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80 percent of Abusers of women with disabilities are very close to them,..says PLWDs while celebrating world international women day

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Start children development intitative ,an NGO, says it has embarked on measures to reduce poverty among the People Living with Disabilities (PLWDs) in Lagos

Its Manager, Mrs Adelani Fadeola, spoke with the journalist over the week that this month is the month to celebrate women all over the world because women are unique, beautiful and special with a lot of talent.

With our objectives starting this program since over five years now persons with disabilities is to assist them to be useful to the society not a liability and help reduce poverty among them.

According to her, persons with disabilities is being neglected, nobody remember them it take lot of effort to bring them together due to stigmatiztion many of them is married with children they are human being. It was during awareness program that those with talents was discovered, initially all this talents is being hiden, through such programs we discover what they have and to offer to the society. Government should support and assist them with something to boost their businesses.

One of the speaker, Mrs Foluke Ademokun with the :topic Disability Gender-Based Violence :Protecting Women&Girls with Disabilities in Nigeria -Our Priority is represented by Ihuoma Sussan Kelechi, delivery her speech noted that people do not speak out in term of physical and domestic violent ,the awareness is still low

Ihuoma said that over 80 percent of person with disabilities abuser is very close to them, right inside with them, people do not understand that our abuser is right with us, these are issues they faced on daily basis, it is problem without protection and nobody want to understand us. “I am adult living with disabilities, I was not born with disabilities but as a result of Polo survival”.she said.

Most time terrible things happen to us, due to culture which is another problem of it own, our abuser keep abusing us physically, emotionally, finicanally we keep quite,we do not let people know about it because they are closed to us.

Narrating her ordeal when growing up as a child, it was domestic violent,a kind of conversation I am hearing make me feel bad, psychological down. Then there was no awareness or much of it so any person with disability the family tag that child a liability or evil,i have grown pass that stage with God every impossibilities become possible.

I join the campaign to enlighten the public that PLWDs need to be equip with skills so that they could have access to available opportunities. Our major challenges is infrastructural barrier it is difficult task it need urgent attention, with polities that will work, protect and also deserve social protection and polities that will implement.

She noted that in national level the bill have been passed yet notting is going on about it, but only Lagos State have sign it into law but not implemented, if the bill is not implement how are we going to benefit from it.

Another speaker Mrs Emmanuella Akinola, who spoke on Maintaining Sustainable livelihood :An Entrepreneurship Pathway For Women With Disabilities -Discuss,said person with disability need to be entrepreneur and have to understand the type of business he or she want to execute before embarking on it. A person with disabilities have a lot of opportunities.

Nowadays with the help of technology person with disability will excel if they know what type of businesses they want to invest on especially women with disabilities have greater opportunity in some cases, disability itself is recruiting if the person is highly skilled.

I am living with person with disability government should not abandon them, I’m appealing to them so that they should rethink and reconsider them in any subsequent job.

Also speaking, a brand Ambassador and co-ordnatior,Start Children Development Intitative, Assumpta Khalin, said we use this occasion to celebrate women on international women day and also reiterated the commitment of the foundation which is to ensue persons living with disabilities is not at a disadvantage in the society due to their condition.

With the support from Zenith Bank plc since last two years many have benefited with grant to boost their businesses, we will continue to do our best efforts and utilities the grants and while we are still appealing with other relevant stakeholders to support persons living with disabilities to break down barriers

Also government could do what it is expected to do, as the society is collaborating in that process, poverty among PLWDs would be greatly reduced,even, those who beg for alms on the roads would be positively impacted.

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Bold. Beautiful. Unapologetically Hanna NG. 👑 — Where grace meets greatness. #HannaNG #BeautyWithPurpose #ModelVibes #PageantQueen #FearlesslyFeminine #EleganceInMotion

Bold. Beautiful. Unapologetically Hanna NG. 👑
— Where grace meets greatness.

 

Bold. Beautiful. Unapologetically Hanna NG. 👑 — Where grace meets greatness. #HannaNG #BeautyWithPurpose #ModelVibes #PageantQueen #FearlesslyFeminine #EleganceInMotion

#HannaNG #BeautyWithPurpose #ModelVibes #PageantQueen #FearlesslyFeminine #EleganceInMotion

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Nigerian Travel Creator Alma Asinobi Falls Short of Guinness World Record Due to Visa Delays

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Nigerian Travel Creator Alma Asinobi Falls Short of Guinness World Record Due to Visa Delays

Nigerian Travel Creator Alma Asinobi Falls Short of Guinness World Record Due to Visa Delays

Nigerian travel content creator Alma Asinobi may not be setting a new Guinness World Record for the fastest journey across all seven continents after visa-related delays prevented her from reaching Sydney, Australia, within the required time.

In an Instagram update on Sunday, Asinobi, who is still en route to Sydney, confirmed that her total journey time would be 71 hours and 35 minutes, falling short of the current record of 64 hours, set in February 2025 by American veteran Johnny Cruz Buckingham.

Reflecting on her attempt, she noted that had she been competing against the previous record of 73 hours, set by Indian travelers in 2022, she would have surpassed it. However, multiple setbacks meant that by the time she made her announcement, she had already spent 63 hours, 54 minutes, and 33 seconds traveling, making it impossible to surpass Buckingham’s 64-hour record.

Asinobi faced numerous obstacles throughout her attempt, particularly due to visa restrictions associated with her Nigerian passport. One of the major setbacks occurred when she was denied boarding on her flight to Perth, Australia, forcing her to rebook on a later flight to Sydney.

In her Instagram post, she reflected on the challenges she encountered, including unexpected disruptions such as the Heathrow Airport fire that further complicated her travel plans.

“So close, but so far away. I may not have won this one, but we can sure win the next one together,” she wrote. “My eyes may be swollen from all the tears I’ve cried, but I promise to find moments of laughter in between.”

Despite the setback, Asinobi emphasized that her journey was about more than just breaking a record. She expressed hope that her attempt would inspire others to take on challenges, regardless of the limitations they face.

“When I land, we will catch up on lives and pour our hearts out to each other. For now, let’s finish this! I really hope this attempt was worth something for a Nigerian out there,” she added.

Now shifting her focus to her homecoming event on March 30, Asinobi aims to set another record by gathering Nigerians to sign a national flag in solidarity.

“We still have one more record to break at the homecoming event on March 30, where we will make history by signing our Nigerian flag,” she wrote. “I can’t wait to see you all there. I totally and physically cannot do that one without you, so please show up for me.”

Throughout her journey, Asinobi has been vocal about the difficulties Nigerian passport holders face, including complex visa requirements, expensive travel arrangements, and last-minute flight cancellations. Her experience has sparked widespread discussions on passport inequality and the barriers restricting global mobility for citizens of certain countries.

While she may not be taking home the Guinness World Record, Asinobi’s attempt has garnered widespread support, with many rallying behind her efforts.

“You did win! A personal win, a win for Nigerians, a win for me as a fellow Black girl navigating the world without passport privilege,” one supporter commented on her post.

Despite the challenges, Asinobi remains determined to continue making history and inspiring others to push beyond their limitations.

 

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Those who wronged you may never say “I’m sorry” – Prudent Ludidi

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Those who wronged you may never say “I’m sorry” – Prudent Ludidi

 

 

Ladies and gentlemen,

Today, I want to talk about something that can be difficult to accept, those who wronged you may never say “I’m sorry.”

 

Those who wronged you may never say "I'm sorry" - Prudent Ludidi

We’ve all been hurt by someone at some point in our lives. And often, we hold onto that hurt, and hope in waiting for the person who wronged us to acknowledge their mistake and apologize.

But the truth is, that apology may never come.

It’s hard to accept because we feel like we deserve closure. We deserve to hear that the person who hurt us regrets their actions.

But closure is not something someone else gives you. Closure is something you give yourself.

You have the power to choose:

Choose to heal, even if they never acknowledge their wrongdoing
Choose to move forward, even if they never make amends

Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting what happened. Forgiveness means releasing the hold that person has on you.

Forgiveness means taking back control of your life.

You don’t need someone else’s apology to move on. You don’t need someone else’s validation to heal.

You are strong enough to do it on your own.

And when you do, you’ll find peace. You’ll find freedom.

Remember, holding onto anger and resentment only hurts you. It doesn’t change the past.

But forgiveness can change your future.

So, don’t wait for someone else to say “I’m sorry.” Say it to yourself: “I’m sorry that happened to me, but I’m moving forward.”

Say it loud and clear: “I deserve to heal. I deserve to be happy.”

Take back your power. Take back your life.

Move forward with courage and faith.

You got this.

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