized union of two opposite sex as a partner in relationship. The dream of every ladies is to get married to a man who will cherish, love, care for her. luckily if you have the marriage that you have always dreamt of!

Whether your marriage has been the best, or it is in need of repair, Sahara Weekly brought to you these principles which will improve your relationship. If you want a sweet home know  these principles below:

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband: some women raise their voice on their husbands, saying we both have equal right. truly you shared equal right but he is the head of the family, so you shouldn’t raise your voice on him whether he is the one at fault or not, its a sign of disrespect….. let him feel the headship as man.

2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends: It’s wrong for you to expose your husband’s weakness to your family or friend, whenever your husband is financial broke, assist him because u’re an help mate to him, assist him out of love and never insult or expose for that which you have done.

3). Never give attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you don’t know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women do not have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men: its very wrong for you to compare your spouse to others because you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never treat your husband’s friends badly: because you don’t like them, your husband is in the position to leave them and not you helping him by treating them bad.

6). Always perform your duties: Never let your maid take your position, always take care of your family don’t forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband & Be A Good Listener: As i said earlier not to allow your maid or anyone play your role at home, always take good care of your husband, give him your absolute attention and be a good listener, Good communication is bed rock of every happy home…..

8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed: Any time he comes home with nothing don’t blame him, rather encourage him.Be an encourager to him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife: your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted,be a prudent wife.

10). Sex: Never deny your husband Sex for any reason. You must give him when want’s it. It’s very important to Men, if you keep denying him, another woman takes over that duty.Expect with both understanding on not having it, No man can withstand on starvation for too long.

11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover: This is common among the single ladies comparing their spouse with their ex which is wrong. comparing your husband can cause commotion in your home that you may never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public gathering: its wrong for you to answer for your husband in public place, let him handle what is directed to him though he may answer for you in public.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children: A wise Women don’t  shout or challenge her husband in the present of the children.

14). Do not forget to help him be the best he can be,always be supportive.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on dressing appearance. And out there your husband is always seeing women who took their time on their looks.

17). Your parents, family, friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him if you earn more money than him?

19). If your idea work is  better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.

20). Don’t be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.

22). Laziness: A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body need’s a bath.

23). Food: Does your husband like a kind of meal? Also try something new. Always gives him delicious food in order for him not to eat outside because there are some ladies out there who snatch husband with Food. No man jokes with food.

24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment and resource as it comes.

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and visitor entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mentality about marriage.

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as much as the value you give to it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

29). You are never too old to influence your home postively. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family.

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Among His Peers, Oba Orin Saheed Osupa Stands Out : The Fuji Star’s Storytelling Legacy By Alhaji Arems

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Among His Peers, Oba Orin Saheed Osupa Stands Out : The Fuji Star’s Storytelling Legacy

By Alhaji Arems

 

In the vibrant world of Fuji music, where the artistry of storytelling and cultural commentary thrive, Saheed Osupa has carved out a unique role as both an artist and an influencer of thought. Recently, his name has been lighting up social media discussions and generating significant buzz—not just because of his music but because of the depth of his words. Osupa’s trending status is rooted in his ability to subtly address pressing issues, particularly those surrounding the ongoing tension between fellow Fuji musicians Taye Currency and Pasuma Wonder.

 

 

Osupa’s recent contributions to this situation have not been straightforward; rather, he has adopted an artistic approach, using parables and proverbs—sometimes through complex storytelling—to impart wisdom. These nuanced messages, often hidden within his lyrics, resonate with fans who appreciate the clever way he brings age-old Yoruba wisdom into contemporary issues. One notable example involves a story about an animal (traditionally symbolizing patience and resilience) that many believe reflects Osupa’s thoughts on rivalry and pride. Through this parable, he seems to suggest the importance of self-reflection and restraint, especially in the heat of conflict.

Among His Peers, Oba Orin Saheed Osupa Stands Out : The Fuji Star's Storytelling Legacy

By Alhaji Arems

In a genre that values not only musicality but also the power of words, Osupa has long been seen as a master of *itan*, or storytelling. His recent songs echo the traditional Yoruba way of imparting wisdom through tales that serve as lessons. This is a skill that few artists have mastered, making his approach particularly impactful in today’s fast-paced digital world, where nuanced messages can often be overlooked.

Beyond the Taye Currency-Pasuma Wonder issue, Osupa’s trending status is also due to his reputation as a voice of reason and maturity in Fuji music. As a genre that is often vibrant and full of competitive spirit, Fuji has its share of rivalries. Yet, Osupa has often stood out by promoting unity and peaceful dialogue among Fuji artists. By sharing these reflective stories in his music, he adds layers of meaning that fans continue to unpack and discuss, drawing new audiences who appreciate both the artistry and wisdom behind his words.

The charm of Saheed Osupa lies in his timeless approach. In a world where trends are fleeting, he reminds fans of the importance of timeless values, urging reflection, humility, and understanding. As fans interpret and share his latest stories, Osupa’s message continues to resonate widely—proof that, in Fuji, the power of words can be as influential as the beat of the drum.

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What You Need To Know About Award-Winning Nigerian Actor, Mustapha Sholagbade

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What You Need To Know About Award-Winning Nigerian Actor, Mustapha Sholagbade

 

Mustapha Ololade Sholagbade, born on January 1, 1989, in Ebute Metta, Lagos, is an accomplished Nigerian actor, producer, and filmmaker with a deep passion for Yoruba cinema. Originally from Abeokuta, Ogun State, he is the first child in his family. Sholagbade began his education at Kadara Primary School and continued at Sojomen Talabi High School, Akute, and Nawairudeen Secondary School, Ebute Metta. He later earned an Ordinary Narional Diploma in Business Administration from the Lagos State Polytechnic. Pursuing his passion for acting, he trained at Odunfa Caucus, where he graduated in 2010.

Sholagbade launched his acting career in 2005, making a name for himself in Yoruba-language films. His portfolio includes roles in popular films like Olowo Ghetto, Alaimo, Ebun Mi, Esi, Gold and Treasure, Liam, Emilomo Babaolowo, Oko Aunty Mi, Broken Bond (Tude), and Last Born. In addition to acting, he has also produced several films, further cementing his influence in the industry.

Beyond the entertainment world, Sholagbade is a versatile professional with experience in railway engineering, IT support, and site management in the UK. He is also a farmer and general merchant, demonstrating his entrepreneurial spirit and diverse skill set.

Throughout his career, Sholagbade has collaborated with top figures in Yoruba cinema, such as Yinka Quadri, Taiwo “Ogogo” Hassan, Funke Akindele, Femi Adebayo, Odun Adekola, Oga Bello, Baba Wande, Jide Kosoko, Funsho Adeolu, Fathia William Balogun, Saidi Balogun, Wunmi Toriola, and Mide Martins.

Sholagbade’s hobbies include traveling, business, football, filmmaking, and meeting new people, reflecting his dynamic and outgoing personality.

Sholagbade’s talent and dedication to his craft have earned him numerous accolades, including: Best Actor Yoruba – BON Awards, 2024, Best Supporting Actor– Afro Nollywood Awards, UK, 2019, Best Supporting Actor– Heritage Awards, Atlanta, USA, Best Supporting Actor of the Year (Yoruba) – City People Movie Awards, Best New Actor of the Year (Yoruba) – City People Movie Awards.

With his achievements and versatility, Mustapha Ololade Sholagbade remains a notable force in the Nigerian film industry and a proud ambassador of Yoruba cinema worldwide.

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Coalition Congratulates Oluyede on Appointment as Acting COAS

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Coalition Congratulates Oluyede on Appointment as Acting COAS

 

The Coalition of Civil Society Groups against Terrorism in Nigeria has congratulated Major-General Olufemi Oluyede on his appointment as the acting Chief of Army Staff, (Ag COAS, Nigerian Army).

Coalition Congratulates Oluyede on Appointment as Acting COAS

The Convener of the Coalition, Comrade Oladimeji Odeyemi, in a statement, said General Oluyede has the responsibility to consolidate the success achieved by the Nigerian Army under General Taoreed Lagbaja.

President Bola Tinubu had on Wednesday, October 30, appointed Oluyede as acting COAS pending the return of the indisposed substantive Chief of Army Staff, General Taoreed Lagbaja.

The Coalition said his appointment is a welcome development. It said: “Major-General Olufemi Oluyede is well qualified for the position. He was a member of the 39th regular course and commissioned as an officer in 1987. Aged 56, he was promoted to the rank of Major-General in September 2020. A professional and top-notch security expert, he brings a lot of hope and inspiration to younger officers as acting chief of Army Staff.

“His appointment is the way to go. As the acting Chief of Army Staff, Oluyede has the responsibility to lead an army that will administratively manage the institution, consolidate on the success achieved by General Lagbaja and his team to mop up remnants of insurgents, bandits and the ragtag criminal elements in the North, and dismantle the ethnic militias in the Southeast to bring peace in the country.

“The 56-year-old Oluyede shares a long history with General Lagbaja, with a track record and excellent service to the nation. Both are members of the 39th Regular Course and were commissioned as officers in 1987.

“Oluyede’s meritorious career began as a Platoon commander and adjutant at 65 Battalion, advancing to Company commander at 177 Guards Battalion and later Staff Officer at the Guards Brigade and commandant of Amphibious Training School.

“Oluyede has been part of many notable operations, including the ECOMOG Mission in Liberia, Operation HARMONY IV in Bakassi, and Operation HADIN KAI in the Northeast, where he commanded the 27 Task Force Brigade.

“He has received honours, including the Corps Medal of Honour, and Grand Service Star, all recognition for passing the Staff Course and membership in the National Institute, and his dedication and achievements in service.”

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