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8 Sneaky Ways To Know A Lady’s Feeling Horny Around You

Published

10 years ago

March 18, 2016

Can you ever tell if a girl is horny while hanging out with her? Well, if you know the right signs to watch out for, that would just be as easy as pie.

Ever heard of the popular saying that goes “When it comes to sex, men are like light switches while women are like car engines?” It implies that men would always be reliably ready for sex at any time of the day while women, on the other hand, need to get warmed up first to get things going. Well, when the opportunity presents itself when a woman is indeed horny and ready for action, men would be ironically oblivious to the signs of a golden opportunity.

Contrary to popular depiction of a sexually-aroused female, which entails ripped clothes and a ridiculous amount of dirty talk, the telltale signs of a horny girl are sometimes subtle and not readily recognizable to the rest of the observing world.

Remembering the playboy aphorism that “a horny girl is a good girl,” here are several behaviors displayed by a woman in the heat of passion for you to use to your advantage.

8 signs she’s feeling horny around you

Of course, we’re all aware of the physical signs of female horniness like getting wet down under and perky nipples even if she’s not cold. But in a casual setting, you can’t just approach her and feel her undies and peek through her blouse to check unless you’re asking for a sexual harassment case and a restraining order.

Instead, learn to detect her subtleties when she’s letting you know that she wants you to explore the bed sheets with you. Here we discuss the ways in which she subtly lets you know that she’s game.

She looks at you like a piece of well-done steak– otherwise known as “eye sex” or “eye f*cking,” this type of flirting is her long range strategy to let you know that she’s horny, or at least she’s willing to let you make a move on her.

You will notice that she will keep stealing seductive glances at you, wanting you to look back. And when you do, she’ll let herself get caught, blush, and she’ll then flash her “come hither” smile topped with the occasional lip bite. When this happens, don’t be an idiot. Get up, approach, and talk to her.

She’s flirtier than usual– okay, in this case we assume that you’ve established at least a neutral type of relationship with the said girl. You do the usual things that friends or acquaintances do, like hanging out and a little casual talk every now and then. And then, for some reason, you notice that she’s flirtier and more teasing than her usual personality would otherwise show.

Your suspicions would be further confirmed if she singles you out from the rest of the males around her. Flirting is an obvious sign that she’s aroused and that she wants your undivided attention. If that’s the case, you should reciprocate her flirting and go get into her game because you know, flirting could only escalate into something better.

She’s touchy and feely– another sign that she’s horny is when her hands travel to places where they usually don’t, and with it comes the distinct blurring of the lines between normal and unwelcome touching. But who are we kidding right? There is no “unwelcome touching” for girls in the male vocabulary. This doesn’t mean that she’ll grab your crotch immediately though. Her touching could be subtle yet a ritualized invitation for you to do the same to her, and she’s telling you that she won’t mind.

The several ways she can do this are by deliberately getting her face or body close to you, hugging, wrapping her arms around your waist or arm, the usual foot rubbing against your legs, or at times, whispering way too close to your ear for comfort.

Your conversations are kinkier than usual– if she’s asking way too personal questions or leaving suggestive remarks in the middle of your conversation, it could be a sign that she’s into you sexually. Verbal teasing is a dead giveaway that she’s horny because females are really notorious for using subtle and indirect signals, meaning that her needs are so urgent that she’s being direct.

She might do this by making sexual double entendres in the middle of an otherwise normal conversation, mention her preferred sexual positions and past sexual encounters, or ask you about your own past sexual experiences – intimate topics that girls wouldn’t normally open up to. The best way to respond is by keeping up with her talk one step back using only the right amount of sexual content to make her hornier.

She’s complimenting how good you look – in a normal situation, this behavior could be passed off as mere flirting, but if she’s sexualizing everything you do and objectifying you, then it’s another story. Being sexually objectified is normally frowned upon, but in every man’s subconscious, it’s a secret fantasy to be chased and hit on by lots of women.

Okay, maybe not that extreme, but women could do the same to the subject of their desire all the same. She could do this by mentioning how well developed your arms, chest, or shoulders are, or by complimenting how your new pants fit those buttocks perfectly, or oftentimes, ask you if you work out often so she can mention how she would want to sud you up and wash her thongs on your well-cut abs.

She’s uneasy in your presence– female arousal comes with various biological mechanisms in her body like increased heart rate and heavier breathing, creating a certain degree of discomfort, and hence, the reason why she says that she feels “hot.”

So let’s say that you’re on a date and she constantly shifts about in her seat while keeping her gaze at you, playing with her hair, or keeps going to the ladies room to freshen up, it could only mean that she’s into you and wants to get the best of your attention.

She flaunts her best assets to you– you’ve seen this before: the untying the hair clip, stooping down when talking to you to let you see her cleavage, wearing that V-neck with a push up bra, yoga pants, or fixing herself up for you even in a casual meet-up could only mean that she’s locked in to you.

If guys are the type to just to wear a shirt, pants, and sneakers, females, especially if she wants to get you, would present herself in her most attractive form in your presence. This means that every detail is carefully considered, from her dress down to her perfume. So appreciate her effort and make a move.

She lets you touch her– this could be described as the dead giveaway prior to the point of no return. Girls, even the most flirty ones, are very sensitive to unwelcome touching. So if you’re the daring type and would want to confirm if she really wants it, and she lets you touch her, then there is no need for further explanation because you know what comes next.

Be careful though, and start easy and carefully. Don’t just slide your hand inside her blouse. Make it more romantic and ritualized in order to build sexual tension for the both of you. Start with your hands around her waist, up to her arms, and caress her neck. Take note of the parts that she likes touched as she guides you further.

Women, even in the state of arousal, would prefer their men to act up and take the lead. The reason why she gives off these signs like a trail of rainbows is to let you know that she’s horny and wants you. So what are you going to do about it?

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Remembering Afeez Adeshina “Destiny Boy” : A Life of Promise, Music, And Quiet Impact ~ 1ST ELEVEN9JA TV

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2 weeks ago

January 23, 2026

Sahara Weekly

Remembering Afeez Adeshina “Destiny Boy” : A Life of Promise, Music, And Quiet Impact ~ 1ST ELEVEN9JA TV

By Alhaji Arems (Baba Fuji)

The Nigerian music scene is mourning the loss of Afeez Adeshina Ayinde, popularly known as Destiny Boy, whose passing has left a deep sense of grief among family, friends, and fans. Though his life was brief, his story is one marked by determination, creativity, and a steady rise driven by passion rather than noise. Destiny Boy passed away on January 17, 2026, at the age of 22, cutting short a journey that many believed was only just beginning.

Early Life And Background :

Afeez Adeshina was born on june 24, 2003, into the Adeshina family of Odo Rori Compound, Ayetoro Yewa, Ogun State, Nigeria. He was the son of Mr. Adeshina Kamorudeen and Mrs. Saidat Adeshina, raised within a close-knit family environment that shaped his values and character.

From an early age, Afeez was known for his calm demeanor and respectful nature. Those who grew up around him often describe him as gentle, focused, and quietly ambitious. Music became an outlet through which he expressed himself, long before public recognition followed. What began as interest and experimentation gradually turned into purpose.

Music Career And Creative Journey :

Known professionally as Destiny Boy, Afeez carved out his place in music through persistence rather than spectacle. He was deeply passionate about his craft and committed to growth, often collaborating and featuring in songs and music videos across Nigeria and beyond.

While he may not have been the loudest voice in the room, Destiny Boy earned respect for his work ethic and humility. He approached music with seriousness, seeing it not just as entertainment but as a path to building something meaningful. Colleagues and collaborators consistently describe him as hardworking, disciplined, and eager to learn — traits that set him apart in an industry often defined by fast success and fleeting attention.

His presence in multiple projects across different platforms reflected a steady upward movement. For many young creatives, Destiny Boy represented the quiet grind: showing up, improving, and letting the work speak.

Family Life And Personal Milestones :

Beyond music, Afeez embraced responsibility early in life. He got married to Oluwatoyin Adeshina, and their union was blessed with a son, Adeshina Usman Obatide, born on November 12, 2024. Becoming a husband and father added new depth to his life, grounding him further and reshaping his priorities.

Those close to him speak of his devotion to family and his desire to build a stable future. Balancing personal life with creative ambition was not always easy, but Afeez carried these responsibilities with maturity well beyond his years.

His Passing :

The news of Destiny Boy’s death on January 17, 2026, came as a shock to many. At just 22 years old, his passing raised a collective sense of loss — not only for what he had achieved, but for the potential that remained unrealized.

While details surrounding his death have been kept private, the impact has been deeply felt across his immediate community and within creative circles. Tributes have highlighted not only his music but his character: kind-hearted, respectful, and sincere.

Burial Arrangements :

The Adeshina family has announced that Afeez Adeshina Ayinde (Destiny Boy) will be laid to rest on:

Friday, January 23, 2026 :

Time : 2:00 PM

Venue : His father’s residence, Odo Rori Compound, Ayetoro Yewa, Ogun State

Family members, friends, colleagues, and well-wishers are expected to gather to pay their final respects and celebrate a life that, though short, left a meaningful imprint.

A Legacy Beyond Numbers :

Destiny Boy’s story is not one measured by chart positions or awards, but by consistency, humility, and quiet influence. He represented a generation of young Nigerian creatives navigating ambition, responsibility, and identity in real time.

In remembering Afeez Adeshina, many will recall a young man who showed up for his craft, valued his family, and treated people with respect. His journey serves as a reminder that impact is not always loud — sometimes, it is built patiently, one step at a time.

As he is laid to rest, his music, memories, and the lives he touched remain.

May his soul rest in perfect peace.

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Benin Summit Group Congratulates Rema, Shallipopi for Flying the Benin Flag at AFRIMMA Awards

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3 weeks ago

January 18, 2026

Sahara Weekly

Benin Summit Group Congratulates Rema, Shallipopi for Flying the Benin Flag at AFRIMMA Awards

The Chairman-in-Council of the Benin Summit Group, Earl Osaro Onaiwu, has congratulated celebrated music stars Rema and Shallipopi for their outstanding achievements at the recently concluded AFRIMMA Awards, where they emerged as shining ambassadors of the Benin Kingdom on the global entertainment stage.
Rema, ( Divine Justice Ikubor) the internationally acclaimed Afrobeats sensation of Benin extraction, carted home three prestigious awards, while fast-rising artiste Shallipopi ( Crown Uzama) also clinched one award, marking a moment of pride not just for Edo State but for the entire Benin Kingdom.

In a statement issued by the Benin Summit Group, Osaro Onaiwu described their victories as a powerful demonstration of Benin excellence, creativity, and global relevance.

“I commend and congratulate Rema and Shallipopi for putting the Benin Kingdom firmly in the global space through their talent, hard work, and discipline. Their achievements are a source of pride to our people and an inspiration to our youths,” Onaiwu said.

He noted that the success of Benin sons in the global entertainment industry reinforces the importance of nurturing creativity and supporting young talents across music, film, fashion, and other creative arts.

“These accomplishments show what is possible when talent meets opportunity and determination. Benin land is rich in creativity, and the world is beginning to take notice,” he added.

Osaro Onaiwu further urged other Benin sons and daughters, particularly those in the creative and entertainment sectors, to remain focused and strive for excellence, emphasizing that global recognition comes through consistency, hard work, and commitment to craft.

“I urge others to strive harder to excel. Let the achievements of Rema and Shallipopi motivate the next generation to dream bigger, work harder, and represent Benin with dignity and pride wherever they find themselves,” he said.

He reaffirmed the commitment of the Benin Summit Group to promoting unity, culture, and development, including the creative arts, which he described as a powerful tool for projecting the Benin heritage and identity to the world.

According to Onaiwu, celebrating the successes of Benin sons and daughters across various fields remains central to the group’s mission of fostering unity, pride, and collective progress within the Benin Kingdom and the diaspora.

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Why Everyone Is Talking About GICANA: The New Nigerian Drama Shaking YouTube

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4 weeks ago

January 12, 2026

Sahara Weekly

Why Everyone Is Talking About GICANA: The New Nigerian Drama Shaking YouTube

A powerful new Nigerian drama, GICANA, has made its debut during the Yuletide season, sending a strong social message while keeping audiences glued to their screens. The film, now streaming on Mustapha Sholagbade Television (MSTV) on YouTube, explores the dangerous consequences of transacting one’s body for money, portraying it as a risky game with far-reaching emotional and moral implications.

Produced by Almatin Limited, GICANA is directed by the creative duo of Olayemi Adeodu and Ayanbode Simon. The directors bring depth and realism to the story, carefully unpacking themes of desperation, survival, greed, and the silent battles faced by individuals pushed to the edge by circumstance.

The movie, which was shot in Canada and Nigeria, boasts a rich ensemble of industry talents who delivered compelling performances, including Remi Surutu, Dotun Adebanjo, Mustapha Sholagbade, Bukola Kiitan, Temidayo (Starboy), Dare Melody, Jumoke Fadipe, Queen Blessing Ebigieson, Adejoke Adesokan, and several others. Their performances added emotional weight and authenticity to the storyline, making GICANA both engaging and thought-provoking.

Behind the scenes, the production quality of GICANA stands out. Cinematography was handled by Director Keny and Abiodun Bukola, while Mr Perfect served as script supervisor. Sound was recorded by Idrissound, with lighting by Tomcity. Makeup was expertly done by Ifeoluwa Adejumo, and Muhammed Hussein brought the film’s environments to life as set designer.

Released at a time traditionally associated with celebration and reflection, GICANA uses the Yuletide season to challenge viewers to think deeply about societal pressures and the hidden dangers of quick money. The film is already generating conversations online, with viewers praising its message, performances, and strong moral undertone.

With its timely release and compelling narrative, GICANA is more than just a movie, it is a cautionary tale and a must-watch drama for audiences seeking meaningful African storytelling this new year.