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Giving Up Is Not an Option: The Power of Reinvention and Relentless Pursuit of Purpose
Giving Up Is Not an Option: The Power of Reinvention and Relentless Pursuit of Purpose.
By George Omagbemi Sylvester
In a world filled with turbulence, uncertainty and brutal distractions, many abandon their life’s mission at the first sight of adversity. Dreams dissolve like vapor not because they are unattainable, but because the dreamers grow weary. Relaxing or giving up on a mission you want to achieve is nothing but a sign of laziness, cowardice and a shallow understanding of life’s process. As harsh as it sounds, this truth must be stated boldly: WINNERS NEVER QUIT and QUITTERS NEVER WINS.
To abandon your mission is to betray your own destiny. It is to lay your future at the feet of mediocrity. History is replete with examples of those who persisted and changed the course of humanity and those who perished in the valley of excuses. The difference between success and failure often boils down to persistence. As Thomas Edison famously said, “Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”
Adversity Is Inevitable, but So Is Growth
Pain is not your enemy. Failure is not your nemesis. In fact, every obstacle is an invitation to greatness. It is life’s way of testing your resolve. Nothing in this life is final not even success, not even failure and not even suffering.
Everything is in motion and everything that happens to you is happening for you. What looks like defeat today is often a redirection to a more purposeful path.
According to Dr. Samuel Ekundare, a Human Kinetics expert and motivation coach, “The body achieves what the mind believes. When the muscles cry for rest, the mind must shout louder: ‘Not yet!’” Human physiology supports this assertion. The principle of progressive overload in strength training teaches us that muscles grow only when pushed beyond their limit, they tear, they hurt, but eventually they rebuild stronger.
So it is with purpose. The more you are stretched the more capable you become of achieving greatness.
Laziness in the Face of Purpose Is the Real Tragedy
It is laziness, not fate that kills dreams. Not the kind of laziness that sleeps all day, but the refined version: PROCRASTINATION, fear of failure, reliance on comfort and mental indiscipline. “A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest and poverty will come upon you like a thief,” says Proverbs 24:33-34.
When you give up or settle too soon, it is not life that has defeated you, it is your mind that has betrayed you. Pastor Paul Adefarasin once declared, “Comfort is the enemy of progress. You cannot be called to greatness and expect to remain in your comfort zone.”
Even in Islamic teachings, perseverance and hard work are divine commands. Sheikh Dr. Yasir Qadhi, a renowned Islamic scholar, once said:
“Our Prophet (peace be upon him) faced loss, betrayal and mockery, yet he never gave up. He turned obstacles into stepping stones. That is the Sunnah of success.”
The Holy Qur’an reinforces this principle:
“Indeed, Allah does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.” (Qur’an 13:11)
This verse emphasizes the necessity of personal responsibility, action and persistence. Nothing IMPROVES until you do.
Reinvention: The Birthplace of Dreams
When life hits you hard, the answer is not retreat, it is reinvention. You were not made to collapse; you were designed to evolve. Every failure, every rejection, every betrayal is raw material for the new you. Nelson Mandela, who spent 27 years in prison, once said, “Do not judge me by my success, judge me by how many times I fell down and got back up again.”
Reinvention is the art of shedding the past while holding onto your vision. It is about becoming the embodiment of your dreams and desires. When you refuse to give up, you send a signal to your soul: “I still believe in you.” And that belief alone is powerful enough to move mountains.
Neuroscience supports this. Studies in Frontiers in Psychology show that neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to rewire itself becomes more active in adversity when paired with intentional focus. This means you are biologically wired to grow after failure not to shrink.
Faith, Fitness and the Fire Within
The spiritual and physical dimensions of perseverance are deeply connected. The Apostle Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 9:27, “I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should.” Just as athletes train relentlessly for fleeting medals, you must train your mind and spirit for eternal impact.
Bishop T.D. Jakes once thundered, “You cannot conquer what you are not willing to confront.” Life’s challenges are not designed to defeat you. They are crafted to reveal you, the real you, the one who has courage, tenacity and a fire that cannot be quenched.
Islam teaches the same. Imam Suhaib Webb, a popular American Islamic scholar, once said:
“You cannot expect the sweetness of success without tasting the bitterness of struggle. Even the Prophets faced trials but they never surrendered.”
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was orphaned, mocked, exiled and attacked, yet he pressed on. He never abandoned his mission. He said:
“The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak one, even though there is good in both.” (Sahih Muslim 2664)
Reignite the Fire
So how do you keep going when life is screaming for you to stop? How do you move forward when the results are not showing yet?
Remember why you started.
Purpose is fuel. Go back to the original fire that ignited your journey.
Surround yourself with fighters.
Motivation is contagious. Stay close to people who push limits not make excuses.
Reframe failure as feedback.
Every failed attempt is data, it teaches, sharpens and redirects.
Invest in your physical and spiritual health.
Exercise. Pray. Fast. Rest. Your body and soul must be in sync.
Speak life.
Your words shape your reality. Stop saying “I can’t.” Start declaring, “I will.”
It Is Not Over Until You Win
Les Brown, one of the world’s most acclaimed motivational speakers, said it best: “It’s not over until I win.” That is the mentality that separates legends from losers. The world is not waiting for your excuses, it is waiting for your example.
Giving up is easy. Anyone can do it. But pushing through when it hurts, believing when you see no results, trusting when the storm clouds gather that’s the stuff of greatness.
As Pastor E.A. Adeboye once stated: “If God gave you the vision, He will give you the provision. But He expects you to walk by faith, not by sight.”
And in the words of Sheikh Abu Yusuf Riyadh Ul Haq, a leading British Islamic scholar:
“Life will test you. But in every hardship lies an opportunity to return stronger. The believer never loses he either wins or learns.”
Final Word: You Are the Embodiment of Destiny
You are not just a human being. You are a carrier of purpose. You are the answer to someone’s problem. You are a blueprint for someone else’s breakthrough. But all of this becomes possible only if you keep going. Life is a marathon not a sprint. You must pace yourself, encourage yourself and above all, REFUSE to QUIT.
Reinvent yourself. Refuse to relax until the mission is accomplished. Nothing in this life is final, except the moment you stop trying.
So keep pushing. Keep praying. Keep building. You are becoming the embodiment of every dream and desire your soul has ever imagined.
FRSC@ 38: SHEHU MOHAMMED STEERING NIGERIA’S ROAD SAFETY REVOLUTION TO GREATER HEIGHTS
By Deputy Corps Marshal Bisi Kazeem (Rtd) fsi, MNIM, anipr
When Mallam Shehu Mohammed assumed leadership as Corps Marshal of the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC), he inherited not just an institution with history, but a national mandate that touches every family, every highway, and every community in Nigeria. At 38 years, the Corps stands tall as Africa’s model road safety agency, and under his stewardship, that legacy is not merely preserved, it is being boldly redefined.
Nigeria’s highways were once synonymous with fear. Before 1988, the World Health Organisation ranked Nigeria among the most dangerous countries in the world to drive. It was a troubling indictment that demanded courage and clarity of purpose. The establishment of the FRSC under Decree No. 45 of 1988 laid the foundation for reform. But sustaining and advancing that reform across decades requires visionary leadership, the kind now exemplified by Mallam Shehu Mohammed.
Today, under his command, the Corps is consolidating its position as one of the most technologically advanced and operationally efficient law enforcement institutions in Nigeria. With renewed strategic focus, the present leadership has deepened the Safe Systems Approach built on people, processes, and technology, ensuring that safety interventions are not reactive, but preventive and intelligence-driven.
One of the defining hallmarks of his administration is accelerated digital transformation. Within six months, over 3,000 personnel were trained to strengthen operational competence and technological adaptability. More than 95 per cent of the Corps’ administrative and operational processes are automated, supported by over 30 web-based applications that enhance traffic governance nationwide. From the National Crash Reporting Information System (NACRIS) to the upgraded e-ticketing platform, innovation is no longer optional; it is institutional culture.
Emergency response under the current Corps Marshal has become faster and more coordinated, with nationwide response time reduced dramatically from 50 minutes to 15 minutes. The 122 toll-free emergency line and 24-hour National Call Centre continue to serve as lifelines for distressed road users, reflecting a leadership that understands that every second counts.
Strategic stakeholder engagement has equally flourished. Safe corridor initiatives have been strengthened, collaboration with transport unions intensified, and enforcement around articulated vehicles tightened. The result is a significant reduction in tanker-related crashes, a development that speaks to deliberate policy direction and disciplined implementation.
Under Mallam Shehu Mohammed’s leadership, data has become a central pillar of enforcement and planning. Through strengthened collaboration with the National Identity Management Commission, the National Bureau of Statistics, and the Nigeria Customs Service, the Corps has advanced harmonized data systems that support evidence-based interventions. Transparent weekly crash trend reporting now guides targeted deployment and corrective strategies.
Nigeria’s standing on the global stage has also been reinforced. The country remains an active participant in the renewed UN Decade of Action for Road Safety (2021–2030) and continues alignment with international road safety conventions. These achievements build on the solid foundation laid by past leaders from Olu Agunloye and General Haladu Hannaniya to Chief Osita Chidoka, Dr. Boboye Oyeyemi, and Dauda Ali Biu, but under the present Corps Marshal, the momentum has unmistakably intensified.
Operationally, the Corps’ footprint now spans 12 Zonal Commands, 37 Sector Commands, over 300 Unit Commands, over 700 Station Offices, 59 Zebra Emergency Ambulance Points, and presence in all 774 Local Government Areas of Nigeria. Yet beyond physical structures lies a stronger institutional spirit, one driven by discipline, professionalism, and accountability.
From a nation once ranked among the most unsafe for motorists to a continental pacesetter in road safety management, Nigeria’s transformation story is inseparable from the strength of its leadership. At 38 years, FRSC is not simply celebrating longevity; it is celebrating purposeful stewardship.
Mallam Shehu Mohammed represents a generation of reform-minded leadership committed to smarter mobility systems, data-driven enforcement, and people-centered safety administration.
His tenure reflects continuity with courage sustaining the Corps’ proud legacy while boldly steering it toward greater innovation and measurable impact.
The road ahead is demanding. But under his steady command, Nigeria’s highways are safer, its systems smarter, and its future brighter.
Fashion/Lifestyle
Introducing “Atupaglowco” : Where Fragrance Meets Feeling; The Story of Our Beginning
Introducing “Atupaglowco”: Where Fragrance Meets Feeling; The Story of Our Beginning
Every great journey begins with a sense of anticipation. For us, it began with a simple belief that a space should do more than exist, it should speak comfort and glow.
In a world filled with noise, stress, and endless motion, we realized something powerful. Fragrance can transform not just rooms, but moods. A familiar scent can calm anxiety. A warm aroma can turn a house into a home. A gentle glow can bring peace after a long day. This realization gave birth to “Atupaglowco.”
Atupaglowco was not created to sell diffusers, room sprays, or candles. It was created to create experiences. To create moments. To create atmospheres where people can breathe, reflect, and feel whole again.
The name itself represents more than a brand. It represents warmth. It represents light. It represents presence. We remember the early days, the planning, the testing of scents, the moments of doubt, and the moments of excitement. Each candle poured was a step of faith. Each fragrance blended was a piece of our vision coming to life. We weren’t just building products; we were building something meaningful.
Our diffusers were designed to quietly fill spaces with elegance.
Our room sprays were crafted to instantly refresh and revive environments. Our candles were made to bring calm, beauty, and a soft glow into everyday life.
Atupaglowco was born from passion, patience, and purpose. This launch is not just the start of a business. It is the start of a movement to help people create spaces they love. Spaces that inspire rest. Spaces that inspire joy. Spaces that glow.
We believe fragrance is personal. We believe glow is emotional. We believe every space deserves both.
Today, we proudly introduce Atupaglowco to the world.
This is only the beginning.
Ajadi Hails Oyo Speaker Ogundoyin at 39, Describes Him as Beacon of Purposeful Leadership
A leading governorship aspirant of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) in Oyo State, Ambassador Olufemi Ajadi Oguntoyinbo, has congratulated the Speaker of the Oyo State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Adebo Edward Ogundoyin, on the occasion of his 39th birthday, describing him as “a symbol of resilience, maturity and purposeful leadership in Nigeria’s democratic journey.”
In a congratulatory message made available to journalists on Tuesday, Ajadi praised Ogundoyin’s steady rise in public service, noting that his emergence as Speaker at a relatively young age reflects the possibilities of responsible youth leadership when combined with discipline, vision and service.
“Rt. Hon. Ogundoyin’s leadership has shown that age is not a barrier to excellence,” Ajadi said. “At 39, he stands tall as one of the most impactful Speakers in Oyo State’s history—calm, inclusive and deeply committed to democratic ideals.”
Ogundoyin, who represents Ibarapa East State Constituency under the Peoples Democratic Party, has served as Speaker since 2019 and was re-elected to lead the 10th Assembly in June 2023. His tenure has been marked by legislative stability, improved executive–legislative relations and youth-inclusive governance.
Ajadi commended the Speaker for fostering unity within the Assembly and prioritising laws that strengthen grassroots development across Oyo State. “His humility, accessibility and focus on people-oriented legislation have earned him respect beyond party lines,” he said. “He exemplifies the kind of leadership Oyo State needs—one anchored on service, accountability and progress.”
The governorship aspirant further described Ogundoyin as a rallying point for young Nigerians aspiring to public office. “In a country searching for credible leaders, Ogundoyin’s story offers hope,” Ajadi added. “He has shown that when young leaders are trusted with responsibility, they can deliver stability and results.”
Ajadi wished the Speaker many more years of good health, wisdom and greater service to Oyo State and Nigeria at large, praying that his leadership journey continues to inspire a new generation of public servants.
Ogundoyin, one of the youngest Speakers in Nigeria, has continued to attract goodwill messages from political leaders, civil society actors and constituents, as Oyo State marks another year in the life of a lawmaker widely regarded as a steady hand in the state’s legislative affairs.
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